Before and After Divorce

Look, you should be able to feel that I am not partial to any party. I am willing to accept all reasonable discussions, as long as they have something to say, and I enjoy the process of communicating with you.

What I feel powerless about is the very small number of comments that feel extremely egotistical and lack of respect.

Some people don't seem to care about what the author wants to express, but only care about what they want to see. Once this appeal is not met, they will be disappointed, and even feel that there are problems with the text, characters, and three views.

So here, I want to say something in my heart for myself, for the identity of the author, and for my article.

Writing is essentially a very personal desire to talk.

I do not seek absolute realism.

Even in essence, this text has a romantic imagination and fairy tale color about love.

But on the other hand, for each character, whether it is Xing Le, Lu Xiangnan, or Yin Ning, I try my best not to write about them in a simple two-dimensional way of good and evil, but to write about their true temperament, Desire, helplessness and the past, I hope to present some layered characters and emotional journeys in this short space of 30 to [-] yuan.

This is true for supporting roles, not to mention Xia Tingwan and Su Yan, two characters that I regard as treasures in my heart.

Complexity is the most eternal word in human nature.Being willing to face this kind of complexity, I think it is a creator's respect for his own characters.

I am not capable enough, and the writing is also lacking, but I am willing to try my best, even if it only presents two or three points of complexity.

I hope that in this article, their feelings are natural, like water, according to their inner flow, their actions and decisions can be in line with their identity background, growth environment, and plot development.

Su Yan is the son of the rich and powerful, but he is also a rare middle-aged youth in this group.

He has an affectionate and romantic side, but also a very indifferent side.At least he has no warmth towards Wen Zichen, and many things in their relationship have not been fully revealed yet.

But for him, the way of love is definitely the one he is most familiar with, it is normal and there is nothing wrong with it.He and Xia Tingwan are not normal.

This does not mean that I think this is correct, Xiao Xia knows that Su Yan did something wrong, but Xiao Xia also knows that Su Yan's love for him cannot be replicated by others.

Xiao Xia is an innocent little peacock. He regards his body as precious. On the one hand, it is because of his pure love for Su Yan;

He and Su Yan stayed at the level of not taking off their clothes for half a year and asked Su Yan to help him solve it. Su Yan endured it for half a year. This is the perseverance of an old man, and it is also a crucial part of impressing Xiaoxia.

But Ji Zhan doesn't understand, Ji Zhan has lived in the United States for many years, and he is a very direct and wild boy. It is conceivable that it is impossible for him to endure it for half a year.

Xiaoxia knew it well, so he knew that Ji Zhan couldn't give him what he wanted.

He could do it, but he just couldn't, and he didn't want to.This choice is natural, based on growth experience and character.

The road to reunification does not matter whether it is chasing a wife or a husband, and it does not quite fit the concept of a crematorium.

This is just two awakened people, in the process of slowly turning their heads and approaching each other, it is a simple instinct, but it is complicated to play with the demons and worries in their hearts.

I don't have any rough and boring concept of chastity. If you want to guard your body like a jade, you can spend a lot of money on sex. Even thinking about it is extremely funny.

This kind of accusation is like when Su and Wen's plot first appeared, some commented that it was malicious abuse.

Then, if you are willing to show true feelings for the characters in the stories, why are you stingy with showing kindness to the flesh-and-blood authors who typed out these stories word by word?

When I wrote an article a few years ago, I always wanted a lot of compliments.

But in the past two years, I feel more and more that although it is great to be appreciated, it is even more difficult to get real understanding.

In understanding - the most precious thing is the respect and tenderness towards each other when there are differences of opinion.

From time to time I still yearn for a reader-author relationship that is sane but tender.

If you like it, you don't need to be fanatical.If you don't like it, just leave it lightly.

After all, I don’t have much to complain about, and the original intention of these words is not to complain.

90.00% nine exchanges are pleasant and joyful to me, and I am always moved by the meticulousness and affection of many comments below.

Of course, the remaining one percent of unhappiness can be ignored and digested, but I still want to say it.

When I am a writer, what I want to write is the story in my own heart, and I can only write about the emotion and love in my own heart. I cannot be responsible for what other people want to see. This is objectively impossible. to the thing.

What I write is not perfect, not perfect.

Nor am I writing about two main characters without flaws and faults.

What I write is reunion after a broken mirror, repairing, redemption, and redemption.

With an extremely sincere heart, I also want to ask for respect.

Don't impose what I don't intend to write, and then criticize why I didn't write that way, and don't need to go beyond the text to speculate on my values, and I will not change my original intention for anyone's wishes.

Finally, thank you for your support and love during this time.

Bit by bit, I put it all in my heart.