After picking up a system

You can enter the school in September.

In the following days, Ling Han continued to set up the stall. She seldom did business outside. When she did have business, it was basically on weekends because that was the time when working people had time to relax.

Ling Han didn't sell food and didn't have a license to work, so she was afraid.

It seems that we always think about an exciting life when things are ordinary, and a plain life when things are unstable.

In life, we should be brave enough to try new things so as not to leave any regrets.

……

Ling Han went out to study again, and Ms. An was the only one left at home again.

The tutor she had learned about in advance had already recruited enough students, so she was transferred to another tutor.

Ling Han's mentor is an old man with gray hair. He seldom teaches people and only accepted two people this year.

Ling Han was very glad that her tutor was a teacher of the same major, otherwise she would probably have to start all over again.

Although there is a big difference between what graduate students learn and what they learn in college, Ling Han has always been moving in this direction. If there is a sudden change, she really doesn't know what to do.

The tutor was a person who was devoted to scientific research, and so were the students of the same grade. Ling Han was entrusted to a senior brother who was already in his third year of graduate school. The senior brother's ambition was to take the civil service exam, so he was not so obsessed with scientific research, but he was still willing to guide Ling Han.

Apart from attending classes, Ling Han basically never sees his tutor. If he has any questions, he asks his senior brother. If his senior brother can't solve the problem, he will go to his tutor.

Ling Han quite likes this learning mode. She doesn't have any difficult or complicated questions. She will first look for the answer by herself, and generally speaking, she will be able to find it.

Time flies. After several rounds of holidays and school reopenings, Ling Han is about to graduate. The studio with the teacher as the main figure has attracted funding from a big brand and is thriving.

Ling Han also planned to take the civil service exam due to the influence of Xun Delu, who was Ling Han's senior in the third year of graduate school.

After three years, the two were together. Xun Delu always acted very clearly, almost letting everyone around Ling Han know her intentions.

He quietly permeated her life, waiting for her to discover his existence, and then the two of them naturally got together.

Ling Han always wondered, was he with Xun Delu out of habit or something else?

They can argue about an academic issue for an entire afternoon, silently note down their preferences while eating, hold hands, be shy, and kiss.

The two of them were too shy to be someone in their thirties.

Xun Delu became the quarantine inspector of their province, and whenever they were not working, the two of them would spend time together.

Ling Han prefers to do more practical work, but the rules of the industry are not very strong and it is also very difficult to endure. Finally, the two of them talked about it and decided to let Ling Han try to take the civil service exam. If he was not selected, he would go to the animal hospital to endure it.

Ling Han was not well prepared and therefore failed the exam. Xun Delu wanted her to take the exam again, but Ling Han was unwilling.

No matter how tired she is, she still wants to persevere.

What could Xun Delu do? Of course he would support her.

Over the years, Ms. An has never stopped urging Ling Han to get married, and after the two of them got together, she always asked them to get their marriage certificate as soon as possible.

Ling Han always says there is no rush.

She has a rebellious mentality. The more Ms. An urged her, the more she became tired of getting married.

She asked Xun Delu what he thought of her refusal to get the marriage certificate. Xun Delu said, "You are already with me. If we need a marriage certificate to stay together, then the time we have been together is meaningless."

Ling Han said: "How come you can say such sour words? It gives me goosebumps."

Xun Delu smiled and touched Ling Han's head without saying anything. She had been busy with her job recently, and probably because she hadn't paid attention to supplementing her vitamins, her hair had become a little dry.

He saw his mother's behavior when he was young, and he did not agree with the way his father and mother got along. Later, his father remarried, and his status in the family gradually faded.

After he became an adult, he separated himself from the household registration book. His father didn't say anything, but his stepmother, who gave birth to two sons for him, wanted to keep him on the same household registration book so that his future income would most likely be used to subsidize the family expenses.

Xun Delu asked his father what he needed in terms of support. His father said, "Just take care of it."

He said, "I know you have your own opinions and you are filial, but I don't know if you just think your mom is not doing well. She suffered a lot. Who didn't suffer in that era? My mom and my mom's mom both suffered, but your mom can't do well... Just think of it as I owe you."

Xun Delu was thinking, yes, this is how it has been for generations, why would he think this way? Obviously even his mother, whom he has always defended, thinks this way.

They believe that suffering is a natural thing, that it is a natural thing for a man to beat his wife after getting drunk, and that it is a natural thing for him to make dirty jokes without any scruples...

Historically speaking, there was a matriarchal society before the patriarchal society, so in the past, they did the same things that mothers do now, right?

Xun Delu did not delve into this issue, and he lost the meaning of bravery.

If his mother had lived longer, he would have probably taught her how to be a woman, rather than just a mother who allowed herself to be beaten and ordered around.

He escaped from the thoughts that were as solid as a city wall, and his mother stayed there forever.

Xun Delu loves Ling Han and also loves her free soul.

After seeing a higher vision, he discovered that the thoughts of people in this world are diverse. People are free, confident, and self-reliant...

He had always been thinking about escaping, as long as he could escape. Only after he got out did he think about managing his own life.

All past experiences should not be a shackle that restricts his life, he has the right to live a better life. So he gradually becomes capable of living a better life.

And respecting women is like a muscle memory for him.

He clearly understands what is offensive, threatening and uncomfortable for women. Of course, this standard is not so uniform. Every girl is an independent individual. You have to admit that they are all beautiful and different. So he tries his best to do what he thinks is the best.

Why did he notice Ling Han? He seemed to have no resistance to people who were both depressed and positive. Because of his interactions with Ling Han, his heart was moved again and again, so he chose to take action.

When he was pursued by someone passionately, he only thought about how to reject her tactfully and tell her clearly that there was no possibility for them. But now, he was thinking about how to make his love quieter and less obvious.