You can eat it but you are not allowed to miss it

My parents said that I went back to my dormitory.Then his parents started asking about the development progress of the two of us, such as what base did we reach?

"Dad, I have my sense of propriety." Yan Ning said with a guilty conscience, because our two little lovers "stolen the forbidden fruit" very early on.

"Don't kill anyone," said his father.

His father and he both smiled knowingly.On the side, my face turned red when I brushed it, and I felt offended.Maybe it's because I'm too sensitive, it's embarrassing for me to ask about the bed/things of the younger generation as an elder.The shame of being "assaulted/breasted" by male classmates many years ago suddenly reappeared. I can imagine the scenes that popped up in my mind when others said these words, which made me extremely uncomfortable.Not because I'm conservative, but because I'm being treated like a downtrodden "woman" and that's enough to drive me nuts.

Another time, when we were chatting, I jokingly said: "Many couples now have two children, one with the mother's surname and one with the father's surname."

"How can this be possible!" Yan Ning's mother suddenly retorted sharply, "The ancestors of that family will be worshiped after the surname. Your mother's ancestors will be worshiped by your uncle's family. Our family wants Yan Ning children worship."

I didn't expect her to react like this, because I just mentioned it jokingly, they always say that we can have more children, so that the family will be lively.I really didn't know what to say, so I answered this.Moreover, back in the days of my grandparents, my aunt was named after my grandma.

Even though these little unhappiness happened, I still naively thought that after all, I am not living with his parents, as long as Yan Ning treats me well.With the help of his mother, we registered our marriage in a foreign country seven months after we met. There was no wedding, but a simple ceremony at the city hall. His parents said that we would hold a make-up wedding after we returned to our hometown. .

At that time, I thought about getting married too simply. I thought I could hide myself well, and Yan Ning would only regard my "out of line" behavior as a little fun.All this changed after Yan Ning's graduation ceremony.Because, my parents-in-law came to our city.

In order to entertain the parents-in-law who met for the first time, Yan Ning and I planned the attractions to visit together.I will worry more about buying tickets, transportation and hotels.Because Yan Ning's work is very busy, and I am better at it.I really want to meet in reality, my heart is full of apprehension.On the day they first arrived, Yan Ning and I went to the airport to pick them up, and then went back to the hotel we booked to rest. I also bought a supper in advance, for fear of neglecting Yan Ning's family.

The next day, considering their fatigue from the journey, we arranged a more relaxed itinerary.It can be seen that Yan Ning's parents are very happy.Back at the hotel in the evening, Yan Ning's mother posted a Moments, "Thank you son for the hospitality! Let us have a perfect itinerary!" The accompanying picture is a group photo of the family.In fact, I can understand that in the hearts of parents, their son must be the most precious thing, not to mention that such an excellent Yan Ning is still their pride.However, I still feel bad for his mother for not thanking me in the circle of friends, but I am not the kind of person who will spoil other people's good mood.

The rest of the journey went smoothly as well.It's just that Yan Ning's mother often pulls me to talk. Although I skipped class and have the pressure of studying, I should still be with the elders. I will listen to her more patiently than my own mother.

"A Yu, if you and Yan Ning have a child, you must not kill it. Our family has faith, so it's not good to kill the child." My mother-in-law told me.

"Okay." I agreed.Yan Ning and I have the same idea, we will not have children while I am studying, because there are lessons learned from other classmates, with the "little ancestor" at home, there is no peace for a moment, and the classmates have to "escape back" The school has a moment to do things.

"Our Yan Ning is so good, and his future wish is to be a university professor. He is a little busy at work, but we have told our fortune that he is very good at making money, so it will be no problem to support you." His mother continued.

"That's for sure. The husband I chose must be excellent. That's why I have to work harder to get a doctorate. I can work in a large company in the future, and maybe even be a manager." I said.

His mother's expression was not quite right, she was a little more serious, "Girls don't have to work so hard, they still have to put family first. What if he meets some young and beautiful female classmate at school who admires such a young and outstanding professor?" ’ she joked half-truthfully.

She immediately added, "Of course, based on our beliefs and his character, we definitely wouldn't do such a thing!"

I was unhappy, knowing that he wouldn't know why he mentioned it?I just responded politely: "Well, I believe he is not that kind of person."

My heart is already a little unbearable, and I hope the trip will end as soon as possible.

Back at the hotel that day, Yan Ning's mother made chicken wine noodles for everyone to eat, and taught me by the way.I am still very interested in learning new recipes.While teaching me, she began to babble, "When I was in confinement, Yan Ning's grandmother kept making it for me. If you are in confinement outside, Yan Ning is too busy to do it, and you know how to do it. "

"Mom, I won't eat this during confinement! Nursing babies can't eat wine!"

"We used to come here like this before, and we haven't seen how Yan Ning and his brothers and sisters are doing? The old man's words still make sense. It's good for recovery, you child."

Yan Ning probably noticed my displeasure, and comforted me: "It's okay, let your mother-in-law make it for you."

I have long discovered that since her mother-in-law and the others came, Yan Ning seemed to have changed from a hardworking and considerate husband to a "disabled" all of a sudden.Anyway, with his mother around, he can't do anything.If one day we return to his hometown, will he be beaten back to his original form?Thinking that I am a frail pregnant woman who has to cook by myself, or has to accept his mother's "good intentions", but I can't pick and choose, so what is the use of him as the father of the child?

I think it is necessary for me to clarify: "Parents, I know that you are looking forward to us having children soon, but I also said that I plan to continue my Ph.D. In recent years, it is unrealistic for the two of us to have children abroad alone, unless That's why I gave up my studies."

"My sons are getting older, and they should return to work in China next year. What do you do if you live in separate places?" Yan Ning's father, who had always been relatively silent, suddenly spoke.

"Dad, this is what I discussed with Yan Ning. We are temporarily looking for a job abroad, and we can find a better opportunity when we go back after we have some experience."

"That's no good, I can't raise a son and it's for nothing!" His father said sharply.

Yan Ning watched my "dispute" with his parents, but remained silent like a bystander.This made me feel very helpless, and I gave him a wink as to whether he should help me.

Who knew that he didn't seem to notice my embarrassment at all, and said: "Ayu, I promised my parents that I would definitely return to China in the future. I also clearly said this when I first dated you."

"But I never said that I would never go back, and you also promised me that I could stay for a few years if I had the chance."

"I forgot to tell you, in fact, I have already applied for a job in a domestic university. In my hometown, that school is very satisfied with my conditions." Yan Ning said.

"You lied to me!" I didn't know that he was silent on the surface, but it was in hindsight. He didn't discuss a word with me in advance on such a big matter.This is determined, anyway, the uncooked rice has been cooked, and he wants to force me to return home with him.The more I thought about it, the more I felt wronged. The resentment that had been pent up in my heart for many days burst out in an instant, and I said bluntly: "Mom and Dad, in good conscience, I didn't ask Yan Ning for anything when I got married. My mother said that according to our The rules in my hometown require bride price, wedding room and banquet. I use the reason that Yan Ning and I are still students and I don’t want to bother you two elders as an excuse. I can keep everything simple. Because I never feel that I am 'marrying' Yan Ning, I formed a small family with him, in this small family, I hope that the two of us are the masters, and the opinions of our parents can be used as a reference, but you cannot make decisions for us!"

Unexpectedly, my words became treasonous in the ears of his parents. His mother changed from the gentleness of a good man and a faithful woman in the past, and asked me angrily: "I regret letting you get married in the first place! My child's father, should you marry me?" Yan Ning severed the relationship between father and son! Your small family? There is no such thing as a small family here!"

"When did I say I want them to sever the father-son relationship?" My mind was buzzing, and I had already begun to regret it, regretting my youth and ignorance.

"Ayu, my parents didn't mean to force us. Our family has always been open about problems. After studying abroad, I promised them before going abroad, and it was my own idea." Yan Ning explained .

"I didn't say I wouldn't go back! And why did you force your parents on me? When we got married, you also promised me to work here first?" I have never felt so helpless in my life, like Feed the shit, make it look like I'm the one who backtracks.

I don't want to continue this unnecessary dispute. Obviously, their "family" is a team.

Compared with regretting, I am more afraid of the future and Yan Ning will return to his hometown and live with his parents.In a foreign land far away from my natal family, I was already helpless. If there were any differences of opinion like today, the family would probably still vent their anger from one nostril, and I was the isolated "outsider".I shouldn't even be thinking