forest of golden lions

But An An didn't seem to have had enough fun, and she didn't learn the rules every day. Ayao was afraid that the child would grow up to be an illiterate and be deceived by others, so she tricked him to the school, saying that there were many friends there to play with him every day, so she agreed. go.

When I came back from school, I asked what did I learn today?

The answer was: "Dig earthworms."

A Yao: "..."

Ayao was about to lose his temper by this child, so he could only enlighten himself: Everyone has his own destiny, although the child's father is a cultured prince, his mother is not bad, and his uncle is even more talented. It's unusual, none of his grandparents are uneducated, so...you can't let your family take over all the good things, isn't it normal to have a worthless one?

Although she is always doing psychological training for herself, she can make a living as a peddler in the future, and she doesn't expect this child to become rich and wealthy in the future, she only hopes that he can be safe and happy, but as a parent, she always hopes that her Children can be a little more promising.

So, I can only fight with myself: don't put too much pressure on the child, as long as he can live safely.

However, when that incident happened, Ah Yao still felt that the child could not do without teaching.

An An met a friend named Xiaoman, a little girl who was about his age, she was very pungent as her name suggests, she was skinnier than An An as a girl, she had a lot of ghost ideas, and her family was a tofu stall in the village.

At the beginning, An An had a lot of fun with her, the little girl was also lively, and the most important thing was that she didn't have to go to school, and could take An An around every day...

That's not the point. The point is that Ah Yao also likes this little girl very much. Although she can't afford to study, she has a good personality. Let An An play with her, and Ah Yao feels very relieved.

But one day, An An came back with a bloody face and howling voice.

Ah Yao was so frightened that his soul was about to fly: "What happened?"

An An just cried while clutching the wound on her forehead, without saying anything.

Ah Yao immediately realized that it must have been done while playing with Xiaoman. The wound was quite deep at first glance, and it might have been hit by a big stone.

Ah Yao was furious at the time: "Did Xiaoman do it?!"

It's normal for children to have no weight when they play, but it's too much to smash other people's children like this!

An An just cried and didn't dare to say anything, A Yao thought, it must be because she was afraid that she would blame Xiaoman.

But my own children have been injured like this, how can there be any parents who can hold their breath?

At that time, Ayao took An'an to Xiaoman's house, and scolded Xiaoman's parents. At that moment, Ayao felt that she had become the most vulgar shrew in the past. Xiaoman was also frightened and cried, unable to say anything else, and kept crying at the top of his throat.

After a big fuss, An An never played with Xiaoman again. Ah Yao is not sure, Xiaoman's family also treats Xiaoman very strictly. Now she has really become a standard door. Maid's Chinese girl, sometimes, when A Yao passed by their house, she felt a little pitiful when she saw the little girl lying on the window sill eagerly looking at the outside world.

An An felt a little lonely without a companion, and often took A Yao's hand and asked her, "When can I go play with Xiao Man?"

"You can't play with her anymore."

The little boy pouted, unhappy: "Why? Is it because you quarreled? But Xiaoman and I made up quickly after we quarreled."

"An'an." Ah Yao squatted down, "That's not the case, that child is too vicious, it's not a good thing for you to play with her."

The little boy was unhappy, turned around and left angrily.

A few days later, An An came again and asked, "Can I go and play with Xiaoman?"

Ah Yao still shook his head.

An'an was silent for a moment, and finally raised her head and said: "Mother, last time my head was not smashed by Xiaoman, I threw a brick on the wall by myself, and the brick bounced back and hit my head. I dare not tell you."

The embroidery needle in Ah Yao's hand accidentally pricked his finger.

"You child! How can you tell such a lie?"

That day, the sound of Ah Yao patting her son's butt and Xiao An'an's screams could be heard upstairs and downstairs.

The next day, An An apologized to Xiao Man while rubbing her red and swollen buttocks and was led by A Yao.

But many things cannot be solved by apologizing.

Xiaoman's family accepted their apology, but they still didn't let Xiaoman come out to play. They were afraid that their children would cause trouble again in the future, and in China, it is normal for girls to stay out of the house, so there is nothing to say about it. of.

Because of An An's lie, Xiaoman lost his childhood freedom forever.

This is the case with raising children. If you are not careful, you may raise them wrongly. You never know what kind of fruit the seeds you give birth will grow into in the future.

And at that time, An An asked Ah Yao several times a day: "Mother, can I go play with Xiaoman tomorrow? The day after tomorrow? I still want to take her to play sand—"

Looking at the excited An An, Ah Yao felt extremely sad.

That day, she hugged her sisters in the yard and cried endlessly, and everyone would say: "Why are our women's lives so hard?"

That matter became a knot in Ah Yao's heart. Since then, during the New Year's holidays, Ah Yao would bring some small gifts to visit Xiaoman's family, and An An would follow, so that he could steal a little bit of fellowship. Xiaoman played together, and since then, An An has been looking forward to the festival.

That day, when I came back from the Dragon Boat Festival, An An was bouncing around: "Mother, how long is the next festival? I miss Xiao Man."

Children are like this, they will express their feelings so frankly, unlike adults, who always hide and hide, and ask others to guess, after guessing, they will become like brothers and princes.

Ah Yao smiled and said: "Why, An An likes Xiaoman so much, do you want to marry Xiaoman as a wife in the future?"

"What is a daughter-in-law?"

A Yao froze for a moment, she remembered what her mother told her about the meaning of a daughter-in-law when she was a child, and she said it accordingly: "The one who warms your bed and cooks for you, and serves you for the rest of your life."

"Then I don't want it. I just want Xiaoman to play with me. Aunt Xiaohua will do these things."

At that moment, Ah Yao suddenly realized a problem: what is the meaning of the so-called husband and wife?

It seems that some children know the truth, but adults gradually don't know it under the discipline of society.

A Yao changed his words and said, "Then, do you want someone who can understand what you think, who will always stand on the same front with you, face you together, and spend the rest of your life together?"

An An said: "What's that? It's so troublesome. I just want her to play with me. If she doesn't play with me, I'll go home for dinner."

A Yao: "..." She overestimated the depth of her son's thoughts.

Ayao took An An's hand and hugged him: "You are right, any couples, any promises are all false, play with him when you like it, and go away if you don't like it. Be free and don't let yourself be wronged."

The little boy half understood: "Then can I eat two bunches of candied haws today?"

"……Can't."

In a blink of an eye, An An was one year older, skinnier than before, but now she also knows how to listen to people, barely learned a few words, and knows that water should not be touched, fire should not be touched, and play should not be carried away , although there are still some minor problems from time to time, such as always teasing adults, at this "dogs hate" age, his hyperactivity makes the girls in the yard really love and hate him.

The child's temperament is unstable, and he has many ghost ideas. This child's nature is not pure, and Xiaoman's incident was just the beginning. Later, he did some bad things one after another. A Yao even saw the shadow of his brother in him, and straight haired Hey, at that time, An An would be beaten if she moved.

Once, Ah Yao was in a hurry, and even really had the idea that if he threw this bad embryo away earlier, not so many bad things would happen.

That day, An An was crying and running in the forest, knocking down several times, while Ah Yao hid behind a tree, covering her mouth and crying.

An'an's crying became smaller and smaller, showing that she was getting bored, but Ah Yao felt more and more distressed.

The child did not come to this world voluntarily, you brought him to this world to suffer, how can you expect him on your own, but impatiently teach him?

When Ah Yao finally couldn't bear it any longer and went back to the forest to pick him up, the silly boy's mouth was already full of mud, and he apologized while crying: "Mom, I don't dare anymore, don't want me—"

Seeing him crying, Ah Yao felt her heart was about to break: "Mother didn't want you, but you did something wrong and you will be punished."

"I don't dare anymore, I will change, I will change."

When children are in the shaping stage, parents just need to worry more, and gradually get on the right track, and that's fine.

In the past, when a little kid did something wrong and was scolded by A Yao, he would cry. A Yao felt that the child would become very cowardly if this continued, so he said to him, "A man can't shed tears easily."

But later, one time, the child twisted his foot, and the back of his foot was swollen. When the doctor massaged him, tears rolled in his eyes, but he never cried out. Encourage him while asking him what reward he would like.

The child looked up at Ayao with teary eyes, and asked, "I want to cry, is that okay?"

At that moment, A Yao's heart was about to be broken, she just felt that she really had the best baby in the world.

Since then, Ah Yao said to An An: "Baby, cry if you want to cry in the future." She also didn't want to raise her child into a so-called man.

After that, the child may gradually grow up, become sensible, know what to do,