Daiyu Farming Story

更新时间2013-5-3021:32:46字数：3150

"Mommy, is the baby okay? Why are you crying so hard?" "Fujin, it's auspicious for elder brother to cry loudly. This is called a rattle." Nanny Wang comforted Daiyu here. It was very lively at that time, the room was full of people, everyone was chatting non-stop at first, but when the old ten came out with his eldest son in his arms, the teacher was surrounded by his brothers, Everyone glanced at it, praised it and said a few sour words by the way.When the little eunuch said that the auspicious time had come, the whole hall was filled with a sour smell, as if someone's vinegar jar had been knocked over.

"Washing three" is a very important ceremony in ancient Chinese birth rites.On the third day after the baby is born, a bathing ceremony is held to gather relatives and friends to wish the baby good luck. The purpose of "washing three" is to wash the dirt and eliminate disasters and avoid difficulties; the second is to pray for good fortune and good luck.

So many people came today, including some old princes of the clan, ready to see the quality of the next generation of the Aixinjueluo family and witness another inheritance of the Aixinjueluo family.The grandma who gave birth took the baby in her arms, and the prelude to "washing three" kicked off.The big guys take the lead in adding a small spoonful of water to the basin according to their seniority, and then put some gifts, which is called "adding the basin".If there are too few of these princes and clan princes, they can't be sold, and the money and things put in the basin are all for the admission grandma.

After "refilling the pot", the grandma took up the mallet and stirred it into the pot, saying: "Stir once, stir again and again, and the elder brother will lead the younger brother to run away. Seventy children, eighty children, crooked children, naughty children , Xilihulu is here!" Then began to bathe the baby.When a child catches a cold and cries, not only does it not break the taboo, but it is considered auspicious, which is called "sounding basin".The little baby was crying loudly, the old ten was laughing happily, the old nine pulled the old ten several times, and the old ten smiled.The admission grandma continued to wash while chanting congratulations, "Wash your hair first, and become a prince; wash your waist afterward, and one generation will be taller than one generation; wash your eggs, and become a county magistrate; wash your ditch, and become a magistrate of the state."

Then, light it with mugwort leaf balls, and place it on the baby's forehead with ginger slices as a support, and burn it symbolically.Comb the baby's hair and dress up again, saying "Three combs, two combs, wear a red top when you grow up; draw eyebrows on the left, and temples on the right, find a daughter-in-law to live in the fourth village; brush your teeth, rinse your mouth, and talk to people without worry." Make yourself ugly." Roll the egg on the baby's face and say, "Roll the egg on the face, the face is like egg skin, the willow red is like white, you are really a lover." After washing, tie the baby up, and lighten the body with a green onion Tap it three times, and say: "One dozen smart "cong" and "onion" are homophonic, and two dozen clever."

Then ask people to throw the green onions on the roof, in order to wish the children will be extremely smart in the future.Pick up the weight and make a few gestures, saying: "The weight is so small that it weighs a thousand catties" in order to wish that the child will have a pivotal position in the family and society when he grows up.Pick up the lock and make three gestures: "I've grown up, my head is tight, my feet are tight, and my hands are tight."Then put the baby in the tea tray, tuck the baby with the gold and silver zippers or jewelry prepared in advance by the family, and say: "Tuck the gold on the left, and the silver on the right. If you can't spend it, reward the servants", it is to wish the child grow up. Later, Fu Dalu had great wealth and life. Although the descendants of the royal family did not have to worry about these things, they still wanted auspiciousness.The last and most interesting thing is to sieve a few paper-made pomegranate flowers into the oven, and say: "Gardenia, jasmine, peach, apricot, rose, tuberose, pimples are scattered... ..."

This washing three is considered to be an end, and finally the woman in the inner house is allowed to eat the food in the blessing basin. The basin is made of boiled locust twigs and puai water, and some laurel, lychees, raw peanuts, and chestnuts are dyed red with rouge. Letting others eat is a sign of getting a jujube early. Bafujin endured the shame and took a jujube that was standing upright and ate it. After all, she still didn't have a child.The women in this palace and mansion, what are they trying to do, what are they relying on, aren't they just children.The three-year cleaning is over, and there are too many "external pieces" for the grandma to be admitted. Gold and silver zizi, copperzier, apron cloth, millet used as incense ashes, eggs, xiguo, sprinkled offering tips—osmanthus fragrans, oil cakes…all in one mind. Taken by her.

The emperor's imperial decree also came down at this time, to name Laoshi and Daiyu's eldest son Hongxu, which means that the rising sun is rising. Although it is good, it is considered ordinary among the emperor's grandchildren, so it is not eye-catching.Xisan just passed away, and Daiyu also began her miserable life of confinement.

Confinement, also known as "within the month", is a necessary ritual behavior after childbirth, and it is also a traditional custom in China. Its meaning can be divided into two parts: one is to supplement the lost nutrition of the parturient, and the other is to reward the completion of the task. , there is also the meaning of avoiding offending the gods and repaying the mother's kindness.Therefore, modern people refer to the process of postpartum conditioning as commonly known as confinement.

During the confinement period, you can't soak in cold water, you can't wash your hair or take a bath, you can't even brush your teeth, not to mention blowing hair or something.Daiyu is very thankful that she has a portable space, and the child was born in late winter and early spring, what a wonderful season this is.Mother Wang wrapped up Daiyu's waist with a cloth belt as early as after the third bath. Although Daiyu was naturally beautiful, during pregnancy, Daiyu made a lot of things for the baby in her belly, so Daiyu's baby My waist is also a little fatter, especially after giving birth, my belly will loosen all of a sudden, so it is better to fix it with external force.

And Wang Momo has been feeding Daiyu recently. At the beginning, it was soup without salt and seasoning, like Gastrodia chicken soup or something. There was a thick layer of fat floating on the greasy one, which made Daiyu feel disgusted. Panic.Later, at Daiyu's insistence, Wang Momo changed it to clear chicken soup or something, but it still didn't add salt or seasoning.

Daiyu was so aggrieved, one month, 30 days.Daiyu didn't have any special knowledge or experience in modern times, so she didn't know how confinement would do, and she always did what Wang Momo said.So Daiyu honestly did 30 days of confinement before the ban was lifted.The first thing Daiyu did after confinement was to take a bath, and after washing several times, her skin was a little wrinkled before she came out.As soon as Daiyu came out of the bathroom, she came out with wet hair. As soon as Daiyu entered the inner room, she found that the old ten was also lying on Daiyu's bed with wet hair. "Master, why did you fall asleep with wet hair?" Said Daiyu took a handkerchief and a small heater to dry Lao Shi's hair, Lao Shi fell on Daiyu's lap, Daiyu's little hand Ten's hair was constantly running back and forth, and the little hand scratched Old Ten's heart itchy and flustered.Old Ten picked up Daiyu without waiting for her hair to dry, and walked to the bed.It was another night of spring night, the hibiscus tent was warm, the brocade quilt became red, and the lingering night was filled with endless affection.Daiyu and Laoshi's first child was born, and Daiyu was already 14 years old. In the next spring, during the Huachao Festival, Daiyu would be 15 years old, that is, Jiji.Although it is said that Daiyu is already married, she does not need to perform the ceremony, but Daiyu has always been very curious about this kind of ceremony, and the old ten is willing to spoil Daiyu, as long as she is an absurd prince.So the old ten is actively preparing for Daiyu's birthday on the Huachao Festival, and is preparing to give Daiyu a gift.

Ji Li, which is the coming-of-age ceremony for girls of the Han nationality, is a kind of ancient Jiali.Commonly known as "shangtou" and "shangtou ceremony".Since the Zhou Dynasty, it has been stipulated that aristocratic women should perform the Ji ceremony after their engagement and before their marriage.It is usually held at the age of 15. If you have been waiting to marry and have not promised someone, you can also perform the ceremony at the age of [-]. "笄" is a hairpin.The Ritual of Ji is a traditional coming-of-age ceremony of the Han nationality in my country. The way of Ji Ri is very beautiful because it is specially designed for girls: a head of long hair, a hairpin, carefully combed into a beautiful bun, solemn The hairpin on the hairpin... Daiyu knew what Lao Shi was thinking. Lao Shi's biological mother was too high-ranking. Although she was dead, no one could deny that Lao Shi was born noble. It will attract people's envy and hatred, and then your wealth and life will be in danger.

So Daiyu agrees with Lao Shi's idea of ​​being an absurd idle king, and Lao Shi is busy trying to make Daiyu happy, and Daiyu can't keep him busy, Daiyu's heart is sweet .Daiyu is a little troubled now. A while ago, when Xiao Hongxu was full moon, Kangxi might have come in by passing by or something. Maybe he saw the cute little fat boy and hugged him with his own hands. The prince and the other Fujins seemed to be suffering from pink eye disease. After Kangxi left, they not only spoke harshly, but also had several problems in the kitchen of the elder brother's house, which made Daiyu very angry.

Daiyu started to investigate, and then took revenge one by one. At that time, it was always heard that someone's back house was rioting again, and someone spoiled his wife and killed his wife. Daiyu watched the theater very much. happy.In a blink of an eye, it is the Spring Festival.The Spring Festival is the most solemn and distinctive traditional festival in China, and it is also one of the most lively ancient festivals.It generally refers to the first day of the first lunar month, which is the first day of the year, also known as the lunar year, commonly known as "New Year".

But among the folks, the Spring Festival in the traditional sense refers to the festival from the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month or the stove sacrifice on the 23rd or 24th of the twelfth lunar month to the nineteenth day of the first lunar month, with New Year's Eve and the first day of the first lunar month as the climax.The founders of the Qing Dynasty were Manchus, but just like the customs of the Han people, various activities were held to celebrate.These activities take offering sacrifices to gods Buddha , holding a memorial ceremony for an ancestor , demolishing the old and bringing forth the new , welcoming happiness taking over good luck , praying for a good harvest as the main contents without exception.The activities are rich and colorful, with strong ethnic characteristics.

Half a month before the Chinese New Year, Kangxi sealed the pen, and before sealing the pen, he wrote some blessing characters, which he planned to give to the princes, nobles and ministers during the Chinese New Year.The palace also started to get busy and green, preparing for the New Year, but it was not chaotic at all.Daiyu also took the palace maids and eunuchs to prepare for the new year in the elder brother's house. This was the first year that Daiyu and the old ten lived together in a real sense. During this year, Daiyu's life has undergone great changes. Changes, Daiyu married from a little girl to a woman, and gave birth to a child. Although Daiyu's life has changed a bit, she is still happy and boundless.