On the Possibility of Transforming Men with Low EQ

In terms of study, Luo Bin is naturally a good student.

Perhaps because of his habit since he was a child, Luo Bin always takes his study very seriously. He said that he wanted to learn how to fall in love from Xu Ming, so he really took time to find Xu Ming every week.

To be honest, Xu Ming's love experience is not as rich as Luo Bin's, but because of his good background, he has been exposed to all kinds of people and things since he was a child. Xu Ming's emotional intelligence has always been high, and he always dominates in love. The previous lovers, even after breaking up, still praised him full of praise and never forgot.

Before, Xu Ming had taught Luo Bin how to choose the restaurant his lover liked based on his daily observations, and how to communicate in daily life.

This weekend Luo Bin deliberately spared two days, and Xu Ming planned to let him experience how to date.

"Actually, there are many ways to date, and there is no fixed location, but the purpose is to make both of you feel relaxed and happy, and find a way of getting along that suits you."

Xu Ming took Luo Bin to a badminton hall, and explained as he walked in: "For example, this kind of sport suitable for two people, I think it is worth trying."

To some extent, it is actually easier for same-sex couples to find the same interests, and doing things that both of them are interested in can especially enhance their relationship.

Luo Bin took the racket from Xu Ming, "I haven't played badminton for a few years."

"It doesn't matter. You usually sit in the laboratory for a whole day. There is no harm in exercising more. Come on, let me give you a hand."

Luo Bin didn't understand what he meant at first, until he saw that Xu Ming had switched the racket to his left hand, and he was surprised: "Are you left-handed?"

"No, but I heard that using the left hand can develop the right brain, so I specially practice the left hand."

The two warmed up for a while and then started playing. Just like Luo Bin said, he hadn't touched badminton for many years, so even if Xu Ming didn't use his dominant hand, it was still difficult for him to cope.

But his learning ability is amazing, after playing for a while, he will probably master the technique very quickly, at least he can fight back and forth with Xu Ming for a few rounds without letting the ball hit the ground.

It's a pity that due to long-term lack of exercise, Luo Bin lost his physical fitness and could only sit on a chair beside him to rest after a while.

This amount of exercise is nothing to Xu Ming. He bought water from a vending machine not far away, "Are you okay? Drink water."

Luo Bin took the water and drank half a bottle, and said angrily, "Am I too weak, you didn't enjoy yourself?"

"What's not to enjoy, it was originally to bring you to experience dating."

Because of the need to exercise, Luo Bin didn't wear goggles today, the sweat from the tips of his hair slid down his forehead, over his tall nose bridge, and his dark red thin lips hung precariously on his sharpened jaw.

Xu Ming remembered that he had heard the old man say that men with thin lips and sharp jaws were the most cold-hearted, and for some reason, he subconsciously reached out to wipe away the drops of sweat without even thinking of getting a tissue.

The moment their skins touched, both of them froze at the same time, Xu Ming immediately withdrew his hand as if he was electrocuted, "Well... I'm a little obsessive-compulsive, I can't see this kind of thing, I want to drip or not..."

"It's true that I don't exercise much, so I sweated so much in just a while." Luo Bin didn't mind his touch very much, and took out a pack of tissues from his backpack to wipe his sweat.

Xu Ming breathed a sigh of relief, and quickly changed the subject and asked, "It doesn't matter if you don't wear glasses? So are you only wearing goggles?"

"No, my myopia is about 150 degrees. Because the degree is not high and I stay in the laboratory most of the time, I don't wear glasses specially. I take them off when it's inconvenient to exercise. It doesn't have much effect on seeing things close up,"

"No wonder." Xu Ming looked at him for a while, and sincerely praised: "You should wear less glasses, you look good."

Caught off guard by the compliment, Luo Bin unnaturally brushed the broken hair in front of him, "Is...is it? It's the first time someone said that to me."

"Of course, it's just that you usually wear thick goggles, so you didn't notice it." Xu Ming packed up his things and stood up, "Let's go, go eat."

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At first Xu Ming really wanted to teach Luo Bin how to date and how to fall in love, but gradually, he found that Luo Bin really lacked exercise, stayed in the laboratory for a long time, and even his complexion was unhealthy pale.

In addition, Luo Bin did not choose to save that ex-boyfriend in the end, and returned to the single state again. The matter of improving EQ did not appear to be so urgent. Xu Ming simply asked Luo Bin to exercise every week in the name of teaching love. .

From badminton tennis to jogging and mountain climbing, this week the two met to swim in the swimming pool.

Luo Bin grew up in the village. The children in the village are not as particular about it as those in the city. It is common to go to the stream to swim in summer. Luo Bin also learned to swim early with the older children, but it is the same as badminton. Little contact has been made in all these years.

When he changed into his swimming trunks and came out, Xu Ming had already swam back and forth in the pool.

In autumn, although the swimming pool in the venue is designed with a constant temperature, the number of people visiting the swimming pool has been reduced by half. Xu Ming's height of 1.8 meters is particularly conspicuous in the swimming pool.

Unlike Luo Bin, Xu Ming's skin is healthy and wheat-colored all over his body. He dived into the water, kicked his calf against the wall of the pool, and his whole body moved forward in a streamlined shape. A lot of distance.

It's a standard breaststroke stroke. You can vaguely see a few solid abdominal muscles on the half of your body exposed to the water when you breathe. In the other swimming lanes, there are already many young women who come to exercise and look at him frequently.

Standing on the shore, Luo Bin watched the man getting closer and closer, his heart beat faster for no reason.

It wasn't until Xu Ming came out of the water in front of him with a soft 'crash' that he came back to his senses, knelt down and said, "You swim really well."

Good figure too.

Luo Bin added silently in his heart.