If this love becomes a memory

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Mo Wei has been home for more than ten days. On the night of going back, her father talked with her alone and expressed two meanings. One is to deal with Mo Wei's affairs in the future and no family meetings will be held; the other is to respect her as much as possible. choose.This moved Mo Wei very much. Her parents are old-fashioned people. She never thought about coming out. It is not easy to get her father's understanding this time.

Of course, this is due to my sister-in-law's mediation for more than two months.But my father suggested that she would like her to live at home in the future.

"After you find a job, I can use my car for you," Dad said.This made Mo Wei a little difficult. She lived with her grandparents in her hometown until she was ten years old. After coming to this city, she went to boarding in high school. After graduating from university and working, she rented a house with AA. She spent very little time with her parents. It is definitely not used to asking her to go home and live with the old man now, but thinking that her father has already made a concession, she agreed.

On the weekend when I came back, my aunt had a treat, and Mo Wei went to the dinner with her parents. An aunt brought a young man and arranged him to sit next to Mo Wei seemingly casually.During the banquet, Mo Wei could see the clues from the ambiguous smiles and sneaky whispers of the crowd, she only ate the food with her head down, and turned a deaf ear to the young man's hospitality and inquiries.After the dinner was over, the aunt pulled Mo Wei and talked about the good points of a lot of young men. Mo Wei listened with a low eyebrow, and finally smiled politely and said, "Thank you for your concern, I don't have any plans to fall in love yet."

On the way back, my father drove without saying a word, and my mother repeatedly introduced the young man's life background several times, and asked Mo Wei what she thought, and let her mother ask questions, but Mo Wei didn't say a word, and her mother broke down The kung fu of reciting is better than that of the Zhou version of Tang Seng. If the language is a little careless, the ears will definitely suffer.

Two days later, Dad asked Mo Wei to bring something to Second Uncle. After that, Second Aunt asked her to have dinner, but Mo Wei rolled up her sleeves and went into the kitchen to help.Soon, Uncle

When he came back with his son Mo Xian, there was another boy who came with him. Mo Wei thought it was Mo Xian's friend, and greeted him with a few jokes. After entering the kitchen, a text message rang on the phone. Mo Wei picked it up and looked. But Mo Xian, who was sitting in the living room, sent it: Sister, don't blame me for not reminding you, this guy is for you to match.

Mo Xian knew about Mo Wei's affairs, and the relationship between the siblings has always been very good. Mo Wei kept her composure at the moment, and when her second uncle and aunt were not paying attention, she sneaked out and ran away.

When I got home, the family was eating dinner. Mo Wei just got on the table, when my mother had a fit, put down her chopsticks and said, "Why can't you get in touch with them? Are you going to fool around like this all your life?" Because grandparents were present , Dad stopped mom, Mo Wei got up and went back to her room.

Dad followed in and said, "Weiwei, you have to understand your mother, go get in touch."

Mo Wei said: "Dad, you said you respected my choice."

"I've said it, but you have to think about it for us. Even if it's for us, do you think it's wrong everywhere?"

"No matter how you go, isn't it just a show for others? It's not good for the man."

"Then you really plan to do this in your life? You can't change it for us?"

Mo Wei was at a loss, isn't this back again?This request must not be agreed, otherwise, he will definitely be asked to marry for his parents and have children, which is terrifying to think about.It seems that the views and thoughts accumulated by the parents over the years are hard to change.Mo Wei was silent for a while, then said, "Dad, I want to move out."

"No." Dad refused very simply. "In the past, your mother and I cared too little about you. Now that you live at home, we can communicate easily."

Mo Wei's head grew big, and in the following days, because her living habits did not meet her mother's requirements, her scalp would explode from nagging all day long, and she had to be on guard against the trap of blind dates.Mo Wei decided to find a job as soon as possible and find a way to move out.

In fact, she submitted a few resumes online as soon as she came back, and also participated in a large-scale job fair. After more than ten days passed, there was no interview notice. She even regretted her impulse to resign at the beginning.Although I didn't like the job and had no prospects, the salary was not low.Now that more and more people are pouring into this city, I'm afraid it will be more difficult to find a job.

And thinking about my own family, didn't they also flood into this city from their hometown?The metropolis is gorgeous and colorful, but it has an illusion like an electric background. Mo Wei has always felt that the bustling performance on the city stage has nothing to do with her. The effort to integrate into it, but where is her position and where is her future, Mo Wei doesn't know.

Being so exhausted at home all the time, Mo Wei became a little irritable.On this day, Xiao Xin called her again to ask her out to play. Xiao Xin is also L. Among the friends in the circles that Mo Wei knew, Xiao Xin had the deepest relationship with her. From her point of view, Xiao Xin knew how to love his wife. The sense of responsibility is absolutely nothing but T.

"It's so embarrassing for you to come back and not show up for so long." Xiao Xin said, "Go to the coffee shop and let's chat."

Mo Wei actually doesn't like sitting in coffee shops. In order to satisfy Xiao Xin's bogus hobbies, she went to the coffee shop they used to go to, found a seat by the window, ordered a cup of tea, and leisurely Sit and wait for Xiao Xin.

After a while, a car stopped outside the door. Xiao Xin got down and entered the hall slowly. When he got to the table, Mo Wei burst out laughing.I haven't seen her for a few months, Xiao Xin's hair has grown a lot, she is wearing a famous brand, and she is dressed in a feminine way. "Recently popular girl T? Make it look like this!"

Xiao Xin ignored it, asked for a cup of coffee, lowered his head, sniffed it, took a sip, and said slowly, "Why do you make yourself so masculine, like a label, and provide people with speculation."

Mo Wei shook her head exaggeratedly: "Anyway, looking at you looks awkward, are you rich? It's a car and a famous brand."

"The car belongs to my girlfriend, and she bought the clothes."

Mo Wei didn't come to her senses. Xiao Xin has a wife. She and BB have been living together for several years, and they both made housing together. Why did a girlfriend appear?Without waiting to ask, Xiao Xin said again: "I broke up with BB."

Mo Wei stared, pouted, Xiao Xin and BB have been in love for ten years.Surprised: "What's wrong? Why do you know how to divide?"

"After you left, we attended AA's wedding. That night, BB and I sat opposite each other for the whole night. The ending of the two of you seemed to be our tomorrow. I couldn't remember who brought up the topic of the future. We talked about it politely and objectively without arguing. When it came time to break up, it seemed that this idea had been stored in each other's hearts for a long time, and we took this opportunity to put it on the table."

"How will my breakup with AA affect you? Could it be that you left emotionally and made excuses?"

Xiao Kuan smiled and said: "We are all in our thirties, and the pressure of forced marriage in BB's family is much stronger than that in AA's family. In the past two years, BB has always wanted to arrange a physical marriage to cope with the family. I disagree. This The contradictions are slowly accumulating, and I know there will be such a day."

Mo Wei was silent for a while, and said: "I really didn't expect that you would break up too. Could it be that the long-term relationship between LL is really just a myth?"

"I don't know." Xiao Xin said with a long sigh: "I just know that I'm very tired. I'm [-] this year, and I kept dealing with my family in the early years. Finally, my parents acquiesced in my decision to be single, and the troubles of the BB family came again. Here we come, and in BB's eyes, I am T, I should take more responsibility for the future, and I should have greater responsibilities, Wei, I feel like I can't bear it any longer."

"Excuse, what do you mean you can't bear it anymore? How long has it been since you broke up with BB? You made a new girlfriend so soon, can you bear it here?"

"You should know my current girlfriend, BB's birthday party at my house, do you still remember that Sister Huang? We have known each other for several years, but I never knew she liked me. After breaking up with BB, she accompanied me every day. Looking at me, I showed my love not long ago, and we are together."

Mo Wei's eyes widened again. At BB's birthday party at the beginning of the year, that Sister Huang left a deep impression on Mo Wei. Not only was she 40 years old mixed with a bunch of young people in their twenties, but her body The outfits are so expensive and fashionable that the few little Ts present are envious.It is said that Sister Huang is an executive of some company, and it is said that she is also a T.

Mo Wei stared at Xiao Xin in disbelief, and asked, "Are you transformed into a P? Or challenge the highest level of TT love?"

Xiao Xin smiled faintly, and said, "They're both women, why are they so clearly distinguished? The two of them are together, as long as I'm comfortable and suitable, I'm willing to change for her."

Mo Wei thought about it again, that's not right, didn't she say that Sister Huang has a husband and children?He was surprised again: "You bastard, are you a mistress?"

Xiao Xin blushed slightly when he heard the words, thought for a while, and said: "If you gain something, you lose it."

"Xiao Xin, you don't need to do this." Mo Wei was anxious, and persuaded: "Even if you break up with BB, you can continue to be your T and look for it again. You are so good, there is no need to be an age older than you. Family people."

Xiao Xin shook his head lightly and said, "It's very tiring to be a T. I'm considered a good T in the eyes of my friends, isn't that the same fate? Go find it again? It's not easy, even if you find it and develop your relationship, you have to face your family again." What should I do if the society pressures me or asks me to take more responsibilities? I’m almost three years old, and I can’t bear the blow anymore. Now that I’m with Sister Huang, at least I feel relaxed and happy. Maybe she will divorce when the children are older , I am willing to wait."

"You're crazy." Mo Wei said: "You guys are having a good time, have you ever thought that this will bring harm to her husband and children? MD."

"Wei, you can scold me whatever you want, but you can't blame Sister Huang. Their generation was very bitter. You don't understand that era. It's far less relaxed than it is now. Apart from marriage, they have no other choice."

"That's not necessarily the case. My sister-in-law's master is an old L in the early 70s, and he has persisted. Even though he is stupid now, he still deserves respect."

Xiao Xin smiled again, and said: "Then go visit and see how many people really persevered in that era? I ask myself as an ordinary person. If the price to pay is too high, then I would rather choose to compromise."

"Enough, don't talk about stress all the time. If you eat salty fish, you will be thirsty. This path is your choice. No one will force you with a gun, right?"

"Wei, I don't want to argue with you. When I was your age, I was more resolute than you. But I have the right to choose my own life. I asked you out today to tell you frankly that I know your temper. Whether you can continue to be a friend is up to you."

"You have the right to choose. I respect your choice and despise your style." Mo Wei said angrily, "You are no longer the Xiao Xin I know. What else can such a friend do?"

Xiao Xin smiled lightly and said, "I knew you would be like this. If that's the case, well, there is one more thing, AA asked me to bring you a few words."

"What's the matter with this woman? She always likes to be talked about." Mo Wei interrupted: "It's just inexplicable."

"Then you are giving people a chance to talk face to face." Xiao Xin said: "You have been back for so long, AA has called a lot, but you just don't answer. Wei, in all fairness, AA used to be very good to you, why did you do that?" Like an enemy?"

"Then tell me."

"One, AA doesn't want you to hate her. From my perspective as a bystander, AA has no choice but to rush into marriage in a short period of time. Her parents have always felt strange about her not having a boyfriend. They went to your rental house at the beginning of the year , I had some doubts about your relationship, and since then I have been urging AA to get a boyfriend. After she moved back, your text messages were seen by her father, and her family used some tricks against her, so "

"I've told her many times, if you can't stand the pressure at home, just tell me, we get along so well, why are you acting so heartless?"

"Wei, please be reasonable. Can you break up with AA peacefully? If you have to make a choice between you and her family, she can only compromise. Please understand AA."

Mo Wei fell silent, what's the point of saying this now, everything is in the past.Then asked: "What else?"

"Also, AA hopes that you can still be friends."

"Friends? Ordinary friends or friends beyond friendship?"

"My understanding may be the latter."

This time Mo Wei smiled and said: "Please also give her two sentences for me, one, I don't hate her anymore; two, we don't agree with each other when we don't agree with each other." After saying that, she got up to say goodbye, and walked past Xiao Xin. , Xiao Xin grabbed her hand. "Wei, I am very sad to lose you as a good friend."

Mo Wei gently pulled out her hand and walked out of the coffee shop, cursing inwardly, she was also very sad, she had known Xiao Xin for several years, at that time Xiao Xin was as old as herself now, mature and stable, full of enthusiasm for life and the future, It's only been a few years, and everything has changed.

Walking on the cold and windy street, Mo Wei was at a loss. If it was true what Xiao Xin said, the reason why she can still fight now is because she is young. In a few years, she will no longer be young, will she be like AA Marriage to meet worldly needs?Or, like Xiao Xin, choose another way to escape?Mo Wei shuddered.

Just as I was thinking wildly, the mobile phone in my pocket rang, and it was Mo Xian who called: "Sister, don't say I didn't remind you, uncles and aunts, your uncles and aunts are having a meeting with my parents at my house, I overheard In a while, with a theme, I will find a way to match it for you Lalang."

Mo Wei sighed, sat on the side of the street, buried her head in her arms weakly