Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

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Whoever has not experienced any ups and downs in this life can live a smooth and frank life.

That person's life is not walking step by step, the path he least wants to take, forgetting what he once wanted most, when he looks back again and again, he finds that everything has changed, this is not himself at all What I want most, but deep down in my heart, I have never thought about whether it is right or wrong.

They were talking here, and for some reason they were overheard by Mr. Zhang outside. He felt that he should take care of this matter. He couldn't just let his beloved little boy be wronged for no reason. I know that even though I am not standing in front of him now, that little boy must be very wronged. He is suffering so much that he can't tell. He can't contradict his parents, because his father is more vicious than his mother. Although his father never got angry with him or taught him a lesson, the little boy knew very well in his heart that his biological father was the most dignified economic emperor, and he was not easy to mess with, so he couldn't do it like this mess with him.

Mr. Zhang opened the door and came to his grandson's bedroom. He saw his little boy was already in tears, but he didn't dare to say a word. He was very distressed, so he hurriedly let the little boy out. He has to talk to his grandson and his granddaughter-in-law about this matter. If he does, his little boy will never have a happy time again.

"Grandpa, why did you come into my bedroom when you didn't sleep at such a late night? Is it because we taught the child too loudly, which affected your rest? Don't worry, we won't teach the child now, you should hurry up Go back and rest. When it’s cold, remember to wear an extra layer of clothes when you go out. Don’t catch a cold, and remember to put on an extra layer of quilt when you go to bed at night. Now the weather is getting colder and colder. Grandpa, I know that you are often worried Mine, but I hope you can take good care of yourself. If you don’t even take care of yourself, how can you take care of us? You are my spiritual pillar. If one day you leave me suddenly, you How can I accept this heavy blow in my heart, I hope you can take good care of yourself for me, okay?"

Mr. Zhang was going to come in to talk to his grandson, but before he had time to open his mouth, he inserted such a series of words for his grandson. He knew that he, a bad old man, must be the spiritual pillar of his precious grandson. My grandson can't bear the heavy blow of losing me. I have worked so hard to bring him up. The person he is most grateful for in his life is himself. If one day I really put my foot into the coffin Inside, what should my grandson do? My grandson is right. If they don't even take care of themselves, how can they take care of the people they care about?

"Don't worry, you will take good care of yourself. I came here today to tell you something. I want to talk to you about your son. I know how you educate him. I am outside the door." I heard it all, but I hope you can understand one thing, what you have experienced at the beginning, he may not experience it again, and I also know that you are only doing this to prevent him from having any happiness in his future life. But you You know you never told him what happened to you today, how could he know what you have gone through, it is very likely that when he encounters the problems you have experienced again, he will still play like a house, I jumped into that pit by myself. If things got out of hand at that time, what should you do? Many times, I should think about things carefully. What are the benefits of doing so, and will it harm him? "

"Grandpa, I know that what you said is for our own good and my child's good, but if this is the case, won't it turn your love for him into doting? Do you know how harmful love is? , can make an originally motivated young man into a negative and decadent person, how can I feel at ease in this way, how can I let my own son become a negative and decadent person because of what I did? If that's the case, then as my biological father, am I too dereliction of duty? I know what kind of life my son wants, but I still give her a different life. Isn't this hurting her?"

"What you said is also reasonable, but if you do this, will you really not hurt her? Obviously she can happily live her life, but you are forced to come in and interfere. Do you think your son What do you think in your heart? Don’t always follow your own subjective feelings. You should consider the feelings of your loved ones. You decide his life so early. How do you let him think? Many times, don’t think that what you do is right, but In the eyes of others, it is wrong for you to do so. You are vetoing other people’s opinions in disguise, and you are controlling other people’s lives in disguise. You are not the ruler of other people’s lives. You can only rule your own life. If you decide so decisively what kind of life he should live in this life, you will make him a decadent person all his life."

"Grandpa, I know that what you say is for the good of all of us, but sometimes we have to make a decision. We can't let his life go in a natural direction like this. In that case, who knows the final outcome What would it be like, what did I do to achieve what I am today, and how hard I have worked so hard, you don’t know, if my son wants his grandparents to know that she is not the worst, then he will You have to go through some pain. Only through pain can you grow up slowly, so that his grandparents will not look down on him so much. I know how hard she is hurt in her heart, because his grandparents have never This has never happened before, there is a shadow in his heart all his life, this shadow may change because of this leap in growth, but it may never change in this lifetime."

Why doesn't Mr. Zhang understand the stakes in this, but these things cannot be decided by himself, everyone's life is different, everyone can't learn to control the lives of others, it will not only harm themselves but also Harmful to others, why do you want to dominate other people's lives so resolutely and wholeheartedly? Others' lives have to be walked by him step by step, so that he can grow up slowly, but how to do this matter, is it difficult? Has my love for my child really turned into doting?

"It's really not easy for a person to get to this point in his life. He has witnessed all the grief and all the parting of life and death, but on the day when he finally created it, he still couldn't let it go.

Even if I see it very clearly at the beginning, gradually I still can’t really know everything. Everyone has their own ideas, and no one is willing to be a puppet and let others manipulate him for a lifetime.”