Where is Chunsheng

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In this article, Chuan only plays the role of the author, not the doctor!Any character's cognition and views on the disease in this article only represent the characters' own views and cognitions, and do not represent the author's position!This article does not have a "doctor"'s correct view on the prognosis of the disease, please do not be misled by the views of the characters in the article on the disease! (I completely shielded my identity as a doctor when I wrote about patients and their family members. I hope you don’t get me wrong.) Even the doctor’s views in this article are not my views as a doctor!I do not comment on the level of doctors in this article, but it is not my normal state as a doctor!Thanks! (Heart is so tired, finely divided)

Jiao Yan believes that he is like most people, yearning for this kind of template life when he was still happy.What is happiness? For men, it probably means getting a wife and having children.

The provision of his parents allows him to study without any worries, and he can still fall in love while studying, everything is so beautiful.He has enough money to spend on his girlfriend, buy her beautiful clothes, buy expensive cosmetics and jewelry, and make her a princess that girls are jealous of.Jiao Xi himself doesn't spend much money, he just buys some books, buys some stamps, and occasionally goes fishing.

Jiao Yan and Chen Qian finished their graduate studies together, and they didn't bother to find a job in Xiamen City. With the help of an old friend from the Education Bureau of their father, both of them entered the best middle school in Xiamen City to teach, and At that time, Chen Qian was pregnant, and they hurriedly held the wedding ceremony, and became each other's partner just like that.

It may be because the wedding was too tiring, Chen Qian had a miscarriage after the wedding.Jiao Yan felt a little regretful, but Chen Qian didn't feel any sadness, and occasionally said: "Actually, it's also good! I don't want to be born so early!"

When they got married, the wedding room they used was Jiao Shi’s father’s house. A family of four lived together, and Chen Qian was a little awkward—just like all women who live with their parents-in-law after marriage, Chen Qian began to look at Jiao’s father’s house every day. Swear her reluctance: she doesn't want to wear formal clothes at home, and can't walk around in pajamas; she doesn't want the TV in the living room to always play the programs that the elderly like to watch; Clothes, she couldn't complain after washing her silk dress to pieces; she was reluctant to stay home late and hang out with her friends at the pub.

Jiao vowed to hear it, and was in a dilemma.They just came out to work, and the housing prices in Xiamen City were ridiculously high. They got married in a hurry and had no money to buy a house. Their parents thought that the house was too big, and Jiao Yan was an only child. They didn’t need to live separately from their son. When they had a child, You can also help with it.

When he was studying, he and Chen Qian didn't live together at all, they just lived in the dormitory separately, and occasionally went out to open a room, and after they got married, they lived together, and at the same time they had Jiao Yan's parents, Jiao Yan could understand Chen Qian's discomfort , but I can’t think of any solution. Isn’t it like this for only children, and they are still with their parents after marriage?If they don't live together, who will take care of the parents in the future?

Chen Qian's complaints did not decrease with time, but increased day by day.Jiao Yao didn't have much expenses when she was in school, and most of the money was given to Chen Qian. The clothes she bought in the past were very expensive.After going to work, Jiao Yan took the initiative to bear all the expenses in the parents' house. There was not much money left every month. Except for his own very small expenses, basically all of it was given to Chen Qian. Chen Qian got little money from Jiao Yan. Yes, she was very dissatisfied with it when she started shopping for clothes.

"Is it necessary for you to give your mother 4000 yuan every month? How can you spend so much money?" Every time Chen Qian mentioned this matter, Jiao vowed to be patient and counted the expenses to her one by one : Food expenses, living expenses, water and electricity expenses, TV network expenses, property management fees, transportation expenses, parking space fees, etc. for a family of four. They already live in their parents’ house and don’t need to pay rent. Can they still eat and drink at the old man’s house? of it?

"We are in trouble now, what's wrong with the elderly helping a little?" Chen Qian said, "Their wages are higher than ours, so why should we pay all of them? Your father always has a lot of money, right?"

After Jiao Shi's father was transferred to Xiamen City, he worked in an unpopular department and did not hold a high position. Their life was just a well-off life, not rich or wealthy, and his parents loved him very much. They gave him a lot of living expenses when he was in school. .The house they lived in was bought after selling the house in Yancheng a few years ago. It is about 150 square meters, and the loan is being provided by their parents-because the parents were older when they bought the house, the loan was for 15 years. The monthly payment is extremely high. In addition, when Jiao vowed to get married, it was the money spent by his parents. He also gave Chen Qian a car of about 30 yuan, plus a dowry gift of nearly 30 yuan to Chen Qian's parents. Savings are definitely not rich.

Chen Qian's so-called difficulty is nothing more than five or six thousand a month's salary is not enough for her to buy some luxury items in style. Jiao Yan never told Chen Qian in the past that he felt that he was able to buy things to make his woman happy, so he would be happy too.But after a long time, I always felt that the finances were really tight. In a quarrel a year after marriage, I couldn't help but said to her: "Your bags can't fit in the whole cabinet. Do you need so many bags?"

But that time when she touched Chen Qian's back, she jumped up and said, "How much did I spend on you? Have you given me a lot of money since I got married? The money you gave me is not enough for my food expenses! I spent I bought the bag with my own money, why do you call me!"

Jiao Xi didn't want to quarrel with her, didn't want to point out that someone was responsible for her food, clothing, housing and transportation, he just said: "We still have a baby, so save some money to raise the baby?"

"Save, save, save! You know how to save money! Why don't you know how to make money! You talk about me, but I haven't talked about you yet! Look at how much money you make a month? People's men earn hundreds of thousands a month Millions, do you still have the nerve to talk about me?"

Jiao vowed that she could not win against Chen Qian, and felt that what she said was true. It was natural for him to earn less money as a teacher. There is a lot of money, but everyone thinks that the normal school is good, and his mother is also a teacher. He thinks this profession is relatively stable, so he took the exam.

Maybe it was because after saying this, Chen Qian felt that she was a little bit wrong—her husband was chosen by herself, and she liked it at the time. It can be imagined that so much money is needed for life, but they earn far from enough - Chen Qian has nothing wrong with her for a while, and she became pregnant again at the end of the second year after marriage.

At that time, Jiao Shi's grandma had passed away for ten years.That year, Jiao Yan's father, Jiao Qingshan, was 55 years old, and Jiao Yan was 28 years old.After my father came back from a business trip, his appetite was not very good. For ten days in a row, he ate less every day. At first, he thought it was because the environment was not acclimatized, but the family didn’t care. Don't you think your father is yellow?"

During that period of time, Jiao Yan often took Chen Qian to the hospital because of her morning sickness. Pay attention to his father's condition. After his mother reminded him, he went to see his father, and he really felt that his eyes and skin were yellow.

At that time, Jiao Yan suddenly thought of He Chunsheng's father's yellow and black lifeless face, panicked in his heart, and said to his father, "Dad, I will ask for leave today to take you to the hospital."

"Don't worry about it, I just don't get used to it." Dad has always been in good health and rarely catches a cold. He is particularly disgusted with going to the hospital, "I'll be fine in a few days."

Mom winked at Jiao Shi, she knew Dad would not listen to her advice.She did not know how many times she persuaded him in the past ten days, but he just refused to go to the hospital to have a look.

Jiao swore went back to the room and took Chen Qian's small mirror, put it in front of his father, and said, "Dad, look at your eyes are all yellow. Don't go out and eat some unclean things, and get hepatitis."

It was probably because the word "hepatitis" finally made my father a little scared - a cousin of Jiao Shi's mother who was very close to him got cirrhosis of the liver at the end of hepatitis, and just passed away two years ago - he agreed to go to the hospital to see him.But he told Jiao not to ask for leave, and just let his mother accompany him.

Jiao Yan's mother just retired at home this year, and his father will not retire until five years later.

But things were not that simple. That afternoon, after class at school, Jiao Yan received a call from his mother. The voice on the phone was the kind that Jiao Yan had never heard before, with some irrepressible worries: "Jiao Yan, The doctor said to put your father in the hospital."

"Hospitalized? Did you find out what the disease was?"

"I don't understand. It seems to say what happened to the pancreas? I don't know if it's pancreatitis or something..." Mom refused to make other guesses.

"Then I'll go to the hospital."

Chen Qian's condition was a little better in those two days, and she went to school for two days.Seeing that Chen Qian hadn't finished class yet, Jiao vowed to send her a text message, telling her that he would go to the hospital first, and asked her to take a taxi back after class.

Jiao Yan still remembers the scene of his father wearing the hospital uniform and sitting on the hospital bed by the window that day, the setting sun shone in through the window, it was icy cold.Mom was standing by the bed peeling an apple, but the fruit knife accidentally cut her finger, she let out a short cry, and the blood gushed out.

"I told you not to eat apples." Seeing this, Dad blamed Mom.

"Dad, Mom." Jiao Yao came in, he blamed the cold sunset and wanted to close the curtains, but Dad said he didn't like the dark and told him not to draw the curtains.

"The doctor in charge hasn't left work yet, Jiao Xi, you can go and ask." Mom pressed her wound with a tissue, Jiao Xi took a look, her mother's wound was deep, and the flesh was already visible.

"Mom, your wound is too deep, I'll take you to sew it up." Jiao swore.

"Go to the doctor first and ask, he will be off work soon." Mother Yang Liu anxiously urged Jiao Yan, Jiao Qingshan remained silent.

Jiao Xi found the doctor's office in the corner, and there was only one doctor inside. He came in rashly, and the doctor was busy with his own affairs, so he didn't have time to pay attention to him.Jiao Xi took a moment to ask the doctor, "Hello, doctor! I am a family member of Jiao Qingshan in bed 23, and I want to know about his condition."

The doctor looked up at Jiao Yan and asked, "Which family is it?"

"I am his son."

"Is there any family member who wants to know about the condition? Let's call them together." The doctor's attitude was very gentle, and he explained, "The condition is more complicated. If anyone wants to hear about the condition, it's better to talk about it together, so that I don't have time to explain it next time. "

Jiao vowed to go back to the ward to call his mother, but his father didn't speak or move when he saw that they were both going.

When Jiao Yan and Yang Liu arrived at the office, the doctor asked again: "Who is this family member?"

"I'm Jiao Qingshan's wife." Mother Yang Liu hurriedly revealed her identity.

"I will discuss with you about the next medical presentation, and then you can decide whether or not to tell Jiao Qingshan, and how much you tell, and we will cooperate." After speaking, the doctor turned on the reading light on the wall, hung up the two films, Tell them: "This is the MRI of the upper abdomen that Jiao Qingshan did in the outpatient clinic today. He came to the hospital today and first had a liver function test and an abdominal ultrasound. It was found that the bilirubin was very high, and the direct bilirubin was the main one. Ultrasound indicated that the gallbladder was enlarged. The doctor in the outpatient department suspected that there was an obstruction and asked him to do an MRI of the upper abdomen.

"This is MRI. Look, here is the pancreas." The doctor pointed to a place, but Jiao Yan couldn't understand it at all. "The head of the pancreas is swollen, and something is growing inside."

"What is it?" Yang Liu asked.

"I'm actually leaning toward pancreatic cancer," the doctor said, "but the radiologist doesn't rule out autoimmune pancreatitis—you know, it's difficult to diagnose through a layer of belly. Clinically speaking, his innocuous Painful jaundice is more like the compression of a tumor on the head of the pancreas, and there are many enlarged lymph nodes in the abdominal cavity on the film, but we cannot confirm the diagnosis at present."

Jiao Yan grasped the point of the question: "You mean, pancreatitis can be cured, but pancreatic cancer cannot?"

The doctor said cautiously: "Almost, but not entirely. Pancreatitis is not a malignant disease, but pancreatic cancer is a malignant disease. The treatment strategies are completely different."

Yang Liu became anxious after hearing this: "Then is there any way to diagnose it?"

The doctor looked at the two family members and said helplessly: "The only way to confirm the diagnosis is laparotomy, that is, to have an operation, take out those lymph nodes for a pathological examination, and see whether it is inflammation or cancer. However, if it is inflammation, this If it's cancer, if it's cancer, it can be diagnosed if it's continued, but," the doctor pointed to several places on the film, "such extensive lymph node metastasis may have a poor prognosis."

"Then what should we do?" Yang Liu's eyes turned red.

"So what I mean is, we can treat it according to autoimmune pancreatitis first. If the effect is not good, we will consider another diagnosis; if the effect is good, then we don't have to suffer this knife." The doctor said tactfully.

"But you just said that you prefer the diagnosis of pancreatic cancer." Jiao swore reminded the doctor.

The doctor looked at Jiao Yan and said, "If it's pancreatic cancer, it's almost incurable at this level, understand?"

Jiao Yan probably understood what the doctor meant, but Yang Liu didn't think so. She said: "But what if the treatment of pancreatitis is delayed and the treatment of pancreatic cancer is delayed?"

"If it's this kind of widely metastatic pancreatic cancer, the survival time is almost the same whether it is treated or not."