fall in love with ex-husband

Inspired by the breakup between Da Niu and her ex-boyfriend, I suddenly realized that from the beginning to the end I didn't know why Zhang Kaiji agreed to divorce me.

Although he dotes on me, accommodates me, and listens to my opinions on everything, he is not unprincipled and blindly lets me decide everything, especially for such a big issue as divorce.

Recalling why the two of us divorced half a year ago, it was just because I came back from get off work to find a trivial matter in the company on purpose, and used it to him, and then it turned into a quarrel. I filed for divorce in a fit of anger, and he nodded in agreement without thinking. up.

For the past six months, I have been immersed in grief, and I have never thought about the rationality of the whole process. Now that I think about it, I am terrified.

First of all, it is Zhang Kaiji, he can't possibly quarrel with me, and he won't argue with me over a trivial matter to destroy our relationship. On the day I deliberately asked him to quarrel, he didn't even coax me. It is not his usual style to take over my faults and quarrel with me. He always tells me to think rationally and convince others with reason. I talked to calm my emotions, and with such a docile personality, how could he do such a violent act of throwing things?

Taking a ten thousand step back, he was stressed and in a bad mood at the time, and it made sense to explode all of a sudden, but it was absolutely impossible for him to nod and agree to divorce me.

This is not my self-confidence, but he himself once said that he will love me all his life until the end of his life. If one day he is really separated from me, he will definitely die early because he misses me too much.

Even if the promise cannot be taken seriously, we have known each other for 15 years, and we have known each other's temperament for a long time. I also know that he is not a cruel person, and it is definitely not his style to sever contact after divorce.

Just because we know that our relationship is not only love, but also a closer family relationship, he can't easily agree to divorce me, and he must keep it. When I made this decision, I made it in my heart Countermeasures, and thought about whether to hide abroad for a while, so as not to be softened by his words, but everything I thought was useless, and I was completely separated from him.

Too many details cannot withstand scrutiny, and now I am increasingly suspicious of his real purpose in divorcing me.

Unless he had long planned to divorce me, and I, who thought I was dominant, actually just acted as the fuse.

Thinking about it this way, everything seems to be explained.

Because Zhang Kaiji wanted to divorce me first, so he pushed the boat along when I was deliberately provoking trouble, and used my mouth to propose divorce, while he retreated unscathed.

Zhang Kaiji is such a deep person, if he wants to do something, he will never make it public, let alone inform in advance, when others find out, he has already done everything silently.

So why did he insist on divorcing me?

Feeling faded?No, our sex life has always been very harmonious, and for ten years, even if we didn't see each other the day before the divorce, we still couldn't help making video calls to each other and simply chatting about what happened that day.

domestic violence?No.Disagreement?impossible.Quarrel often?no such thing...

After thinking about it, there is only one possibility left.

Zhang Kaiji cheated.

When did that start?

I suddenly remembered that at the beginning of this year, Zhang Kaiji was a little secretive for a while. He always answered the phone with his back behind his back, and when he came back after answering the phone, his expression was not normal, as if he was hiding something from me. Whenever I asked him, he said It's about the school, nothing else.

Thinking about it this way, he might have cheated at that time. At that time, he and I went back to my hometown to celebrate the New Year. His lover couldn't find anyone else, so he called to show his status. He didn't want to expose it too early, so it was very embarrassing to show it. .Later, the mistress made a lot of trouble and insisted on a divorce. He was on the verge of riding a tiger. Although he was sorry for me, his heart had changed, so he simply divorced me and chose to be with mistress.

The flowers on the roadside are more fragrant than the flowers at home!The relationship of more than ten years can't resist the deviant under the stimulation.

The more I think about it, the more I feel that this is the case, and I have even imagined the appearance of the mistress in my mind.

I never thought that Zhang Kaiji, a big-eyed kid, would cheat on him and abandon his ex-wife to take care of his mistress. After knowing that Zhang Kaiji and I were divorced, he always gossiped about me, saying that I was too pretentious, so Zhang Kaiji couldn't stand me and divorced, and it was all my fault. Now it seems, who is to blame!

In the end, I just slapped my forehead, sat up from the hospital bed in the middle of the night, turned on the computer, and started to type crazily.

I want Zhang Kaiji in my works to experience the fate of daring to cheat.

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Babies, I'm going to bed~ Good night. (My friends say that my schedule is too much, and I will die suddenly sooner or later, o(╥﹏╥)o, I should try my best to go to bed early, everyone should go to bed early, and I will be able to supervise and supervise me if I get rid of it in the future. You can rest early, love you)