Northern Myanmar: Years of Dehumanization

The wedding day was January 11, 2011.

I remember that day very clearly. It was sunny and windy, with no clouds in the sky, and everything looked so beautiful.

It's around 7pm.

"Relax, don't be nervous, you will get to this point, take a deep breath, haha..."

The one-eyed insect stood in front of me in a suit, looked at me who looked a little unnatural, and comforted me.

However, his expression became more nervous. He said he was asking me to take a deep breath, but he looked extremely nervous.

"It seems that I will get married later, right?"

I looked at the nervous one-eyed insect, twitched the corner of my mouth, and said to the one-eyed insect.

Why is this guy making more and more drama for himself?

"Huh? Yes, why should I be nervous?"

When the one-eyed insect heard my words, he also reacted, with confusion in his eyes and a sense of relief and joy at the same time.

"This is a question for you, your great cleverness!"

I glanced at the one-eyed worm, and the meaning was self-evident.

This one-eyed worm is still not very smart, or in other words, he is too concerned about my affairs.

Gee, the first reason is more believable.

With the help of the light, I saw that the rooms in the park were all decorated in red. I took a deep breath and suppressed my inner excitement.

As the bride, Xiao Xun is next door. This place is on the fourth floor. I will carry her down in a while.

They were carried to the playground, and with the blessings of those dogs, Sister Feng presided over the wedding ceremony.

Actually, I was a little shy and told Sister Feng that I wanted to be more low-key and there was no need to do this.

However, Sister Feng told me that these were done for Xiao Xun, not for me.

For a woman to get married, it doesn't matter if she doesn't have any conditions. Of course, it can be done simply.

However, if you have the conditions, of course you must give the girl a perfect wedding, which can also reflect the importance you attach to the girl.

Although I don't really agree with this, do you really want to show your sincerity in this way?

But I showed my respect. Since Sister Feng wants to do it this way, then this is the way it should be.

After I checked the time, I looked at the time. It was almost time, and then I went to pick up Xiao Xun from the girls' dormitory.

If you were in your hometown, it would be very difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, and you would have to face all kinds of difficulties.

But here, I easily carried Xiao Xun on my back.

Xiao Xun looked particularly beautiful today in a red bridal gown.

The girls in the girls' dormitory were all dressed up beautifully today, but they were far inferior to Xiao Xun.

There is a saying that every married girl is the most beautiful.

Of course, Xiao Xun is no exception. Those girls are inferior to Xiao Xun.

Don’t rule out the fact that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Originally, the suit should be matched with the white wedding dress, but my inherent thinking in rural areas is that white is only worn for casual occasions.

Appearing on this occasion really made me a little uncomfortable.

I was not arbitrary. I asked Xiao Xun before making the decision, and Xiao Xun agreed.

Carrying Xiao Xun on my back, I didn't feel tired at all, and I carried her downstairs in one breath.

Xiao Xun was not heavy to begin with, but in this case, he seemed even lighter.

After a while, I brought Xiao Xun to the playground.

The lights of the park brighten up the place.

There are many people here in the playground, and banquets have been set up.

This playground is big enough to accommodate so many people.

Walking on the red carpet, we came to the place where Sister Feng gave a speech.

Sister Feng today has obviously also put on makeup.

Later I learned that what Sister Feng said was really not nonsense. She really liked Xiao Xun.

The reason why Sister Feng plays sports with men outside is not entirely out of sexual desire. In fact, it is also because she can't sleep.

Xiao Xun's psychological counseling plays a role in helping sleep.

Then Sister Feng picked up the phone and started talking about the marriage process.

It is also the same as a normal wedding ceremony, and even better than some hosts.

I even suspected that Sister Feng had done this before.

We didn’t worship our parents. We were kidding. We weren’t even here. How could we worship?

Of course, this plot was ignored, and then the next step was entered.

Sister Feng asked the dogs to stand up, and the leader expressed congratulations to us.

To be honest, the scene was a bit shocking, there were thousands of people!

Even though it’s a bit perfunctory, I can’t stand the crowd!

When it's over, it's time to serve food.

It also saves me the part of toasting. Just kidding, if you go to toast with so many tables, you will be very tired.

Besides, no one else has the money to give it to you!

Our seats are naturally not in this place, but in a private room in the park.

Generally, supervisors, managers and team leaders with outstanding performance are here.

Sister Feng is at the same table with us this time.

The managers were not asked to sit over.

Of course, today is different from the past. If they are having a meal or something, Sister Feng may sit with Jiang Jun and the others. After all, they are the management, so it is better to get acquainted with each other.

However, Xiao Xun and I are getting married today, and now it is my home court, so Sister Feng will do as the Romans do.

"It's really an advantage for you, kid, to be able to deceive Xiao Xun, little girl."

At the dinner table, Sister Feng glanced at me and said teasingly.

"We are in love, how can we lie?"

After hearing what Sister Feng said, I felt a little unhappy and frowned to retort.

"Yes, yes, you are the most charming!"

When Sister Feng heard what I said, she also had another wave of yin and yang on me.

"Okay, let's eat, otherwise it will be cold soon!"

My face turned dark, I was afraid that Sister Feng would accidentally reveal what happened between us.

In that case, will the wedding scene soon turn into a divorce scene?

In that case, I would not be able to afford it.

When Sister Feng was almost drunk and didn't complain any more, I took Xiao Xun and left here.

It's a nice name, help Xiao Xun tidy up his clothes.

The wedding room was still on the fourth floor, which was the room at the back of Qin Xue's floor.

It is inappropriate for a young couple to live with other people.

Simply, he moved to the next room.

There is no need to worry about the inconvenience of Xiao Xun going downstairs when he turns around to reveal his pregnancy. They can completely let Mo Mo and the others take care of Xiao Xun.

And I’m here too, so it’s okay to do it myself.

After arriving in the room, Xiao Xun closed the door.

This is something I didn't expect. I sent four. I really didn't think about that.

I just want to bring Xiao Xun to this place to chat for a while.

After all, Xiao Xun already has it, and I can still control my behavior.