CEO's Secret Pet: Woman, You Can't Escape Even If You Have Wings
Chapter 148 Soul Comfort
Lin Yu frowned slightly when he heard the news. He knew very well that this was an extremely complicated and difficult situation, so he said earnestly: "Alas, this is indeed a difficult problem. But you have to know that he already has his own family, and continuing may bring a lot of trouble. You have to ask yourself first, is this love really worth it? Sometimes, letting go is also an option, although it may be painful, but it is good for everyone. Besides, you are still young, and there are many beautiful possibilities waiting for you in the future."
Shen Jingyan's reply was full of helplessness and entanglement: "But, I miss him so much." Lin Yu gently patted the sofa beside him, as if patting Shen Jingyan's shoulder, and said: "I understand this feeling. Sometimes it is difficult to control your thoughts when you like someone. But you have to think about it. His wife and family also need him. You can't destroy other people's happiness because of your feelings. Try to shift your attention to other things, go out and play with friends more, or develop some new hobbies. Maybe time will slowly reduce your longing."
However, Shen Jingyan was still immersed in her own pain. She emphasized again: "I can't forget it, what should I do!" Lin Yu's eyes were gentle and firm. He looked at the screen of his mobile phone, as if he could see the helpless girl opposite him, and said: "Silly girl, some things can't be forgotten just by saying so, but you can try to accept and let go. Give each other some time and space, and don't let this relationship affect your life. You have to believe that time will dilute everything, and you will meet a more suitable person."
Shen Jingyan seemed to be in deeper pain. She replied, "My heart hurts." Lin Yu looked at the phone distressedly, as if he was looking at Shen Jingyan herself. He sighed and said, "Alas, love is like this. It makes people feel uncomfortable. But you have to be strong and don't let yourself be immersed in pain all the time. Otherwise, find a quiet place and cry loudly to vent all the grievances and pain in your heart. After crying, adjust your mentality and tell yourself that you deserve better."
But Shen Jingyan still couldn't let it go. She said again: "Brother, I just can't forget him. I am so miserable."
Lin Yu put his hands on his knees and leaned forward, as if he could get closer to Shen Jingyan. He said, "I understand. This feeling must be uncomfortable. But you have to know that a short pain is worse than a long pain. It's not good for you to be stuck in it all the time. How about this, you can focus on your own life during this time, study more, exercise more, spend more time with friends and family, keep yourself busy, and maybe slowly, you won't care about him so much."
Shen Jingyan became a little agitated, and she seemed to type much faster: "It was obviously him who provoked me first, why was I the one who got sick in the end? I was the one who couldn't let go, men are so heartless about everything." Lin Yu sighed softly, his eyes full of pity, he comforted her: "Jingyan, don't say that about yourself, it's not your fault. His behavior is his problem, you can't deny yourself because of him. Some people are like this, they don't know how to cherish. What you have to do is love yourself well, make yourself better, and then love well when you meet the right person in the future."
Shen Jingyan continued to pour out her grievances: "It was obviously him who provoked me, why did he leave when he said so?" Lin Yu shook his head. He understood Shen Jingyan's confusion and pain. He patted the table lightly, as if patting Shen Jingyan's back to comfort her: "Alas, emotional matters are sometimes so complicated. His departure does not mean that you are not good, it just means that you may not be suitable. Stop dwelling on his decision, shift your attention to yourself, and make yourself better, so that you can attract someone who is more worthy of your love."
Shen Jingyan still said stubbornly: "But I can't let go." Lin Yu knew that letting go of someone was not an easy thing, especially when Shen Jingyan had given her true feelings. He looked soft and said in a steady voice: "I know it's really hard to let go of someone, especially when you have given your true feelings. But you have to believe that time will slowly heal everything. During this period, try to enrich your life, do more things you like, or try some new things. You can also communicate more with your friends around you, they will give you..."
Shen Jingyan still said painfully: "I can't forget it." Lin Yu pulled the pillow beside him, just like pulling Shen Jingyan's hand, and whispered softly: "You have to forget it even if you can't forget it, silly girl. He is gone. We can't always stay in the past. We have to look forward, understand?"
Shen Jingyan replied: "It's easy to say, but it's really hard to do. I can't get him out of my memory." Lin Yu could feel Shen Jingyan's helplessness. He stroked the edge of the pillow with his fingers, and said with encouragement in his eyes: "I understand that some memories are like thorns rooted in the heart. It's really not easy to pull them out. But you have to have the courage to face it, take your time, don't rush. You can try to recall more good things and squeeze out those unhappy things. Or find a notebook and write down your feelings. This is also a kind of release. Believe in yourself, you can do it, brother will always support you."
Shen Jingyan seemed to want to change the subject. She stared into the distance and said thoughtfully, "Brother, what is human nature like?" Her voice was filled with a hint of confusion, as if this question had been bothering her for a long time.
She frowned slightly, her eyes revealing her deep contemplation of human nature.
Lin Yu folded his arms over his chest, leaned back on the sofa, pondered for a while and said: "Human nature is very complicated. Just like what happened to you, his behavior is disappointing, but this is only one side of human nature. People have good and ugly moments, the key is how we choose. You have to learn a lesson from this incident and be more accurate in judging people in the future. Don't deny everyone because of one person's mistake. Most people are still good. You have to keep a kind heart and discover the beauty in life."
Shen Jingyan said a little frustrated: "I found that I don't understand the ways of the world." Lin Yu walked to the window with a smile, looked at the night view outside the window, and touched his head with a smile, just like touching Shen Jingyan's head. He said: "Silly girl, who understands the ways of the world from the beginning? We all learn slowly in life. This experience can be regarded as a lesson for you. If you encounter similar situations in the future, you will know how to deal with it. Don't blame yourself too much. Brother believes that you will become more and more mature."
Shen Jingyan seemed to be thinking: "It turns out that maturity is gained through pain." Lin Yu turned around and walked back to the sofa and sat down. He smiled gently, and said with pity in his eyes: "Not entirely, pain is just a catalyst for our growth. After going through this, you can know yourself more clearly and understand what is really important. Moreover, there are many ways to grow, not necessarily through pain. Look at the beauty around you more and be with positive people more often, which can also make you more mature and stable."
Shen Jingyan then remembered that she didn't know Lin Yu's name, so she asked, "Brother, what's your name?" Lin Yu laughed and said, "Haha, silly girl, you still don't know my name after chatting for so long? My name is Lin Yu, you must remember it! You can tell Brother Lin Yu anything in the future."
Shen Jingyan seemed to have found a new topic. She said, "Brother Lin Yu, tell me about human nature!" Lin Yu put his hands in his pockets, raised his head slightly, looked at the ceiling, thought for a moment and said, "Okay, Sister Jingyan. Human nature has good and evil, just like the two sides of a coin. Some people are very kind and will think about others; some people are very selfish and only think about themselves. But this is not absolute. People will change. The key lies in our choices and the influence of the environment. You must learn to distinguish right from wrong and be with kind people more often. This will also make you a better person."
Shen Jingyan said doubtfully: "But kindness can't solve the problem."
Lin Yu walked to the bookshelf and gently stroked the spines of the books with his fingers. He looked determined and said seriously, "Kindness may not solve the problem directly, but it is a kind of power that can make our hearts stronger. Treating others with kindness may gain their understanding and help. Moreover, being kind can also make us feel more at ease, right?"
Shen Jingyan frowned, her face full of worry, her eyes revealing a hint of uneasiness and concern, and she said softly: "But kindness is exchanged for others' excessive demands. They will use your kindness to hurt you and plot against you. This world is not so beautiful. Some people will pursue their own interests by any means without considering the feelings of others. When you show kindness to them, they may regard it as a weakness and try to get more benefits from you. This behavior is not only disappointing, but may also cause serious harm to you." There was a hint of helplessness and sadness in her voice, as if she had experienced many similar things.
Lin Yu nodded, his expression a little serious. He said: "You are right. There are indeed such people in reality. But this does not mean that we have to give up kindness, but learn to protect ourselves. While being kind, we must also have our own principles and bottom line. When others take advantage of your kindness, you must bravely say 'no' and don't let others think that you are easy to bully. Moreover, you must believe that there are still many good people in this world, and those who are truly worthy of your kindness will not hurt you."
Shen Jingyan suddenly became curious about Lin Yu's whereabouts. She blinked her big, lively eyes and asked in a tender voice, "Brother Lin Yu, where are you now?"
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