People in Fengxian: Put on hair wax and become the boss

I haven't walked a few steps,

I heard my daughter start to hold it again,

A trace of unhappiness suddenly appeared on the middle-aged man's face!

And so it is with his wife,

Immediately he spoke,

"Yaya, how tired Dad is holding you!"

"And it's still summer, and after holding you for a while, you and your dad will be sweating. "

"Can you walk on your own?"

"Obedient Ha Yaya, if you are obedient, Mom will wait for you~ Please eat an ice cream!"

Hearing Mom's words,

The little girl named Yaya didn't stop there.

But still with two little hands,

I couldn't wait to stomp my foot and shout,

"Dad, hug, Yaya wants to hug ......"

"Dad, please, hug Yaya!"

"You kid, why are you so disobedient!"

The woman was a little impatient, and said angrily,

"Every time you go out, you have to let you hold it!"

"If you do this again, Mom and Dad will come out again in the future, but I won't take you with me!"

"It's not like you can't walk!"

"Can't you walk on your own?!"

“......"

After the woman finished speaking,

He deliberately turned his head away,

Pretending not to see the little hand of his daughter's outstretched hand,

I want my daughter to retreat.

And in the face of her approach,

Yaya is wronged,

Jumping and jumping there in a hurry,

While crying and shouting for a hug, he desperately raised his little hands and begged in front of his parents.

That look,

Like ants on a hot pan, restless.

Looked at

The woman became even more impatient,

The same is true for middle-aged men,

Speechlessness was written all over his face.

He didn't know what his daughter thought, every time he went out, he had to hug him, and he didn't even want to take one more step.

When I'm usually at home,

She's not like that,

Sometimes, at home you want to hug her,

She won't let you hug you.

But as soon as you go out,

You have to hold it.

If it's winter,

It doesn't matter, just hold it, it's a little tiring at most.

But the point is,

Now it's summer,

Weather in June,

It's still very muggy,

Even if the air conditioning is turned on in the mall,

But as soon as I walked, I was also sweating,

Not to mention,

I'm holding a child of more than 20 pounds again!

I can't hold it for two minutes,

The clothes on both of them were soaking wet!

So

The middle-aged man really doesn't want to hold Yaya.

At this point,

Seeing that the maid is disobedient,

I'm going to start crying again,

The middle-aged man completely lost his patience,

was about to reprimand Yaya......

But

At this moment,

In his mind, it suddenly came to him,

When I was watching the show before,

The picture of Lu Yu getting along with Tong Tong!

The father and daughter in the show,

It's really too harmonious and harmonious,

There is no generation gap at all,

It's like a pair of close friends,

The middle-aged man who watched it looked envious.

Especially just now,

The scene of Brother Lu sharing snacks with Tong Tong,

The middle-aged man who watched it laughed,

While waiting for my wife to buy clothes,

He sat in a chair at the door,

I almost didn't laugh,

Straight off the chair!

When I finished reading this paragraph,

In addition to laughter,

The middle-aged man then fell into thought,

As a father,

How can you get along with your children as close as Brother Lu and Tong Tong?

He thought about it,

Finally, I came up with the answer!

That is,

Walk into the world of children,

From a child's point of view,

to look at the world,

to understand the child,

Start with your children as friends!

So

maybe

someday

I can also become a close father and daughter with my daughter,

Just like Brother Lu and Tong Tong!

Because of this,

After thinking about this,

When the middle-aged man came to his lips, he immediately swallowed it back!

"If it were Brother Lu, when he encountered this kind of thing, he would definitely not reprimand Tong Tong!"

The middle-aged man thought,

Try to calm yourself down,

He looked at his daughter, who was still crying and clamoring to hug,

Put away the impatience in my heart,

Asked

"Yaya, Dad can hold you. "

"But can you tell Dad why you have to let Daddy hold you?"

The middle-aged man imitated the way Lu Yu communicated with Tong Tong,

Begin to learn from it.

Yaya heard this,

Immediately it stopped,

I saw her look at the crowd around her in fear,

And then he said,

"Because, because Yaya was very scared, she let her father hold ......"

"Scared?!"

Hearing my daughter's answer,

The middle-aged man paused for a moment.

This was the first time he knew,

The reason why my daughter wants to let herself hold is that she is afraid!

Afraid of what?!

What is there to be afraid of here?!

In normal times,

The middle-aged man may sneer,

Then for my daughter's answer, I felt ridiculous and ignored it.

But this time,

He didn't do it again,

Instead, he asked very seriously,

"Yaya, can you tell Dad, what are you afraid of?"

"Mom and Dad are by your side, what are you afraid of?"

"Are you afraid of getting lost, or are you afraid of something else?"

The middle-aged man substituted himself into Lu Yu's character,

Patiently asked her daughter.

Side

When his wife saw this,

Speechlessly smiled,

"Husband, don't listen to the nonsense!"

"What to be afraid of and not to be afraid of!"

"Let me tell you, Yaya, she's just coquettish, she's too lazy to walk!"

"I've heard people say before that many children are like this, when they can't walk, they want to come down and walk, and they don't want to be held by adults. "

"But when they really grow up and learn to walk, they start to be reluctant to walk on their own, and they have to be held by adults!"

"It's because, when they grow up, they become smarter and know that they are tired of walking!"

"Compared to walking by yourself, how easy and comfortable it is for adults to hold!"

"At the end of the day, it's lazy!"

“......"

In the eyes of the middle-aged man's wife,

What is not afraid of it,

It's just a child's excuse,

Yaya, she just wants to be lazy,

I feel tired of walking,

That's why I have to let it be held!

This view,

Actually, to be honest,

It is also the point of view of many parents who are parents,

When a child wants to hold it,

As far as I subconsciously think,

The child is coquettish, hypocritical, unwilling to walk, and tired of walking.

In normal times,

Middle-aged men may also agree with this statement,

But this time,

He faced his wife's explanation,

But he just shook his head slightly.

What he wants,

It's not from the adult world, summed up the answer,

but

The answer from the mouth of her daughter.

"Don't talk yet, I want to hear what Yaya herself says. "

The middle-aged man waved his hand at his wife,

Then he looked at his daughter,

Patiently asked,

"Yaya, tell Dad, what are you afraid of?"

"I'll go, husband, why are you asking this, didn't I tell you everything......"

"Shut up, okay?"

The middle-aged man glared at his wife,

His wife suddenly rolled her eyes,

Speechless and angry, he crossed his waist.

The middle-aged man ignored her,

is still waiting for her daughter's answer.

waited for a few seconds,

Yaya used her immature voice to explain with great difficulty,

"Dad, Yaya is scared, I'm afraid of everything......" (read violent novels, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

"I'm afraid of so many people here, I'm afraid of this doll, I'm afraid that this place is very high, and I'm afraid of the painting ......"

Yaya said,

While stretching out his little hand and pointing around.

The middle-aged man followed the direction of his daughter's finger,

I kept looking at the past,

Needless to say, "people",

The mall is full of people.

doll

Yaya refers to a half-human-tall doll in front of the store next to it, in the shape of a long-nosed Pinocchio.

Very high?

Yaya refers to the above.

High ceilings?

Well

It's really quite tall here.

Painting, []

It refers to a poster hanging down from the top floor of the mall.

The poster hung from the top floor to the bottom, a height of more than ten meters,

The poster shows a photo of a popular female celebrity promoting a certain product in the mall.

Obviously,

The things that the girl said scared her,

In fact, for adults,

It's all something very normal, very commonplace,

There is nothing to be afraid of.

Middle-aged man's wife,

I couldn't help but laugh on the side.

"Husband, look, Yaya is just talking nonsense!"

"What is there to be afraid of these things?"

Oh, yes......

These things,

What is there to fear from a daughter?

Mo Fei,

Is my daughter really talking nonsense?

The middle-aged man fell into deep thought,

also began to doubt the authenticity of what Yaya said.

But

When he noticed Yaya's expression,

But his expression suddenly froze,

Saw

Yaya's face did show a very frightened look,

This way,

It really doesn't look like it's pretending.

She's really scared.

But

The middle-aged man couldn't figure it out again,

These things,

What is there to be afraid of.

until

Suddenly he remembered again,

When I watched the show before, I summed up the experience from Lu Yu,

From a child's point of view,

Look at the world!

A child's perspective......

Thinking of this,

The middle-aged man suddenly had an idea,

From the posture of standing and looking down on his daughter,

turned into a crouch,

He squatted next to the maid,

Make yourself tall,

became as tall as a maid,

But

Yaya is too short,

She's only three and a half years old,

Even if you squat down by yourself,

is still half a head taller than Yaya.

thereupon

The middle-aged man simply spread his legs to the sides a little,

In this way,

finally barely reached the height of her daughter.

After doing this,

The middle-aged man raised his head again and looked around.

At a glance,

He was stunned at first,

then

The whole person became extremely surprised and shocked!

It's like discovering a new world,

With the sound of his breathing,

At this moment,

It's all getting faster!

especially

When people are passing by one after another,

It makes the middle-aged man,

I experienced a feeling that I had never felt before!

Looking at the past from his low perspective now,

These were originally for him,

Extremely ordinary passers-by,

At this moment,

But he became as tall and burly as a giant!

When they pass by him, he can't see their faces at all, and he looks at the past.

All the eye could see was their legs and shoes.

Even if you look up and look up,

Only their chins and nostrils can be seen.

An inexplicable sense of oppression,

Spontaneously.

At this moment,

The middle-aged man suddenly realized that his daughter's perspective has always been so small!

Yaya is three and a half years old this year,

The height is 80 cm,

It belongs to the height of a normal girl of this age.

And the passers-by around,

The height is generally around 1.7 meters.

80 centimeters than 170 centimeters,

2.125 times multiple!

If you convert it to your height of 1.8 meters,

It's like,

Walking in the mall by yourself, surrounded by some giants who are nearly four meters tall!

Walking among these giants,

Are you scared?

Do you still need to ask,

I'm sure I'm afraid!

As long as it's a normal person, who can not be afraid of this!!

Suddenly,

The middle-aged man finally realized where his daughter was scared!

This world,

From an adult's point of view,

It's ordinary, it's normal.

But for a height of only 80 cm,

And for children who are not deeply involved in the world and are ignorant,

All the people, things, and things around us,

But it's all so huge and oppressive!

Thinking of this,

He turned his head to look at the Pinocchio doll again,

Originally a very cute doll,

When it becomes taller than itself,

It's really not cute at all,

On the contrary, it is very scary,

I can't see the expression on its face at all,

I could only see the long nose, longer than my daughter's small arms,

And the ceiling......

The middle-aged man looked up,

The ceiling has become so high that it seems to be collapsing at any moment.

That painting,

Not to mention,

On the poster more than ten meters high, the female star printed on it, if you look at it from an adult perspective,

It's equivalent to a supergiant nearly thirty meters tall,

Thirty meters......

And the world's largest marine life, the blue whale,

their body length,

It's only between 26 and 30 meters.

From Yaya's point of view,

This female star in the poster,

It's like,

Let an adult,

Go and stand in front of a blue whale up close, just like you go to see a blue whale!

Even if you don't have a phobia of giants,

I'm afraid that it will also be in front of such a huge blue whale,

Let's have a strong discomfort reaction!

At this moment,

The middle-aged man understood,

He finally understood why every time he came out with Yaya, Yaya had to be pestered, and he wanted the adults to hold her!

She's not lazy,

It's not coquettish,

but

Looking at the past from her little perspective,

It's really going to be about this unknown, strange and huge world,

Feel the heartfelt fear!

"Hahaha, husband, what are you doing here?"

"You're really funny like this!"

"Get up!"

"I said it all, your daughter is just lazy, what is not afraid, you really believe it!"

“......"

Then

The middle-aged man's wife couldn't help but speak on the side.

Looking at her husband,

Squatting there looking around,

She really wanted to laugh out loud,

I don't know,

What is my husband doing,

It's just ridiculous!

........................

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