effective gentle

The author has something to say: Xiaoxiao didn't deliberately conceal the medical history from Lin Zhishen, he just felt that he was healed, and he didn't want to bring up the past for the time being.The sentence Xiaoxiao wrote included lines from four poems and their names.I bet fifty cents you didn't find out.

Rong Xiao has already foreseen how big a stir this circle of friends can cause in the "love each other as a family".

Sure enough, relatives came to private messages one after another asking him what he meant.After having dinner with Lin Zhishen, he began to reply one by one, and summed it up in one sentence: "literally."

Relatives tried to persuade him, telling him that this was wrong, that he would definitely get married in the future, that family and children were very important to a man, did he want to be old and alone?

After they returned to the dormitory, the sister-in-law who failed to persuade them called Rong Xiao directly and asked the boy what he could do.

Rong Xiao answered the phone on the balcony, and said after listening: "That's right, I am the perfect boyfriend who met my first love half a year older than me, and what's even more annoying is that he is still an unmarried rich second generation, with a height of 1 meters , have not yet opened a company, a merchant's house, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting..."

Rong Xiao took down the phone, opened the glass door of the balcony, walked towards Lin Zhishen, and asked, "Do you know how to play piano, chess, calligraphy and painting?"

Lin Zhishen was doing homework to make a webpage. Although he was a little curious why Rong Xiao asked this question, he still answered honestly: "I don't know Qin, but I know Go, calligraphy and traditional Chinese painting, but the level is just like that."

Rong Xiao leaned over and kissed him, then said into the phone: "Qin chess, calligraphy and painting are okay."

"You have a correct attitude, don't teach me those nonsense words on the Internet. You are a college student, so you should know the truth and falsehood. Tell me, what are you trying to do? Is your family well off?"

"Picture him. I don't think it's useless to look for money, he won't be old. And even if I marry him abroad, in China, we won't have joint property protected by law. He and His parents' money has nothing to do with me."

Rong Xiao continued to argue with his sister-in-law for a while, and finally the sister-in-law said "I can't control you" and hung up the phone.

"Didn't your relatives persuade you to get married and have children, saying that you need to see a psychiatrist?"

"No." Lin Zhishen thought for a while, and added, "As long as my parents have no objection, they dare not meddle in my family affairs. After all, they still have to ask my family for help."

Lin Zhishen looked at the silent Rong Xiao and said, "I sympathize with you."

"Don't rush to sympathize, the storm is still behind."

Rong Xiao has been waiting for her mother's call. His mother didn't call him, which means she is still busy. When she finishes her work, it will not be so peaceful.

It was like seven o'clock in the evening, and there were still only the two of them in the dormitory.Lin Zhishen went to the bathroom to take a shower, and then went to the public hair dryer at the corner of the stairs to dry his hair.

Dorms are not allowed to use high-power electrical appliances, and many hair dryers do not meet the requirements, so the school has set up a public one.

When Lin Zhishen returned to the dormitory, he saw Rong Xiao sitting on the phone with someone, a little agitated.

"Why am I ashamed? I post a photo of my boyfriend and it's called shame? You only see those who don't support it, and there are many people who say that Lin Zhishen and I are a match made in heaven. Why don't you have a look?"

"I'm aggressive? Do you respect me? As my mother, do you really care about my feelings? In your eyes, everything I do is deviant."

Rong Xiao listened to what the other party said for a while, with shock and anger on his face: "Yes, I just want to be slept by him, are you satisfied?"

His eyes were red with anger, and he took a deep breath.

Lin Zhishen took his mobile phone, put it to his ear, and stroked his back with his palms, as if comforting a cat with fur.

"Hello, Auntie, I'm Lin Zhishen. Xiaoxiao is emotionally unstable now, can you calm down?"

Rong Xiao hugged his waist in anger.

"I know you're very angry now, but anything can be resolved. Look, would you like to meet me sometime? You decide."

Rong Xiao looked up at him, his eyes widened in surprise.

"Is this mobile phone number your WeChat account?"

"Okay, thank you auntie, goodbye auntie."

He waited for Rong Xiao's mother to hang up the phone, and then compared the number displayed on it, took out his mobile phone to search her WeChat, and applied to add her as a friend.

Rong Xiao immediately said: "Don't go, my mother is unreasonable."

"Xiaoxiao, I'll see you sooner or later. This matter must be resolved. Since you can't communicate with your mother, just leave it to me."

Rong Xiao was very reluctant, but he knew that Lin Zhishen's decision would not be changed easily.

Before going to bed, he looked at the comments in Moments, and the younger generation unanimously expressed their support, like his cousin who said: "You are awesome, Rong Xiao, find someone so handsome."

High school deskmate Pei Ming commented: "Are you with Lin Zhishen??? [Dazed] [Dazed]"

Rong Xiao replied "yes".

Pei Ming doesn't like chatting. He usually doesn't watch Moments or video sites. His biggest hobby in his life is playing games.It's no wonder he found out so late.

Rong Xiao was going to sleep at first, but decided to wait a little longer.

Sure enough, not long after, Lin Zhishen, who was sleeping on the opposite bed, sent a message: "Xiaoxiao, are you asleep?"

In fact, the lights in their dormitories are usually turned off at twelve o'clock. Lin Zhishen was afraid of disturbing Lin Chang and Meng Yuan, so he decided to ask on WeChat.

"I didn't sleep, I was worried that you would not be able to sleep, so I was waiting for you."

"You met me in high school?!"

"correct."

Lin Zhishen was shocked for 100 years.

Pei Ming came to him and said that he was amazing and could handle Rong Xiao.He was surprised that Pei Ming knew Rong Xiao, Pei Ming said he was crazy, and Rong Xiao was his high school classmate.

"Which year was your deskmate in high school?"

"From the second year of high school to the graduation of high school, I have always been at the same table as Rong Xiao. I know he and you are in the same school and major, but you two are together?!"

Lin Zhishen remembered that Pei Ming did have a deskmate who wore thick-rimmed glasses.

When he was a sophomore in high school, No. [-] Middle School had make-up classes on Sunday afternoons, and he didn't have to wear school uniforms for half the day. Lin Zhishen's No. [-] Middle School didn't make up classes, so he often slipped in pretending to be a student from No. [-] Middle School, and brought food to Pei Ming.

If Pei Ming wasn't there during recess, he would go in through the back door and put the food directly on his brother's seat.

He only remembered that Pei Ming's deskmate was a boy wearing glasses, who never looked closely.

Lin Zhishen was driven crazy by Rong Xiao, and typed quickly: "Did you know that I was the boy who helped you?"

"Well, Pei Ming called your name at that time, and you don't know how recognizable you are, I recognized it at first sight."

It turned out that they really had an intersection in high school.

Lin Zhi deeply hated iron for being weak, "Then why didn't you say hello to me?"

"I am weak."

"How courageous you were back then, I'm so angry now. Even if you took the initiative... Forget it, I was blind at the time." Lin Zhishen remembered another thing, "Then why did the boy we met in City C Will you know that you like me?"

"That boy should belong to the student union."

Rong Xiao told Lin Zhishen that in their class, the school first set up a wish wall for the senior year, and some people expressed their desire to go to the same university as the person they like.

They all felt that they would graduate in more than a month, and the school would not take care of them, but the school felt that the atmosphere was not right, and asked a few people from the student union to check.

The student union sorted out the evidence, and after handing in the list, all the high school seniors who left their names and were mentioned were called to talk. Many people wrote checks, and Rong Xiao was one of them.

"After graduation, a student from the student union I knew told me that someone secretly took a photo with a mobile phone, so some messages circulated in the student union group for a while, and he saw my message."

Lin Zhishen was very curious, "What did you write?"

"Go to University A and tell Lin Zhishen that my name is Rong Xiao—it's easy to see but difficult to see. I don't know where Xiaoxiang is. Why is it so small, lovesickness is like the depths of the sea."

"I heard that they asked the Chinese teacher specifically for my message."

At three o'clock in the afternoon on Sunday, a restaurant in District C.

Lin Zhishen arrived 10 minutes earlier. When Mama Rong came over under the guidance of the waiter, he stood up with a gentle and polite smile, "Hello, Auntie, please sit down."

Rong Ma looked at him calmly.

His appearance is indeed very good, as perfect as a character who came out of a novel, and he is also quite polite.

A few days ago, when Rong's mother heard his voice on the phone, half of the anger that Rong Xiao forced out was dissipated. One was because she was ashamed to get angry with strangers, and the other was because he was really reserved and calm.

She has a standard Jiangnan beauty appearance, gentle and delicate, and Rong Xiao looks a lot like her.And Lin Zhishen's mother has been Mingyan since she was young.

Lin Zhishen pushed the menu to her, asked her to order first, and said, "Auntie, would you like something to eat or drink?"

Mother Rong ordered a cup of coffee.

Lin Zhishen didn't dare to keep his elders waiting, so he ordered a glass of juice and a plate of waffles and it was over.

"You, why did you choose Xiaoxiao?" Rong Ma went straight to the point.

"To be honest, at first it was because he impressed me, and then I found out that I met him six years ago, he was my first love. Xiaoxiao is a perfect boyfriend, I really can't find a reason not to like him .”

Lin Zhishen felt like he was in an interview, and it was a life-long interview. On the surface, he was calm, but inside he was still a little nervous.He would also be worried that Rong's mother would not give him this offer.

"You don't know him at all, you don't know what he is like." Rong Ma lowered her voice, as if she was afraid that others would hear.

"I saw the novel he wrote in the memo on his old mobile phone. It's ugly. I can't believe it was written by my son. He also recorded his own video, you know?"

Rong Ma said, sending the things stored on the phone to him directly in WeChat, as if she wanted to destroy Lin Zhishen's impression of Rong Xiao.

Lin Zhishen is not stupid, and he was able to send it over, which means that the scale of the content must not be large, at least not as serious as what Rong Xiao's mother said.

But her actions did not respect Rong Xiao's privacy.No wonder Rong Xiao didn't have a good relationship with his mother.

"If what you're trying to convey is that he's lustful, then I think he's normal."

"Where have you come?"

"...kissing. We've only been dating for a little over a month."

"No wonder." Rong Ma said indifferently, "You will soon dislike him, because Rong Xiao is different, he is a mental patient."

Lin Zhishen was a little angry, "Auntie, how can you say that about him?"

"I'm not kidding you. He used to suffer from severe depression, and then he got bipolar disorder. It's just that he has improved in the past two years, so he looks normal. Do you regret it now?"

Lin Zhishen was shocked, but still shook his head, "No."

"Do you know what this means? You need to take care of him patiently for the rest of your life, and you can't make him emotional. He never told you this? I'll tell you why, because his likes are very selfish, he just wants to get you."

Lin Zhishen was silent for a long time, and he didn't speak until all their orders came and the waiter left.

"Auntie, you told me these words today, which means that after you met me, you recognized me at least a little bit."

Mother Rong didn't refute.

"But I still want to say a few offensive words. You know he can't be emotional, why do you want to provoke him? Why did you choose to protect him by exposing him? This is not love, this is control."

"Do you have low self-esteem because of Xiaoxiao's illness? You think he is flawed, and his illness will be despised by others, right?"

"As a junior, I'm sorry for speaking to you in such an almost educational tone."

Lin Zhishen stood up and bowed solemnly to her.

Rong Ma supported her forehead with her arms, and her forehead hair was hanging down. Lin Zhishen couldn't see her expression clearly, but could only see her shoulders trembling.

After a long time, she said in a hoarse voice: "You are right, I have low self-esteem. I don't know why he is like this, why is he different from others."

She took off her arm, her eyes were red.