Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

“Although it’s not safe to go out for a walk, in the eyes of you kids, it’s what everyone else is looking forward to.

Did you promise them?"

"Mom, although I didn't promise them in person, I have already made an agreement with them that when I learn how to ride steadily, I will take them for a ride if I have the chance.

As for when I can ride steadily, with my current height and the 28-inch bicycle we bought, do you think I can ride it now?"

"Yes, it will take at least another three to five years before you can ride our bicycle."

"So that's it!

I have promised, but as for the day, I still have no definite information at the moment."

"There's nothing wrong with that. Even if someone reacts, they won't be able to refute it!"

"That's true, but at this moment, Lu Xuanwei showed up and said..."

"say what?"

"What else can I say?

She said at the time...

Isn't it just a broken bicycle?

What’s so great about it? It’s not like others don’t have it too.

That’s not right. If you were to say there weren’t any, there weren’t many in our Huangzhuang Brigade or even in the commune!

It's no wonder that you country bumpkins are so curious about it, right?

Ugh!

What a bunch of people who have never seen the world. How pitiful!

Just a bicycle makes you so obsessed with it. This is only the case in the countryside. If it happened in the city, you would be laughed at.

I mean, you guys can never compare with the people in the city. Even if every household in the city has one, at least every household has a bicycle.

It's just showing off in front of these people who have never seen the world!

If this happened in the city, who would care?

You also said that when you learn how to ride, you can catch them for a ride. Ha, don’t you want to see when you can ride a 28-inch bicycle?

Besides, who the hell have you ever been to?

That is to say, people like you who have not seen the world. I, Lu Xuanwei, have not only ridden a bicycle, but also a jeep that you have never even seen.

A broken bicycle can make you so excited, otherwise you are just a bunch of ignorant country bumpkins!"

Hearing this, not only the child would be angry, but I would also be very angry.

But you can't get so angry that you lose your mind because of what the other person says. You're just asking your own child!

"Is this what made you cry?"

"Mom, aren't these words enough to make people angry?"

"It does make people angry, but the people who should be most angry shouldn't be you, but the kids in the team and their parents?"

"them?"

"Yes, it's them!"

“But, but what I saw at that time was not that anyone was angry, but that everyone lowered their heads because of Lu Xuanwei’s words.

They don't look angry, do they? "

"That's because they feel inferior because of what the other party said!"

"self-abasement?"

"Yes, it's low self-esteem!"

"What should I do?"

"what to do?

To be honest, there is nothing mom can do now?

The only way is to work hard and become more powerful than Lu Xuanwei one day. Otherwise, no one can help them with this inferiority complex."

"In other words, this inferiority complex may accompany them throughout their lives?"

"It is possible that even though a casual remark may seem unintentional, it can actually hurt others.

What's more, Lu Xuanwei's words were not unintentional. She was just hitting other people's hearts by doing this!"

"This Lu Xuanwei is so abominable!

How could she do this? "

"It's really hateful, but I think her ultimate goal is not to attack other people, but to attack you!"

"Hit me?

You mean, she did this to make the teammates dislike me?"

“That’s right, after all, the kids on the team are looked down upon by others because of you.

If I stay away from you, won't these things happen?"

"can you?"

"Do you think they'll stay away from you?"

“I wonder if there are such people?”

"Since you don't know, then you can find out by slowly watching later, right?"

"Yeah, what about Lu Xuanwei?

Can she sit back and relax after hitting others?"

"How can it be?

If others choose to stay away from you because of what she said, then this person, or others, will probably stay away from her first, because what she said was more unpleasant to hear! "

"Too!"

"My daughter, you have to remember that no matter where you are or who you are with, you must not speak like Lu Xuanwei, who says whatever he wants without thinking. Otherwise, you will probably have no friends."

"I see."

"Not everyone is like this. If you meet someone you don't like, you can say it directly without hesitation. Otherwise, even if the other person can understand what you mean, he or she will pretend to be confused."

"No way?

Is there such a person?"

"How could there not be? Life is such a long journey, how could there not be?"

"Yes!

But speaking of which, Lu Xuanwei's words are so harsh, I guess the kids in the team must be unwilling to pay attention to her?

Besides, do you think the elders in the team will know what she said today?"

"What do you think?"

"I feel like they will definitely know. Even if some people don't tell their parents when they get home, can we guarantee that everyone won't tell?

As long as one person goes home and tells his parents what Lu Xuanwei said, it won’t take long for the entire Huangzhuang Brigade to know about it.”

"Yes, what else?"

"Also, the other people in the team might not care, but those aunties and aunties definitely won't care. After all, no one wants their children to be belittled by others."

"You're right.

This might not happen if it were someone else, but all the children in our Huangzhuang Brigade are good kids. They can still tell the good from the bad, as long as they tell their parents at home.

Even if some people don’t take it seriously, it’s impossible for everyone to not take it seriously.”

"Then do you think that someone will go to Lu Xuanwei to argue about this?"

"No, even if the adults are angry, they can't find fault with a child. After all, this is just a conflict between you children. Unless there are adults involved, who would find trouble for their own family?"

"So is this matter over?"

"How can it be?

Adults may not stand up for their children. But you can talk to the people around you.”

"Oh, yeah!

In this way, it would be like putting a veil on the Lu family. I think more people would be unwilling to have contact with the Lu family at that time."

"That's right. Apart from these, the most common thing adults say is not to get too close to the Lu family's children.