Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

One is that the Lu family's children have never been good students since they were young, and the other is that they are afraid that their own children will suffer in front of them."

"I don't know whether she will suffer a loss or not. I just know that in our Huangzhuang Brigade, few people are willing to play with her, Lu Xuanwei."

"That's true. In the past few years, I haven't seen any kids on the team get along well with her.

Could it be that this little girl from the Lu family has no friends like her mother?"

"I don't really know whether her mother has any good friends, but I know that Lu Xuanwei really has no friends in the team.

In fact, she is not only not in the team, but also not in the school.

She used to look down on others and didn’t want to talk to them, and now everyone doesn’t want to play with her either!

Mom, do you think this kind of person is good?"

"have no idea?

But one thing is that people who don’t have friends around them are definitely not easy to get along with.

Even if you have friends, you have to work hard to get along with them. If you don’t get along well, I’m afraid that let alone being friends, you might even become enemies in the end.”

"what?

So serious? "

"is not that right?

But you don't need to worry, you are different from the girl from the Lu family, it is impossible for you to have no friends?"

"That is!"

"The kids on that team, over the past few years, they..."

“It’s not like they don’t want to play with Lu Xuanwei?

But in the end, Lu Xuanwei herself should be blamed for this matter."

"Blame her?"

"That's right, I blame her. Don't you know that when Lu Xuanwei first came to Huangzhuang Brigade, she didn't get along well with the kids in the team. She would always belittle whoever she met. Who would want to be friends with such a person?"

"Yeah, she always looks down on everyone she's with. Even if someone wants to be friends with her, they have to think twice before doing so."

"That's right. Since she looks down on others, why do others still use their own warmth to stick to her cold butt?"

"That's right. After all, it's not a good deal."

"It's just that things are different now. She could be so careless before, but what about now?

She wants someone to play with her, isn't it since her brother is not as good as before?

Thinking that if someone is kind to her, she won't have to be alone and helpless like she is now? "

"how?

Did something happen to her again?"

"Actually, it's nothing?

Even at school, no one paid any attention to her. Even if she approached them, no one wanted to confide in her. I guess they felt that she was lonely. That's why, right?

But you also know that she followed Lu Kunming to bully so many classmates in school. Even if her classmates wanted to play with her before, they probably wouldn’t dare to do so now.

You have to know that anyone who dares to be friends with Lu Xuanwei will face the possibility of being isolated by others. It is better to play with everyone. The consequences of playing with her are too serious.

I think she knows what her classmates are thinking. When she found that she couldn't find friends at school, she turned her attention to her teammates.

But how could she know that she had been speaking ill of her teammates time and time again, without even thinking about whether her teammates were willing to be friends with her? "

"That's right, doesn't she know how to bow her head and apologize to you?"

"Apologize?

If she really apologized to everyone, she wouldn't be facing this situation today!"

"this?

You know what, she really is like her mother in this respect?"

"Like her mother?"

"That's right, if I'm not wrong, she still hasn't realized her mistake, and has always thought that it's your fault that you don't play with her.

I want to be friends with you, that’s because of you!”

"this?"

"Also, if you want to be friends with her sincerely, I'm afraid you have to bow your heads first. Otherwise, she would rather seek a sense of presence in front of you from time to time, and won't let you have an easy time?"

"Tsk, she's like that, and she still wants us to bow down to her and say sorry to her, how can that be possible.

Why didn't she come to us?

It was obviously her fault first, why should we bow to her?

It is simply unreasonable! "

"That's why people say she takes after her mother. If her mother had put down her dignity, things wouldn't be like this now. People in the team wouldn't want to be friends with her."

“True, but then again, is she the kind of person who bows to others?

If she really admitted her mistakes to others, would she have no friends now?

Just like you said, if I remember correctly, her mother still lives alone!"

"That's right, then do you want to be friends with her? If you want to be friends with her, you might as well admit your mistake to her first!"

"I bowed my head and admitted my mistake to her. Did I do anything wrong?

I didn't do anything wrong, no, I didn't do anything?

Why should I admit my mistake to her?

No, no matter what the reason is?

I will never bow to her. It’s not like I don’t have friends.

Only people who don't have friends would be so humble. I don't have any, so why should I be so wronged?"

"Yes, if that's the case, then you can decide for yourself.

But there is one thing you must remember, whether you are getting along with your teammates or your classmates in school, you must not look down on them.

We are all the same person, there is no high or low, only whether we are compatible or not.

If you get along well, you can be friends. If you don’t get along well, you don’t have to be friends.

Don't say bad things to each other just because of anything, understand?"

"Mom, don't worry, I'm not Lu Xuanwei.

She looks down on others because of her background. In fact, she must know her own background better than anyone else.

If he really had that ability, why would he follow his parents to the countryside?

Just because you think you are a city person, you look down on others. In the end, don’t you know who is looking down on whom?

Do you think we won’t know her father’s background if she doesn’t tell us?

Although I won’t accept this now, it can’t be used as an excuse.”

“Isn’t that the truth?

You have to remember, if you are not a friend, then don't say anything, so as to avoid it later. If something really happens and they blame you, what can you do?"

"Mom, no way!

With her personality, how could she possibly rely on others? "

"How is it impossible?

There are some extreme people who never look for the reasons in themselves, but always blame others when something goes wrong, right?

Don't take what your mother said lightly. There are people like this, or things like this.

Don’t you think that she looks down on people all the time?

But when she really has to ask for help, she has to ask for help no matter how proud she is.

But this is just my guess, no one dares to say whether it will happen in the future.

You just need to keep a certain distance from her. It's not necessarily a good thing to get too close to someone like her."