After picking up a system

Fated couples meet even though they are thousands of miles apart. This was a joke people used to make about An Yunhui and Ling Buwei when they were young. After all, they were the couple who were the farthest apart in the factory.

One is in Ruxiang and the other is in Lixiang. In the era when only green trains existed, young people experienced a series of tickets such as food coupons and meat coupons, and began to work everywhere.

To get into a factory you need an introduction, but some factories have too few employees, so they urgently recruit applicants.

An Yunhui and Ling Buwei entered the same factory in this way. They both "escaped" from home. After all, their parents' jobs had been taken over by others, and they had no practical role at home.

An Yunhui had been on several blind dates at home, but either she looked down on the other people or the two of them were not compatible with each other by birth sign. The people in the village were always gossipy, and An Yunhui was often scolded when she helped her mother with housework.

She was a proud woman, but lacked talent because she did not finish primary school. She only had one tuition fee, which was for her younger brother.

She tried to sell things but couldn't make back her money. Perhaps she was too embarrassed to do so, so she went out to work at the age of 22.

She went out with the private money she and her mother had earned from selling tofu.

Ling Buwei has four siblings, an older brother and younger brothers and sisters. He is the least favored one. He graduated from high school and then stopped studying.

The young An Yunhui was a beauty, and Ling Buwei was a talkative person, so the two met through an introduction by a friend of a friend of a friend, who was not sure how distant the relationship was.

Got it right.

So we got together.

An Yunhui has a lively and straightforward personality. She has a low level of education and likes educated people very much.

Ling Buwei finished high school and had beautiful handwriting, all of which were perfect for An Yunhui to fall in love with him.

The two had been dating for more than a year and were planning to get married, so they went to meet each other's parents.

When An Yunhui's mother heard that Ling Buwei was from such a distant place, she expressed her disagreement. However, girls seemed to be more rebellious, especially at times like this, so she just wanted to get married.

So she and Ling Buwei went to Ling Buwei's home. It was a village of ethnic minorities, and because she was a foreigner, this isolated village was not very welcoming to An Yunhui.

When An Yunhui saw this family which had more people and was poorer than her own, she regretted her decision and wanted to leave before she had even stayed for a week.

Ling Buwei also agreed. He promised that the two of them would not live with the whole family in the future. The brothers and sisters of the Ling family all said that Ling Buwei loved his wife very much and that An Yunhui was enjoying a good life.

An Yunhui, who was still in love, was also very happy. She felt that Ling Buwei was better than all the men her parents had introduced her to.

The two returned to the factory and continued their relationship as lovers.

A friend reminded An Yunhui not to be with Ling Buwei. An Yunhui was in a sweet period, how could she listen? No way.

Ling Buwei is a man who attracts many women, but he is good at talking and An Yuhui trusts him very much.

As a human being, you only need your mouth to do everything.

Ling Buwei earned a good reputation for himself, and even An Yunhui's mother praised him. So the two of them got married naturally.

After getting married, Ling Buwei was no longer satisfied with the status quo.

He had a dream, a dream of becoming a singer, so he told An Yunhui that he wanted to learn.

An Yunhui asked him, what about the tuition?

Ling Buwei said, you go out.

An Yunhui thought he was joking. Who wouldn't want to make money and own a house after getting married? How could anyone want to use money to pursue dreams? Aren't those things only done by rich people?

But Ling Buwei is not like that. He always thinks he is a phoenix on a branch, forgetting that he has just come out of the mountain. He always thinks he has many opportunities, but forgets that his own strength does not match.

If a person does not know himself, his life will be meaningless.

More and more people think that An Yunhui is marrying above her station by marrying Ling Buwei. After all, he wears a suit and is polite to everyone.

During her defense, An Yunhui gradually realized that they were only willing to believe what they wanted to believe, so she stopped talking.

They thought she agreed. How could An Yunhui agree?

A weak man, they said he was capable; a man who always wanted to go out, they said he was family-oriented; a man who had several brothers and sisters in a foreign place, they said she was marrying above her station.

They didn't understand, but did she still want to take them to live the life she was living? Did she still want to take them to see his family?

She couldn't. She was even called a shrew by Ling Buwei because she couldn't pay enough tuition for Ling Buwei to go to the music school!

An Yunhui thought that maybe everything would be fine after the baby was born, as he would finally be able to take care of the family after the baby was born.

So she gave birth to Ling Ruli. Ruli Ruli is a word that means good wishes for a child, but An Yunhui didn't understand. She and Ling Buwei were from Ruxiang and Lixiang respectively. She hoped that they could live a good life after giving birth to the child. So she gave Ling Ruli such a name, hoping that she and Ling Buwei would be closely connected like the name.

Ling Buwei did not change, he still tried his best to pursue his dream, he told everyone about his regrets and showed his superb skills in front of everyone.

He was used to being praised by others, and when An Yunhui didn't praise him, he started to feel unhappy.

The family planning policy is strict and requires one of the couple to get sterilized. Ling Buwei was unwilling to do so, so he went to talk to An Yunhui's mother.

I don't know how they communicated, but An Yunhui's mother asked An Yunhui to get sterilized. At that time, Ling Ruli was less than one year old. An Yunhui still believed that Ling Buwei would become a family-oriented person, so she went.

Ling Buwei will never change.

He always loves himself the most, followed by his dreams, and An Yuhui is not even in the top three.

An Yunhui discovered that Ling Buwei lied about his age. No wonder, no wonder they were so incompatible, it could be seen from their zodiac signs.

The conflict between the two people became more and more serious, and they spent more and more time quarreling.

But everyone thought that An Yunhui was being unreasonable. In their eyes, Ling Buwei was such a gentle man.

No one could understand An Yunhui's suffering, and they all advised her to live a good life.

Ling Ruli went to school, and An Yunhui begged Ling Buwei to live a good life. The two of them went out to work, but because Ling Ruli's grades dropped, An Yunhui went home.

When they worked together, An Yunhui took care of everything. After An Yunhui went home, Ling Buwei was left with no money. His salary was not even enough to support him living outside.

An Yunhui felt distressed when she saw his empty wallet and advised him to come back, thinking that even if they worked harder, they could still have an income, which was better than their current life.

Ling Buwei felt that this was an accusation of his incompetence and had a big quarrel with An Yunhui.

In the end, of course, he came back.

However, he told others that it was because An Yunhui asked him to come back, and An Yunhui didn't say anything. When Ling Buwei was working outside and needed her to give him living expenses, she always praised him in front of others.

Ling Buwei accepted the praise from others without any psychological burden.

Ling Ruli saw and heard his mother's hard work.

She began to fear marriage, and was particularly afraid of becoming like one of her parents. She advised An Yunhui to divorce.

An Yunhui always said that she hoped to give her a complete home.

Ling Ruli felt that the reason An Yunhui was in so much pain now was because of him. If he had not been born, she would have bravely chosen to divorce.

There was a question in the mental health screening: Do you think that people around you will live better after you die? Ling Ruli thought that if he died, his mother would live a good life. He put a check mark under the word "no".

She felt that this family was no longer complete, and she desperately hoped that this family was incomplete.

Her mother once asked her who she would live with if they divorced, and Ling Ruli said she would not live with anyone because she still expected a complete family.

Now she knows that the only person she can rely on is her mother, and she hopes her mother can get a divorce, at least so that she can suffer less.

……

Ling Buwei returned home, but it seemed like he hadn't returned. He worked as an electrician and left work early because someone invited him to sing and dance. The organizer was the director of the Women's Federation. Ling Ruli had been there several times. There were a group of women there, and Ling Buwei was the only man there. Shameless.

After repeated quarrels between mom and dad, Ling Ruli also hated the director of the Women's Federation. Why did she organize so many activities? Why did she only invite dad, a man? Why did dad always have to go out? Why did dad make mom angry every time he made her angry? Why could everyone call dad but not mom?

How can there be no worries in childhood?

I don’t want to do homework or write a mandatory diary. I don’t want to learn English which I can’t understand at all. I just want to go out and play. Why do my friends want to play with people I don’t like? Why don’t my friends play with me anymore? Why are my parents different from others?

In junior high school, Ling Ruli's grades were not very good, but she longed to study in the city, so she entered a closed school and went home once a month.

One weekend in eighth grade, Ling Ruli wanted to go home, so she called her mother. Her mother said that it was such a short time and she shouldn’t go back. Ling Ruli just wanted to go home, so her mother came to pick her up.

After eating a bowl of wontons outside the school, my mother told me about the fight between the two people. Ling Ruli listened and her tears mixed into the soup. There was a noticeable red spot around my mother's left eye and bruises on her neck.

Just by listening to his mother's story, Ling Ruli felt scared and suffocated.

So she cried and said to her mother, "Please give me a divorce."

Mom asked, do you really think so?

Ling Ruli said, yes, I also hope you can consider yourself.

Mom said: Okay.

On the way back, Ling Ruli thought about a night when his father did not come home. The family took turns calling him but no one answered. In the end, they could only ask their father's sister, who was recognized by him, where his father was.

My mother said at that time, I had to ask others to find out where your father went.

Her mother took her to find her father on her bike. She checked the time again and again on the cell phone that her father bought her for three hundred yuan. It was the first time she knew that tears could be colorful, at least on the lit screen of a cell phone.

This mobile phone is not good at all, but she likes it very much. When her classmates asked what kind of phone it was, she didn't know. She read the name on the back. The classmate said something, but Ling Ruli didn't hear it clearly.

The classmate asked her to show her the phone, Ling Ruli handed it over, the classmate took a look and returned it. They were talking, but Ling Ruli couldn't hear clearly, she always couldn't fit in with other people's intimate relationships.

Later she found out that it was because the name of the phone sounded like a famous phone brand, so they were curious about her having such a phone. She has never been a likable person, no matter what age she is.

……

My parents are getting divorced, and my mother was persuaded to give up her appeal once, and the police from the police station came to mediate, but in the end they said that Ling Buwei was not really a man.

My mother seemed to be experiencing a disaster in a place where I couldn't see.