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But this doesn't seem to be easy for him.

The research-obsessed mentor would occasionally send messages, asking when he and Ling Han's wedding would be held. Ling Han's roommates would deliberately leave space for them to get along. Ling Han would almost always show his face to the people he usually interacted with.

It’s just that the girl he wanted to pursue didn’t seem willing to believe that he was really pursuing her, so no one broke the news.

He couldn't help himself, so even his confession was the essence of his summary from repeated rehearsals.

Nothing seemed to have changed after they confirmed their relationship, but the mere fact that Ling Han agreed to be his girlfriend was enough to make him happy for a long, long time.

Now both of them have their own jobs, have paid the down payment for a house and live together. Marriage, after all, allows their relationship to be protected by law.

The house that Ling Han and Xun Delu bought together is in the provincial capital, which is convenient for both of them to work.

The house she previously lived in was also bought by her in her own name.

Xun Delu asked her, isn’t it a pity to use up your first home qualification for a small house?

Ling Han really thought about this question for a while. There are many houses, big and small. When you are not satisfied with the area of ​​the house, you may not be satisfied with other areas in the future. She doesn't need a big house. She just feels extra safe in the first place where she leaves Ms. An.

So she asked Xun Delu, "Don't you think it's a pity to use up your first home qualification for a small house?"

Then, Xun Delu realized that special meaning gives special value to ordinary things.

Ling Han worked his way up from an assistant to a doctor, and then to a specialist.

She has always wanted to have a cat, but she seems to have no fate with cats and has never met one.

Xun Delu also got promoted, and the two of them got married. When the children of their friends around them were already three or four years old, they were already in their thirties.

Ms. An retired, but she was unwilling to be lazy, so she opened a small stall. After her mood improved, Ms. An became much healthier, and she smiled when she talked to others.

Those who used to look down on her are now welcoming her with a smile.

Because Ms. An's daughter now has a job that earns tens of thousands of yuan a month, and Ms. An's son-in-law is a public official. Although it is a profession they have never known about, he is capable.

They once said, why did you choose this major? There is no future. They asked Ling Han to make plans for himself as soon as possible, and asked Ling Han to find a way to change his major and consider dual qualifications...

Now they all say that Ling Han has made great progress.

Ling Han told Ms. An that she didn't want to have children. Ms. An asked her to have one, but Ling Han insisted on her own idea. In the end, Xun Delu had a sterilization.

Xun Delu told Ms. An about all of Ling Han's concerns, saying that he himself didn't want to have children, that he came from a poor family, and the benefits of not having children.

Ms. An always told Ling Han that a woman must give birth to a child to be a complete woman. At this time, Ling Han always felt an unspeakable discomfort. She wanted to refute Ms. An, but she didn't know how to refute her. After all, Ling Han had also brought out various examples and facts to communicate with Ms. An, but Ms. An's attitude was just two words: don't believe it.

It doesn’t matter. Ling Han doesn’t believe some of Ms. An’s remarks.

Both mother and daughter are rebellious.

Huo Xunlan and Yu Wan are married. Huo Xunlan is now the factory director and Yu Wan is the director. They have a three-year-old daughter.

Lin Dong and Xu Nan also got married. It seems that the group of people who previously said they would not get married have met their soul mates for life. They once claimed that they did not believe in love, but in the end they were all happily immersed in it.

What is the reason for human life?

They started imitating their parents when they didn't have any self-control, and then at a certain period of time they tried hard not to become like their parents. The inexplicable courage made them feel like heroes, heroes fighting against all the injustices in the world.

Heroes gradually become mediocre and finally become lost in the crowd. Because they find that enthusiasm cannot change everything, and most people like to watch others do useless work. Then they will be complacent and think, look, fortunately I have foresight, fortunately I didn't do this, otherwise I would be the clown myself.

People are all lonely. In Plato's fable, everyone is split in half. So we are probably all incomplete.

So do we have to pursue perfection?

Do you want to complete yourself by constantly searching for your other half?

Ling Han didn't think that was the case. She had always hoped that she would not meet her destined person in this life.

But she met him, very fortunately, she met her only soul mate in this vast sea of ​​people.

Love leads to being together, feelings can't help but let things flow, and mutual respect is the key to maintenance.

......

Ling Han had an account in her mind, which was her rough estimate of the money Ms. An had spent on her. When she handed the deposit card to Ms. An, Ms. An's eyes were red and she smiled and said, "My daughter has grown up and has made great achievements."

Ling Han did not say how much money this was, but just told Ms. An to buy whatever she wanted. Ms. An replied: "I'm an old woman, if there's anything I need to buy, just call you directly, I don't need that much money. Just leave this money with me, I'll save it for my death later..."

Ling Han always told Ms. An that she didn't need to work so hard and should rest more. Ms. An always said that it was okay and she wasn't tired.

It seemed that in front of Ling Han, Ms. An could only be a mother.

If, as Ms. An thinks, a woman is incomplete if she does not have children, then Ms. An's life can be said to be too complete.

After studying for a few years, I went on a blind date when I was about the same age, left home to work, fell in love, my parents didn’t agree, I got married, had a child, raised the child, suffered domestic violence, and then divorced and raised the child alone...

Are people born to experience suffering?

Obviously people don’t like suffering.

What did Ms. An gain from all this?

Complaints, endless complaints, as if everything Ms. An experienced was caused by herself. Is this true? Ling Han felt that at least not entirely. They were always trying to persuade, because all their understanding came from verbal confessions, so they could easily blurt out words like "I hope the couple can continue to live a good life."

Ling Han didn't think that those things were what Ms. An should have done. If she hadn't given birth to her and hadn't married her ex-husband, she could have always been a maverick woman in that era. She could have made many mistakes and been blamed by many people, but it wasn't because of the disharmony between husband and wife.

Everyone has only one life, but Ms. An chose to risk her life for her. Conscience and kindness made Ling Han hope that Ms. An could live a better life.

She won't have children because she is not an educator. If she must work hard for one person, why should she put all her energy on an unknown life?

She is a selfish person. People should live happily in this life, why bother themselves with troubles all the time. Maybe when she grows old, she will regret that she does not have a blood relative.

But we have been happy for so long, so what does it matter if we regret it for a few years?

At least now she is happy. She can fall asleep in the arms of her lover, pet her friend's cat, and give her friend's child back when he or she cries.

……

After a satisfying meal, Xun Delu lifted her sweaty hair and kissed her face. Ling Han still looked a little dazed. He gasped out a hoarse voice as if his throat had been burned by a spiciness: "Love is really amazing."

Xun Delu looked her straight in the eyes and held her in his arms: "What?"

Ling Han avoided his kiss and nestled in his arms: "In the past, I could never imagine that I would have such close contact with someone. All this happened because you and I fell in love. Love is really amazing."

Xun Delu laughed out loud and pulled her up: "I also find it incredible that there is actually intimacy that is closer than intimacy."

They are all bad guys, doing bad things in secret.

In the sea of ​​people, some people walk together, some walk alone, come to this world once, the future will come, these four words are implemented...