Crossdresser

Yue Ya'er can't help looking for Wang Feiyan. Just because Junhao doesn't have time to accompany her, it doesn't mean that she can do whatever she wants. To stabilize Junhao's heart, she needs Wang Feiyan's company.Explain that my heart is always one with Sovereign.

Wang Feiyan asked Yue Ya'er to go to school to find her, and said she would come over after class.Yue Ya'er sat in the big dining hall of Wang Feiyan's school and waited for her.Wang Feiyan's male classmate also came together, jokingly said: Wang Feiyan, who is this?Can you introduce me?

Wang Feiyan: Get the hell out of here, don't get me a drink for my sister-in-law yet!

Male classmate: Hehe, ok, I'll get a drink.

The male classmate ran to buy a drink talking nonsense.

Crescent Moon smiled and said nothing.

Looking at Yueya'er's face, Wang Feiyan felt that Cousin Junhao was really lucky to have such a beautiful girlfriend.

After the male student brought the drink, he was worried that he could not help but provoke Wang Feiyan's sister-in-law again, so he found an excuse and left.Wang Feiyan did not keep him either.

The two discussed where to go, Wang Feiyan said, go skating?Crescent Moon shook her head.

Eat barbecue?No.

Wang Feiyan: Cousin Junhao bullied you?

No.

Wang Feiyan looked at Yueya'er with joy, and murmured in her heart, could it be that you are pregnant?The lazy one just wants to stay at home.

Yue Ya'er looked at Wang Feiyan and said: What are you muttering about?

Wang Feiyan shook her head and continued:

what's wrong with youI can't think of anything, go to my house, and help me find a novel to read?

Back home, Wang Feiyan took off her coat and trousers, put on home clothes, and was like a cute little doll, jumping around, bringing a lot of food and drink, and asked Yueya to sit beside her, leaning against Yueya's body. shoulders.

What is the name of the fragment of the novel you found for me last time?Ruan Pianran, yes, this girl's story healed part of my fear and gave me a little sense of security. Sister-in-law, you have to cheer up and continue to work harder to heal my psychological shadow?

Yue Ya'er looked at Wang Feiyan's innocent face, and felt that it would be intolerable for her not to help her get out of her psychological shadow.

Yue Ya'er has read a lot of psychology books, and she is not sure how to cure Wang Feiyan's psychological shadow.

Yue Ya'er was silent, frowning slightly, thoughtful, Wang Feiyan looked at Yue Ya'er who was fascinated by thinking, and ate quietly, not daring to chew hard.

While thinking, Yue Ya'er tapped the keyboard quickly, searching for information on the Internet, looking for articles suitable for Wang Feiyan to read.

From Yue Ya'er's point of view, Wang Feiyan was only frightened at the time, which caused a psychological shadow and reduced the sense of social security.

Harm is inevitable, as long as she dares to face the hurt, dare to speak out about the hurt, and slowly get rid of the psychological shadow of the hurt, Wang Feiyan can return to her normal state of mind.

Crescent Moon: Yan'er, do your parents know?

Wang Feiyan: I know, when my father reported the crime, my mother was terrified. She was hospitalized for a month before recovering. My mother was terrified!As I said that, I was about to cry...

Yue Ya'er: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to make you sad...

Wang Feiyan: It's okay, I'm already very brave, besides, you're right, I'm not the most unlucky girl, at least I can get out of the body, the body is clean, the soul is pure, it depends on your healing ability ...

Yue Ya'er looked at Wang Feiyan, who was talking about this matter easily, and felt that she was brave, yes, face the future bravely, throw away all the fear and shadow of the past, come out, get out of your shadow side, and come to the sun Come on, brave girl, come out, Wang Feiyan, come out, Yue Ya'er smiled appreciatively at Wang Feiyan, and stroked her hair.

Wang Feiyan trusts this cousin very much. Yue Ya'er's tone is full of care, encouragement, appreciation, and guidance, unlike the people around her, including Cousin Junhao, who are all careful to protect herself. You know, I want to grow up, I want to learn to protect myself, I want to try to break through the dark clouds by myself, break up the dark clouds with a punch, live happily in the bright sunshine, and get along with my future boyfriend happily, instead of thinking about The man felt sick and wanted to vomit. At least, Crescent Man, this sister-in-law, gave himself this chance...

Wang Feiyan felt that she was very lucky. Someone accompanied her to heal the wound and healed the wound slowly. Besides, how could this kind of wound be known to others?No, absolutely not, except for my parents who won't dislike me, won't other people point and point at me?It was my sunshine to meet you, Yueyaer, you are so kind, Wang Feiyan lay on Yueyaer's lap with her legs crossed, her eyes closed, her thoughts were galloping, flying in the enjoyment of luck, she was very happy.

Yue Ya'er looked at Wang Feiyan's baby face, yes, can such a face not be tempting?No, to be precise, can you not seduce the bad guys?

Yue Yue'er immediately put on a good person's hat for herself, shook her head and said: Yan'er, listen carefully, do you like the following article or not? You shake your head.

Crescent Moon read:

In my many years of practice, cases of female students being sexually assaulted in high school are rare.It is even rarer for the parties to actively seek psychological counseling assistance from a psychological teacher to help them get out of the impact of the injury.Most of the reasons are due to the fact that parents do not want outsiders to know about their face or the influence of their children's reputation.In the following case, the client (the girl who was sexually assaulted) contacted us actively, hoping to get our help, but in the communication with her parents, the parents were unwilling to intervene at the beginning, and it was not until the girl had a suicide attempt. Had to accept the help of psychological counseling.

Wang Feiyan got up suddenly, sat up straight, tilted her head and looked down impatiently.

When I came to the girl's house and opened the door, I saw only a bed, a table, a coffee table, and a few low stools randomly placed.If it weren't for a person lying on the bed, no one would believe that there is still a life living here.Under the messy quilt, I saw a pile of messy but black hair.

Yue Ya'er gently embraced Wang Feiyan's arm and said: Yan'er, are you sure you want to look down?

Looking at Yueya'er's beautiful left side face, Wang Feiyan thought to herself, if you were a boy, I would definitely fall in love with you, hehe, you are so beautiful, as beautiful as an angel... Wang Feiyan, who was thinking wildly, was caught by Yueya'er's voice Interrupted: Yaner, what are you thinking?So engrossed?If you are not sure whether this article can help you, or whether it will disturb you, we will not read this article, and read another novel?

Wang Feiyan looked at Yue Ya'er's beautiful face and smiled, thinking that something was wrong with her, would she still like her sister-in-law?Wang Feiyan shook her head, perhaps because Yueya'er's gentle comfort touched a brave and curious nerve thread, Wang Feiyan shook her head, saying that she just read this article, what's so scary, the soldiers came to cover up the water, and Yueya'er was with her By my side, what are you afraid of!

Yue Ya'er hugged Wang Feiyan halfway, and the two of them stuffed their mouths while looking down:

According to the pre-designed procedure, we first had a brief conversation with the victim's parents, and got a general idea of ​​what happened:

Children read locally.The atmosphere in the school is very bad, there are only 47 girls in their class of 3 students, so many boys usually harass women.My child has been very obedient since he was a child, and he never associates with bad children outside.Recently, parents have found that their children have changed a lot, often lie, and are still unwilling to go to school.The parents were very angry. During the process of beating and scolding the child, they learned the fact that the child has been bullied by bad children recently.

Seeing this, Yue Yue'er sighed. If girls don't want to go to school and often lie, parents must pay attention to it. They need to know from the side whether the girl is in school, encounters unsatisfactory things, and is not a bad child. Being bullied, instead of beating and scolding your child, increasing the psychological burden on the child, and making the child's psychological shadow heavier and heavier.

If I become a father in the future and have my own daughter, I must take good care of my daughter in every possible way, and prevent my daughter from being bullied by bad children and bad people... a large piece of ice cream was stuffed into Yueya'er's mouth when she was distracted , the icy coolness stimulated and awakened Yue Yue'er's fantasy future.

Looking at Yueya'er's face, Wang Feiyan knew that her sister-in-law was distracted again. Although she didn't know where the god had gone, she felt that this god was a beautiful god. The sister-in-law had beautiful expectations and joy on her face, with a tender and sweet look on her face. Could it be that he misses the child with Cousin Junhao?

Wang Feiyan cleverly brought a piece of bread and a fried egg, and then put a piece of bread and a piece of lettuce, onion, and carrot to make a fried egg sandwich. Crescent Moon swallowed it down, and one third of it was gone, which scared Wang Feiyan. Big jump, oh my god, a pregnant woman can really eat, Blessed is the son of cousin Junhao, with such a mother who can eat, he will be as strong as a cow in the future...

Wang Feiyan, who was distracted, was tapped on the shoulder by the crescent man, um, look down.

According to the child, recently she was raped 3 times by 6 bad boys at school, so she dared not go to school.

After the incident, the father beat the child severely, and the child felt ashamed to face others, so he chose to commit suicide yesterday morning.

We obtained additional information about the child from the victim's father:

Child's age: 17 years old

Child's nickname: baby

The current state of the child: not eating, not talking.

Under the premise of obtaining the consent of the girls' parents, we started our work.

The first link of crisis intervention in adolescent psychological counseling: establishing a counseling relationship (trusting relationship)

Seeing the two people here, they looked up at each other.Yue Ya'er saw Wang Feiyan's trust, Wang Feiyan saw Yue Ya'er's probing gaze, and felt that she was comforting herself, don't be afraid, shall we continue?Nod.Continue reading:

I moved a stool, sat in front of the client's bed, leaned forward, focused my eyes, and started my work with gentle words.

Counselor: My surname is Zuo, and I am a psychologist. I am a good friend of your father. You can call me Mr. Zuo, okay?

Help-seeker: Did not speak, just nodded slightly.

Counselor: What's your name?

Caller: XXX (Voice is very small, barely audible)

Counselor: Can we call you baby?

The help-seeker said without expression: "Okay."

Counselor: Then even if we know each other, I want to become good friends with the baby, is that okay?

The help-seeker looked at me with puzzled eyes and said: Yes.

Analysis of intervention methods:

Building relationships and gaining trust are prerequisites for psychological crisis intervention.In order to avoid the resistance of the help-seekers caused by our appearance, we adopt the method of "virtual family affection" to break down the resistance of the victim and create a harmonious and relaxed atmosphere.I called her "baby" with the title familiar to the victim and told her that we are good friends of my father, so as to break the psychological barrier of the help-seeker.I sat where she could see her.

Yue Ya'er felt Wang Feiyan's mood swings, but Wang Feiyan gritted her teeth and persisted until she saw this, she was relieved, got up and brought a glass of water for Yue Ya'er, and a bottle of yogurt for herself, nourishing the brand of yogurt, she loves Drink, Yue Ya'er remembered this brand, and planned to curry favor with Wang Feiyan in the future and lend money to her mother for medical treatment.

The author has something to say: Telling the hurt is the first step, Hurray.Afterwards, eliminating the damage is the second step.There are citations here, mind you, marked.The author is also marked.