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When he was promoted to the third year of junior high school, Ruan Gai's grades had stabilized at the top of the class and the top three in his age.

The head teacher had high hopes for her, and even praised her during the parent-teacher meeting.At that time, most of the boys in the class had better grades, and the girls were all in the middle and lower reaches.

To be able to produce a girl with good grades like Ruan Gai, in the words of the class teacher, she must have been admitted in advance by a key high school.A figure in the school's honor roll.

But when Kai's parents said so, grandma was not very happy.

She feels that girls should not study too much, nor should they be too good at reading.

Reading too many books is unrealistic.

Too good at reading, not easy to control.

Parents of girls chimed in.

But most of them are because, after looking at the ranking list in the class, their own children's grades are really terrible, so they agree that it is indeed the case.

Girls should study less and work more.

When the time comes, if you marry a rich husband, you will have everything.

Where do you need to spend so much money for education.

At that time, it is not someone else's house.

The head teacher is a woman in her early thirties, and she is very strict in class.Talk to students often in private.Especially with Ruan Gai talking the most.

But what Ruan Gai responded to her was not many.

Occasionally, I talked about what Ruan Gai thought was right, and sometimes I said a few more words to her.

Through several contacts like this, the homeroom teacher probably guessed what was going on at Ruan Gai's house, and hoped that through home visits, he could do the ideological work of the old man.

Most were rejected.

The old man has always believed in her philosophy.

A woman without talent is virtue.

No matter how many books you read, it is better to be able to do things.

But the class teacher did not give up.

She has been telling the elderly that girls should study more, and they must study more, because the education of girls affects not only her personally.

Rather, across generations.

Grandma retorted, then at that time, I didn't study, I didn't know a single word, didn't I still bring up the child?Don't you still have a good life?

Times are different.

The head teacher speaks earnestly and earnestly.

In your time, everyone was equally poor and suffering, and had many children.But now, everyone basically has a second child.Living conditions have also improved, and everyone's life goal is no longer just to be alive.

While pursuing material life, there will also be spiritual filling.

Grandma said, don't talk nonsense, I don't understand.

The homeroom teacher felt a suffocation in her chest. After so many years of teaching in the countryside, she felt that she had a very strong ability to bear it, but when faced with this immovable south wall, a sense of grievance spontaneously emerged.

When she walked out of Ruan Gai's house and hid at the corner, she couldn't hold back, squatting on the ground and choking.

She was not a native of Lin Town, she was a foreigner who came here to teach.The purpose is to popularize education for rural girls.She saw in the news that girls were not allowed to study in many places, and she thought it was useless.

At that time, she had just graduated from the Teachers College, and she was full of enthusiasm.

He secretly made up his mind that he must pave a way for the rural girls to come out and send them to school.Fly to higher and bluer skies.

With this determination, she left her hometown and gradually lost contact with her relatives.

Even, never married and had children.

In the depths of her body and mind, each of the girls she sent out to the outside world is her child.

It's all her family.

So when her heart was strong but not enough, all the grievances that were suppressed in her heart before appeared at this moment.

She didn't want to be seen either.

But that's when Nguyen Gai appeared.

She walked to her side silently, didn't say anything, but gave her a hug.

Tell her very firmly:

"Teacher, you don't have to talk to my grandma anymore. The decision is not in her hands. She has no qualifications to express any opinions. She has no qualifications to say anything to you. You don't need to, she must nod and agree. "

"In my life, she does not exist."

"She can't interfere with any decision I make."

"You, you have to believe me, you are a very brave and independent girl who will stick to her own ideas. I will not change the direction of my life because of these so-called realities."

"I don't want to see you, sad because of my affairs."

"Because it makes me sad to see you like this."

At that moment, the teacher in charge cried on Ruan Gai's shoulder until tears flowed.

Ruan Gai's eyes also turned red quietly.

Later, Ruan Gai graduated successfully and went to a key high school in the city, and was admitted in batches in advance.The head teacher danced with joy and told people everywhere, this is the student in my class, the one with the best grades in our class, the one with the most personality, and the best.

At the same time, he is also the most distressed student.

The most distressing words are said in the heart of the head teacher.

She couldn't help her red eyes.

In every subsequent class of students, Ruan Gai, who was admitted to a key high school in advance, became the standard equipment for the head teacher to motivate students.

There is also a teacher who regards Ruan Gai's notes in class as a teaching template.

There were even teachers who took what Ruan Gai said to the class teacher as a slogan and posted it on the corner of the campus.

The desolation of one era, the rise of another era.

There are always some people who are working very hard and desperately trying to change something.

Even if you start with the slightest influence, as long as you do it, you will see hope and look forward to the dawn.

Just do it.

We will know that human beings have infinite possibilities.

And as a girl, your life is definitely more than just getting married and having children, loving husband and raising children.

You will have your own love and liking, you will have your own dreams, you will have your own hopes, and there will be many things you want to do.

It's not the so-called, as a woman, if you haven't given birth to a child, your life is incomplete.What are you going to do if you are old enough to get married?

Marriage should be expected, not urged.

It must be that we are willing, and yes, to find the person we want to find.

It's not someone else telling you what to do.

So Ruan Gai has always felt that she is very lucky. At such an age, she knows her own direction very well.

And, she firmly believes.

As long as you stride in the direction you want to go, you will definitely meet again, the person you want to meet.

The years migrate.

Unpredictable things, too many.

But the only thing I can be sure of is the person I miss, from beginning to end.

It's all you.

Ruan Gai wrote in his diary:

"Time, can you go faster. Grow up faster, go to the outside world faster, and become the person you want to be."

The author has something to say: I once read news that a female headmaster has been sticking to the mountains and insisting on letting the left-behind girls go to school

very deep feeling

Last time I talked to my little cousin who is not very common

her grades are not very good

Just say

In fact, reading is useless

it's not like that in the end

i told her

It is necessary for girls to study

and must

because--

Reading and studying books will change you from the inside out

It will also let you experience different kinds of life

Especially those with poor family conditions

thanks for your support

We will meet again soon~