Peach blossom love is true and false

The days of Baduan are still alternating between work and home after get off work.Of course, the important thing to sit and drink tea with old customers is also indispensable.In the past, during the holidays, we discussed with another local branch that is far away from each other and discussed whether to jointly hold a sister party as a basis for cultivating relationships and promoting communication and cooperation.

Sometimes there are girls facing each other across the table. Married girls will have a quick chat with girls in the same situation to talk about their marriage, their relationship with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; mothers with stable families and babies born in kindergarten will be desperate , worrying about the baby's dedication and not being able to be by her side all the time; the girl who has a regular relationship with her boyfriend is asking people who have come here for advice on gender relations and people's perspectives, and the scene is so lively.

On that occasion, it is extremely difficult to study Baduan's oral coping ability, because the possibility of Baduan's celibate life can be shared with everyone and cater to the topic is extremely low.

Most of Ba Duan avoided the awkward questions that were asked in an embarrassing territory by changing the subject.More or less say some truths and some falsehoods.Attributing singleness to having no one to marry.

Sometimes again.Among the sisters or when sitting down at the house of other female customers who have a good relationship with the guests, occasionally they will meet the man of the host's house who goes home temporarily to pick up chargers or other things.When the customer stopped by in the afternoon and got off the car at the door of the store, and came to pick up the free cosmetics that came with the package that was explained on the phone, he was followed by the twins who were wobbly and cute, chasing the same mother.

The immature little face, or the quiet and well-behaved appearance, and the fancy braids will make the female aunts at work put down the things at hand, surround her and praise her little face before she is willing to do things with a smile, and she smiles when she looks back To amuse the little ones.

The female customer is carrying a small box, and one of the twins is in the other hand, and the child who is led by the mother will lead the other sister, and the older and younger will walk out of the store to a place far away from the door. Until now, the behavior of Ba Duan smiling gently and waving his palms to say goodbye will gradually fade away when people leave.

It would be a lie to say that I never thought I would be tired no matter when the pressure increased during the tense stage or the cold period during business hours.It would be a lie to say that even if Baduan went home alone and went shopping alone and hurriedly in the night, even after the people left from get off work, he didn't observe the actions of looking for a couple in his sight.

It seems that at the age of the neck, when the mindfulness of sticking to the law labels around is tightened to a certain extent, it will spontaneously loosen the invisible tie around the neck, give yourself a little breathing room to relax yourself, think about those The problem, look at yourself again, the worst is to be lonely and old, and it is best to wake up overnight with a lover, a child, and a family with both wealth.

But Baduan is not that kind of person. It seems to think of the lonely old man, but more of a picture of a woman who is strong enough to support herself and can still stop and watch the scenery. The work that needs to be done in it is enough to survive. Salary and house The two conditions of fixed assets are almost completely fulfilled for Baduan, as long as we put in more effort.Maintenance and care must be done, and the nature of the work has become Baduan's advantage in this area. It can be done easily and in place.

It’s just a long-term asset for pension and disease prevention. The value owned by Baduan in the bank account plus the estimated amount of financial investment is added together. It’s nothing short of overwhelming for a life where expenses are increasing day by day and consumption intensity is only rising. Mao, the difference is thousands of miles.After paying off the house and all the debts, you can't just rely on the status of the store manager to make money.Ba Duan also needs to think of other ways to make a guarantee for his single life, and take the initiative to find business opportunities.Come and let yourself live a good life instead of being fucked back and forth mentally and physically by life and the times.

The more sober, the colder.The more you don't cater to common sense.In addition to using ordinary people's coping methods to solve problems in terms of work and life skills, Ba Duan is the only dancer in other things, and he does everything according to his own ideas.

Because of my independence, because I can be called upper-middle-class in appearance, because I am tall enough to look at ordinary men, because I left home without authorization to go to work alone to find a job and find a second-class dormitory. The processing rules beyond the basic level of one frame make Baduan's world view and value orientation lack the indispensable cognition of men.Although men still need to communicate, human life, life, service, communication, etc. cannot lack the existence of male animals, and Ba Duan is naturally familiar with this law. Social animal theory of development...  

But the eight ends are divided, which are male passers-by, male doctors, male superficial friends, male leaders, male social workers, etc. are inevitable resistance to survival; they can be used as partners and go out early and late Attributing the presence of animals of the opposite sex to this bedmate does not necessarily necessitate existence.

Women are Yin and men are Yang.A piece of Tai Chi Eight Diagrams, Yin and Yang poles and two poles, opposite to each other, multiplying endlessly.Ba Duan does not intend to deny it.But in this world, this era, and this society, people who are able to stand on their feet and earn money and have the ability to live well by themselves do not need a personal partner of the opposite sex before middle age.Even some old and wealthy people can sleep alone on a double bed, a pillow, a toothbrush, and a pair of gloves without marrying.The existence of this mass is reasonable.For this reason, Baduan must meet those preconditions, and must be richer, smarter, and sharp-eyed to deal with, and all obstacles on the road are the enemy.

Speaking of this seems to be difficult to digest.Eight ends.......

There are still many dead spots in her, some of which are eradicated, some are desperately preserved, and some are regarded as representatives of her own existence.Either the personality part that needs to be cut off, the thought part constitutes the level of aesthetic boundaries, or the characteristic tattoo is the personal smell.Human beings are vastly different without a few.The world will not be monotonous.

At this stage, Li Fanqing prepares for the battle and obtains the professional title qualification certificate, eliminating the long river of conditions for the position he wants to go to, crossing, rowing, and advancing.Pay for the promises you once dreamed and promised in this youth, fight for what you want in the life you want to live, and even use some means when necessary.

In this point of view, at least this point, Li Fanqing and Ba Duan have the same thing: can you judge your own strengths, weaknesses, and weaknesses?Which innate conditions are turned into one's own capital to increase the combat index?

The motivation for Li Fanqing's actions this time is not only for the comparison between classmates of the same class, but also for the self-conscious concept of the status of men and women. The long-term nature of the concept of women who have popularized new concepts is expressed in their own behavioral language.It is just different from Baduan's personal spiritual concept that women are superior to men; Li Fanqing just wants to be strong enough to maintain the family in the future, and strength is the status of speaking, because Li Fanqing found that a girl's economic conditions can greatly increase her active choice .

The man under the relationship cannot easily act arbitrarily in the family and marriage, and it can even avoid or reduce the occurrence of men making mistakes and finally transferring the price to women and getting away with it.

There are no more than three reasons for the occurrence of such incidents. Women themselves have three reasons: the first ranking is financial resources and money. Divorce or shameless women without financial resources cannot have the initiative to be the lambs who suffer, so they have to desperately endure what men bring. Pain; the second place is family affection and reputation. Some are forced to endure suffering because they care about the feelings of relatives and the environment in which their children grow up; the third is personal feelings.

When a woman has enough capital, the two things ranked second and third will reduce their influence to varying degrees.If you have money, you can take the initiative, and you can make your children get a happy and harmonious growth environment again and greatly increase the possibility. The so-called reputation between relatives and outsiders, because women's own financial resources can subtly offset the negative value.

Aren't the many conceptual cognitions so far produced different results because of different conditions possessed by real people?Most of Li Fanqing's motivation for acting this time comes from the energy demand for healing.

Only by standing tall can you see far, and you can only try things you can decide on your own if you have confidence. Your confidence will not fall from the sky, and what you have may not be enough, so if you want to really run fast, you must have enough strength. .Li Fanqing is passionate and motivated, to prove certain things and certain people.

One day she will be strong enough to stand beside her parents to reduce their hard work and in turn give them a sense of security.When she was with Ba Duan, she was no longer just that simple little girl who couldn't stand the wind and rain.In the future, when you want to snatch someone important to you, you have enough force to attack him, even if the person you snatched is no longer worth it, it’s okay to take back what you once had before throwing it away.

Both defense and attack must be available in order to pursue what you want and protect your important things fairly.

Whoever is happy will fight for it, and the other is someone who loves you enough and is willing to work hard for you.Then the latter cannot be asked for, it does not stay in the protected area, but it has to run enough to match that person...and then connect different positions to protect and be protected to complement each other and depend on each other.This kind of love mode is the most peaceful, safe and tacit understanding.

As for Baduan, what she cares most about is something about herself.I haven't met Li Fanqing again, and I have already summoned up all my energy to speed up and go for a long-distance run. It can also be said that it is forced by external forces to live alone, but I don't want to commit myself to begging others to submit to others, and it doesn't meet the taste of men to go for a walk. Baduan who does not live with his family, not to mention the Baduan that involves too long past, the Baduan who recommends and keeps promises to friends and successfully makes the blind date lose interest in his own way, such a strange and mysterious Baduan... ....

The thing she pursued should not be pursued in place, she would not take the initiative to say it, she did not achieve the eight ends that she never promised before.It is precisely because of this kind of baduan that the girl Li Fanqing is attracted, and it affects the girl's dedication to independence.Perhaps this kind of Baduan's life, which is as calm as stagnant water and may turn upside down at any time, has a different charm because of the addition of Li Fanqing's intrusion.

The kind of people who only care about speeding up and don’t worry about going down will bump into fatal objects sooner or later. With eyes that can see colors, they can only notice the submerged scenery and big trees around them, which are so green and delicate.

Now when he is too busy and tired, Ba Duan calls Li Fanqing. If Li Fanqing answers the call and there is nothing urgent, he can chat with Ba Duan for a while.With less sweet words, the words that are spoken occasionally will be extra sweet.