Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

No one can tell right and wrong in the world in just one or two sentences.

In fact, you still have my father deep in your heart. When my son and I went to attack your husband together, you chose to speak for him. From this point, I can clearly see it.You sincerely want to live with him, but we have already had too many ups and downs with each other, there is no need to continue all this, you should live a happier, happier life, Why let the unhappiness in the past dominate your future life?Xia Jing saw his son and his grandson attacking his husband together, but in fact he didn't feel well in his heart.

"How can you do this? She is your elder anyway. Is it appropriate for you father and son to say such things to your elders? I don't care what your purpose or reason is, but you can't Saying such cruel and heartless words to my own husband, when I see my husband like this, I actually feel uncomfortable deep down in my heart. She has been with me for so many years no matter what, and what are the things you have done? What is it?

In fact, I know that everything you do is for our good, but when you choose to treat us in this way again and again, my heart is already desperate, and I have no way to accept this kind of life. I have no way to accept my relatives, who have doubted myself again and again.

You should admit your mistake, don’t let anyone understand it. Facing the suspicion of your relatives, it is just a deep sense of helplessness. No matter what you do, your relatives will not believe it, because in his eyes there is only You lied to her, you know?But I watched the words and things you said and did to me time and time again, and my heart was really chilled, but I chose not to say anything, and I couldn't let anything affect me Interrupt my thoughts, interrupt my thoughts, interrupt my walk, follow the pace of my life, I will rely on my own efforts to get to the end step by step, and I want everyone to know that in fact, I am not just a person who can only lean on The woman who cries in other people's arms, I will also rely on my own efforts to make my life peak, even if his career comes very late, even if the success comes very late, but I am still very happy and happy, after all, it is I rely on my own hands to come out of the ending, I don't rely on anyone, that is a real success!

I don't understand what you are confused these days. I can't understand what you discussed and what kind of agreement you reached. You agreed to let me stay in this house. To be honest, I only feel uneasy deep in my heart. I don't understand. What kind of reason, you can make such a big concession to me, I have come to this day time after time, in fact, it is really not easy for me, but I have never given up, I know all the efforts I have made I have to bear it all by myself. Others will not regard their own efforts as the driving force for their progress. I only see the moment when others are more successful than me and happier than me. In my heart, I am better than anyone All anxious, more broken down than anyone else.Why can others reach the pinnacle of their own lives, but I can't? Why can others stand on top of their own careers and smile happily, while I can only hide from tears by myself, why should I?

When I see so many women, they just cry sadly in the arms of their husbands, and they don’t want to cheer themselves up and look forward, and they don’t want to make efforts to make their tomorrows better. I'm actually scared to see that kind of life, and I don't want to be that kind of person.

If one day I become that kind of person myself, now I will dislike myself, including you will also dislike me. No one in this family can look down on that kind of life, and look down on that kind of woman. People only look up to those who work hard to achieve their own goals, instead of hiding behind others time and time again, only crying and acting like a baby, and letting others act as shields for themselves. In fact, you know better than anyone. If my life is not what I want, how proud I am in my life, then how arrogant I am, it is impossible for me to let such a thing happen to me.If those things are about to happen to my head one day, then I will prevent it from happening. If it is inevitable that it will happen to my head, I can only choose to face it calmly, but if that day really With the coming of the world, maybe I will really be overwhelmed by this matter, and I will become a broken person. "

Zhang Zhentian suddenly found out that his wife's mood was not right, how could she suddenly know so many things, does he know all these things about himself?He still stayed by his side and arranged eyeliner, or his son or grandson told him these things.

"Don't look at me, I didn't tell my mother's father about this matter, you should also know that I have been here to guard my wife these days, and we are also discussing together, you are here too, you I never saw that I left you at all, so don't blame me, you should think about whether my mother was with you when, and every word we said was all Did he hear it?"

"Zhang Zhentian, do you know that the happiest thing in my life is meeting you, a man who has loved me for so long, you have never disliked my birth, and you always turn to me again and again protect me in front of you, do you know how grateful I am to you? But those are gratitude not love, no matter how much you do for me, I can’t let go of my prejudice against you, I tell myself step by step , as long as I am happy, as long as you can be happy, I can wrong myself, let myself stay by your side and never leave for the rest of my life, but I really can't do it now, I am really about to collapse, because I asked What do I do, in your eyes I am nothing, I just pay one after another, so what can I do with everything, I am just that stupid in the end, I can ignore everything for others, but in the end I can only change The silly white sweet who came to hurt!

It's driving me crazy hearing what you're saying, you know?Time and time again, I have considered issues from your point of view. Why do you doubt me with such an attitude? Why do you say these things behind my back in such a way? If you are not satisfied, you can face it. I say you I can correct it if I say it, but I don’t want you to talk about me behind my back. Talking about me behind my back is done by a villain. Will you be sad, will you be sad?Everyone is an adult, it's time to take responsibility for what you did and pay the price! "

"I believe that you can all remember the scene of this day clearly. You have no way to forget and you have no way to act as if it never happened, but you don't say anything, because you don't know how to say it. Today, I will tell you these things. Having said that, I just hope that you can think about whether what you once had is more than what others have, whether you should cherish what you have now, and stop comparing what others don’t have ?”

Who can talk about right and wrong in the world with a calm face?Who has not experienced hardships again and again?Who has a smooth journey?

"Mom and Dad, do you really think I'm that stupid? Don't I really know everything about you? In fact, I see everything you do, so I choose to say nothing , as if it never happened, and I never saw everything at the beginning, but why are you so dissatisfied?

I have seen clearly and thoroughly what you are doing long ago, but I have not blamed you for anything, because I know that for you, what you fancy is also what I fancy. Some unnecessary troubles made us more and more embarrassing to each other. "

Zhang Zhentian didn't understand what his son said today.Could it be that he had already seen through everything, but chose not to say anything?

Although Zhang Yichen knew that the relationship between his parents was not particularly harmonious, he did not expect that all the problems turned out to be on his mother. He did not believe in his mother, who seemed so loyal to love. With a person behind your back, you would actually do such an outrageous thing to your father. What he wants is nothing more than that simple. He just wants to make his life peaceful. When he sees his mother there again and again Once, when he looked at himself with expectant eyes, his heart was going to be broken. That was his mother. I made him do something. It will always be his mother. He has no way not to go. Just ignore him, don't care about not deal with these things for him.

"Don't use this tone to talk about my mother. My mother is so loyal to you. I don't believe he will do such a thing to you. You must have had some misunderstanding before. If there is any misunderstanding, I hope you Explain all the misunderstandings clearly, don't use this way to hurt the other party, let alone your own family. No one in the family owes you, when you do such things in this way , Have you considered the feelings of your family members? How uncomfortable we are, you only care about your own immediate interests, only care about your deepest thoughts, but far ignore that your relatives also need the care of these family members.

Have you considered how sad and sad your family will be when they know you said these words?You are their relatives, and they will never believe that you will do such a thing, let alone say such a thing, every word may sound unintentional to you, but it is in the eyes of others. It was a true sentence in their eyes, they had no way to treat all this as if it never happened.

No matter what my mother did wrong, but from his current attitude, he really wants to spend his life with you, why don't you try to accept all his good and bad, you should tolerate , the biggest thing between husband and wife should be tolerance, if you don't even have the courage to tolerate and forgive, then you will live together with each other, and you will always bring only harm to each other, and you will not even be able to give the most basic happiness. "

"Grandpa, although I am a junior, I have no reason to make any comments on the things between you and grandma, but I agree with what my father said, the most important thing between husband and wife is tolerance, if you want to be tolerated You don’t even have the courage, so do you think that you have lived together for so many years, and what things have you experienced are worth going through?

Gu</span> Everything you do, maybe you have never considered the problem from the perspective of the other party, but now I hope that you can think about it from the perspective of the other party, even if it is only a little bit, it will be beneficial to both parties. It's the most beautiful relationship in the world, isn't it?If it's just because you make mistakes again and again, just because you don't know how to face each other again and again, you will only make each other feel very painful and uncomfortable when you live together.

I believe that the experience between you and grandma for so many years is real. It is something experienced between you husband and wife. Only you can feel it together. It is just a memory between the two of you. Those memories Those of us who are family members cannot participate or intervene. Everything you have experienced should be worthy of the time when you depended on each other. It is really not easy for two people to depend on each other in the most difficult time.It is even more difficult for two people to regard each other as more important than their own lives in the most painful time, because why should they hurt the person who is most loyal to them again and again?

If you think back on all your experiences over the years, I believe you should feel that you still have many good memories between each other. We have never experienced those memories, and we don’t know what kind of memories that feel like.

Grandpa, I know that such a thing happened is a great insult to a man, it is a deep shame, but it is a shadow that may not be erased by any means in a lifetime, but I believe that as long as you sincerely If you want to live with grandma, you can forgive and tolerate no matter what mistakes grandma makes.

It has been a long, long time since these things have passed, but you have always chosen not to say it, which proves that deep down in your heart, you still choose to help him and live with him, because you know that there are family rules. How strict, as long as he makes a mistake, especially cheating in marriage, he will be kicked out by the family without hesitation. At that time, it is everyone who is ugly. I believe that if you do this, not only It's just because you love grandma deep in your heart, and at the same time you are protecting the century-old reputation of being the head of the family. "

"Nai'er, I have to admit that Grandpa agrees with what you said in his heart. Although I didn't say all these things at the beginning, there is indeed a deep shadow in my heart. I can regress to This situation is because I want to protect the reputation of the family. I can't let my father's family reputation, which he has worked so hard to maintain for so long, be ruined by the two of us. He has to bear the consequences, but I can't drag my family, my father, or my entire family.

I know that my father is getting old, and he can't bear a little bit of harm now. If my father is hurt again because of me, how should I face it? Yes, the mother who exchanged her life for a chance of my life, how will I face the ancestors of the Zhang family in the future.

Perhaps all of this is not the most important, but this is the only ending that I can make for the people in this family in my heart. The only contribution I can make to the family is only a little bit.

This kind of contribution may not be the most important to the people in this family, but it is my whole heart. Everything I do actually takes family factors into account. I just ignore my family time and time again. , what is the most needed concern, I abandoned everything, but in the end I got nothing for myself.

After you listened to the story I told you today, I hope you don't mention it to anyone, especially my father, as you said, he is old, he can't take a little hit, I I don't want him to worry about me because of my affairs.Now that my wife chooses to stay and live in this family, I hope that he really wants to live, not just talking about it, and not choosing to take advantage of my feelings again, which will only make my life worse. We are more ugly to each other, and even more unable to face each other.

I can only tell you these things, I can’t tell anyone, because once I say it, the nature will change completely. I don’t want my wife to bear the pressure of public opinion. I just hope that he can live happily. Even if the person he loves the most deep in his heart is not me, I still hope that he can laugh all the time, as long as he is happy, even if I suffer humiliation, I am willing, and now he is indeed happy, I suffered too, and I deserved all the humiliation, but I don't blame him, it's all my own choice.

I chose this path myself, so I have no reason to blame others.

Because the road is chosen by oneself, it is meaningless to blame others, and it cannot change one's current status quo.

Maybe you think it's funny, after he betrayed his marriage and love, I still love him without hesitation. This love has been deeply engraved in my bone marrow, and I have no way to get rid of it in my whole life. I don't understand deep down in my heart, why so many people in the world are beating just for him, do you understand that feeling?I was only used once and was abandoned by everyone again and again, but I was powerless and could only watch silently. It felt like how much pain I had in my heart, but I had no choice but to silently Bearing the pain he brought to me, I can only take these pains as an experience in my life, an experience, maybe then I can be a little more balanced in my heart, and I can feel better ? "

Zhang Yichen now finds out that his father is really stupid, for loving his mother to the point of hopelessness.

He really hopes that one day, his mother can see his father, all the hard work he has put in for him, and see what his father has done for him, instead of doing it like this now. What happened to my own family, how painful and uncomfortable it should be for everyone, maybe my mother didn't feel it in her heart, but the people next to her could see it clearly from a distance. What kind of person my mother is, what kind of things she has done, and what kind of life she has faced.

Although Zhang Na doesn't understand love, he feels that he has finally seen how terrible marriage is today, but he also understands that marriage is not scary for everyone. Some people's marriages are very happy because they are loyal to each other. But some people's marriages are very painful, because one of them cheated and betrayed their mutual promises, betrayed the vows of each other, and betrayed their greatest trust in each other. It wasn't until they did something wrong that they found themselves Everything I did was wrong, but when I looked back at that time, betrayal was betrayal after all.

"I know all the betrayals between you husband and wife, and I give you all the leeway to pretend that everything happened. I just want to let you know exactly what you have done. How outrageous..."

I thought about the countless times we met, but you never showed up, what are you afraid of?Why has it never appeared?Do you know how hard it is for me to wait like this?