On the Possibility of Transforming Men with Low EQ

"Professor Xu?" The person in front of him suddenly seemed to be lost in his own thoughts, Luo Bin waited for a while, and couldn't help but remind him.

Although he was still studying, his mind was always focused on experiments, but Luo Bin was not completely unaware of Xu Ming's name. This person was really eye-catching, with a good family background, outstanding talent, and exquisite interpersonal skills.

Regardless of whether it is the school where he once studied or the campus where he is teaching at this time, when it comes to Xu Ming from the School of Economics and Management, probably everyone can boast for a few hours.

It's just that Luo Bin felt that the man in front of him was a little different from the man he had heard about before when he was in close contact with him for the first time.

It doesn't seem to be as 'mythical' as the rumors say, but I have to admit that Xu Ming looks more...beautiful than the rumors.

"Sorry, I thought of something." Realizing that he had lost his composure in front of Luo Bin, Xu Ming coughed in embarrassment, took out his phone and checked the time, and said, "It's getting late, how can we help you, let's go out and find Let’s eat and talk at the shop.”

"OK"

The two walked out of the library together. They met many students on the way, and they all stopped to say hello, but most of the people who greeted were Xu Ming first, and then whispered to Luo Bin, who was always indifferent and rigorous.

As the same celebrities in the school, the attitudes of the students towards the two people with very different styles are obviously different.

It wasn't until getting into Xu Ming's car that Luo Bin sighed, "Professor Xu is very popular."

"However, I hope students will remember me not because they think I'm a good person, but because they really appreciate my professional ability." Xu Ming turned his head and said seriously: "Just like you."

"A ten-year-old child prodigy who was proficient in using advanced mathematics, was admitted to university at the age of 15, and graduated with a Ph.D. in finance at the age of 25. During this period, he published countless journals and papers. Isn't Professor Xu's resume enough to make people remember?"

"You..." Xu Ming has received a lot of compliments since he was a child, but he was never surprised when he heard Luo Bin say this, or rather surprised. He opened his mouth, and he, who has always been eloquent and eloquent, I didn't know how to answer the call for a while.

"what happened?"

"It's nothing, it's just that I thought you wouldn't remember such a small thing."

After so many years, Xu Ming has been paying attention to the news about Luo Bin, and he thinks he knows a little about him, so he knows how difficult it is to be remembered by the other party.

"I've heard so much, it's hard not to remember." Luo Bin smiled, and his eyes fell on the man driving the car again. He seemed to hesitate for a few seconds and asked, "Don't you think it's strange? About my sexuality."

"What's so strange, what age is this? However, the situation in China has not been good in the past few years, and you are quite courageous to take people to the library like this."

"I really don't know where I can go." As he spoke, Luo Bin scratched his hair in embarrassment, "Besides, there is a separate access control in that area, and there are not many students who have permission to enter. I have been there several times and have never met Others, I didn't expect Professor Xu to be there."

Because many of them are out-of-print scientific research books and newspapers, in order to avoid damage, only students of related majors can enter and read them. Naturally, there are not many people at ordinary times, but there are restrictions on students, but not on school teachers...

"I've been alumni for so many years, you can just call me Xu Ming. There are so many places you can go on a date, I'll tell you slowly in a while."

At this time, the car had already arrived at the entrance of the restaurant, parked the car, and the two walked into the restaurant together. At first, Luo Bin didn't pay attention to it. After the waiter brought the menu, he asked in surprise, "How do you know that I love Sichuan cuisine?" ?”

"When I was in country M, I met you a few times at the Sichuan restaurant next to the school, so I guess you at least like spicy food."

That Sichuan restaurant was opened by a Chinese, and the taste was authentic, but Luo Bin didn't have the money to eat authentic Sichuan cuisine abroad at that time, and he often went there just to order a bowl of dandan noodles to improve the meal, but Xu Ming didn't expect to see it.

Luo Bin is not good at ordering food, so he simply gave the menu to Xu Ming. Xu Ming ordered a few signature dishes, asked and placed the order. While waiting for the dishes, he asked casually: "Are you guys on a date today? Originally Where are you going to eat?"

"Originally?" Luo Bin frowned, as if troubled by this question, "I don't know... He can eat whatever he wants."

...

Xu Ming supported his forehead, feeling a little helpless, "Didn't you make a little plan?"

After speaking, maybe he himself felt that this was not realistic for Luo Bin, so he added: "Forget it, it seems that I have to teach you from the beginning, but now the top priority is to coax him back first. This is all about breaking up. gone."

"Can you coax back after breaking up?"

"Of course, he just said to break up, you can make it back." Xu Ming thought of something, and suddenly said: "You can't... you never made it back when you were broken up before, right?"

"Yes." Luo Bin nodded seriously.

"You really..."

Xu Ming looked constipated, and he didn't know how to describe it anymore, so he paused for a while before saying, "But speaking of it, have you had many relationships?"

"Not many, I have handed over a few, but most of them are not long."

Maybe it was because he was really confused about his emotions that ended without a problem every time. Luo Bin didn't shy away from it afterwards, and probably talked to Xu Ming about his past relationship experiences.

He has dated three boyfriends before, and this is the fourth one now. The beginning and end of each relationship are very similar. The other party confesses proactively, and he accepts it without rejecting the other party. After a few weeks or a few days of ordinary dating, the other party Proposed to break up, let it go.

After hearing this, Xu Ming sighed, "Of course we have to break up...You are not in a relationship at all... Tell me, how far have you and them developed?"

"To what extent?" Luo Bin didn't understand, so he could only humbly ask for advice.

"Hold hands, hug, kiss, have sex, wherever you go."

"Ah..." Luo Bin whispered, Xu Ming said too directly, he was a little embarrassed, squeezed his hands together on the table, lowered his head and said softly: "Hold...Hold your hand..."

And it was the initiative of the other party.

"Well... I think so." After being shocked before, Xu Ming had already expected that he would only hold hands, and was not surprised.

Just thinking about it in my heart, it seems that although Luo Bin has experienced four relationships, he is still a blank slate in terms of relationships...

He was even more surprised, "Since you don't really like them, why do you keep dating them?"

"I'm 32 this year."

Although the two graduated in the same year, but because Xu Ming skipped a grade, and Luo Bin took the high school entrance examination a year late due to family relations, in fact, Luo Bin is four years older than Xu Ming.

"Then?"

Luo Bin pursed his lips, "If you are heterosexual, you are almost married and have children at this age, so I think I should also have a stable partner."

...

After chatting over a meal, Xu Ming was no longer surprised that Luo Bin had such thoughts. Although he had been abroad for many years, Luo Bin devoted himself to scientific research. In my concept, life should go on step by step, and at what age, you should do what you should do at that age.

The formation of concepts is often related to the growth environment, and it is difficult to be easily changed. Hearing about Luo Bin's experience, Xu Ming thinks it is understandable, and does not try to change him. He just thought about it and said: "Emotions need two people. In a joint operation, the other party can actually feel how much thought you have put into a relationship.”

"I seriously want to live well in every relationship, but I just can't get in." Luo Bin took off the heavy goggles on his face and put them aside, and smiled at Xu Ming, "If Teacher Xu is willing Teach me, I think I'll be a good student."

Xu Ming also smiled, "Okay, then it depends on how much time the student is willing to spend learning from me."