Oops!The boss checks my leveling situation!

He earnestly opened Xiaomeng's door with a gift and a key.

Xiao Meng happened to get up early that day, so it was a bit funny to see the president sneaking into the house with a box of pastries.

Xiao Meng folded her arms around her chest: "Boss, I remember I said that I don't really want you to show up during working hours."

The president suddenly turned around: "Did you get up so early today?"

Xiao Meng nodded: "Yes, should I be thankful?"

The president took out a leave note from his pocket: "I asked for leave before! I didn't mess around!"

Xiaomeng took the slip and looked at it, heh, it was still a flu slip.

Xiao Meng was expressionless: "Since you have caught a cold, boss...why did you come here?"

The president put the pastry on the table: "Because there is no other opportunity to come here, I was delayed by something that I wanted to come over on the weekend."

Xiao Meng raised the false note: "So where did this false note come from?"

The president was very nervous: "I caught a cold last night. After I went to see you this morning, the doctor suggested that I find a quiet place to rest, drink tea, and eat something. After thinking about it, it's the best thing to come to you."

Xiaomeng was helpless: "Come back, why are you acting like an underground party meeting?"

The CEO lowered his head and looked at his hands: "I'm afraid you'll drive me away. I'm not ungrateful or arrogant..." The more he talked, the more panicked he became, "Actually, I... just want to play games."

He was so anxious to get rid of himself, the desire to survive seemed very strong.

The president also muttered and added: "I didn't have a meeting today, and I didn't have any training. I checked all the departments last week, and I took their meeting notes and checked it. I... I can play games like this for a while ?"

His little eyes looked at Xiao Meng expectantly, and Xiao Meng got goosebumps, so he let him go.

39. What do you think love should be like?

The president cheered, and sat in front of the computer cautiously, tremblingly holding the keyboard and pressing the password, Xiaomeng went to the bathroom to brush his teeth, sighing inwardly.

Can't you just be normal like a friend?My thoughts are written all over my face!

The president sneakily turned his head back to see what Xiaomeng was doing, fearing that Xiaomeng would take out a broom and sweep him out of the gate.

During this period of time, he had just watched various dating shows, and even couldn't resist going to a psychological consultation.The psychological counseling teacher is a very amiable little old man, and the president is sitting there in a state of distress.

Secretary Xiao Wu closed the door by the way when he went out, and the consulting teacher made him a cup of tea: "I will keep it absolutely confidential here, so you can rest assured."

The president was silent for a while: "That's what the traitor said when he made a guarantee in the TV drama."

The psychological counseling teacher laughed: "What good will it do me if I confess your situation? Will people threaten you with this secret?"

The president took a few deep breaths: "It's not a very important thing for me, but for the other party in the secret, the fate may change."

The consulting teacher nodded: "Then I will listen with all my ears."

"Uh..." The president tilted his head and thought for a while: "Have you ever been in love? Or is your current wife your first love?"

The consulting teacher had a general idea: "No."

The president felt a little regretful: "Is this so? Then you and your first love...how did you separate in the end?"

The consulting teacher turned his head to the window: "My first love was actually very early, probably after I finished junior high school. It was not because of external reasons, but because our love gradually faded. There is a saying how to say What? Love will eventually become a family relationship. We all thought that we would be the only one for each other. In the end, I put on a dress and she put on a wedding dress. We are naturally together and become the 1% who married our first love. Do you know? Yes The probability of being with my first love for a long time is equal to or lower than 1%. Later, as the environment changed, she gradually became better, but I was still standing still, and the gap between us would gradually widen. In addition, the way of thinking was affected. Family influence, and then we sat down peacefully and talked for a while, hugged each other, and ended the relationship."

CEO: "It sounds a bit..." He couldn't find an adjective, "But at least it's better than those bloody ones."

Consult the teacher: "So you have that object in your heart? Then what?"

The president looked a little lonely: "I...I am looking forward to seeing him, but I am afraid that he will reject me."

Consult the teacher: "Is the other party a very sensitive person?"

The president nodded: "Yes, very sensitive, if there is any trouble in the outside world, you will subconsciously hide."

The consulting teacher added water to him: "That sounds very embarrassing. You must work hard to support her to develop and trust you, and to face all kinds of future blows with courage and confidence. She is the kind who is afraid of setbacks." Is it?"

The president shook his head: "No, he has suffered many blows in his life."

The consulting teacher nodded: "It seems that he will take the initiative to avoid some unclear overtures. Is this the case?"

President: "Yes."

The consulting teacher's eyes suddenly became very sharp: "I want to ask you a question, what do you think love should be like? Or can you describe it in one sentence?"

CEO: "Love? I think love should be..." He was a little stuck: "That's the kind... There are many small things, you can feel it, such as a good morning every day, and at night, you can sit down with two people and have a heart-to-heart talk. Kind of. The only people around me who can refer to love, they are like this."

Ask the teacher: "Are they your parents?"

The CEO shook his head: "I don't have a mother. The person I can refer to for love is my friend."

Consulting teacher: "So this is the crux of the problem. Your view of love has been affected by your family. The more you lack something, the more you want to find something to replace and make up for it. The person you like may have some Sometimes you suddenly feel that she is the only one who can spend the rest of your life hand in hand with you. But you still have a long way to go, so you start to anticipate and arrange your future development, and you neglect to be with you What do those who fight side by side think in their hearts, am I right?"

The president was in a daze: "Did I ignore him?"

The consulting teacher nodded: "You ignored him, and his needs may be different from yours. Do you know Maslow's needs theory? At the level of needs, a person can be divided into physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, There are five types of esteem needs and self-actualization. Maybe you are in social needs, but she is still in safety needs. You already feel that she is very sensitive, and you can understand her sensitivity. But you have no concerns about safety needs, no matter how you Understand, you can't feel the same. Can you understand this? Or do you know what she lacks, and have you tried to satisfy her? Then how did you do it?"

The president opened his mouth: "I..." I broke into his house, I occupied his room, I ordered him to cook for me every day, and now I want him to spend the rest of my life with me.

He was speechless.

The consulting teacher got up and shook his hand in front of him: "Do you have an idea?"

The president nodded: "Yes."

Ask the teacher: "Would you like to speak out?"

The president's voice began to falter: "I thought that we had similar experiences, and if he was willing to give me a hug, we... probably could understand each other, and we would have a chance to be together."

The consulting teacher's eyes softened: "So your current plans and plans, are they going to change from before?"

The president looked at him and nodded solemnly.

The counseling teacher returned to his seat: "Actually, everyone's counseling effect is different every time. I don't expect that after such a short contact, I will be able to fully understand and change my mind. Many people say that they have a lot of feelings. But after a while they will selectively forget, subconsciously choose according to their instincts. This is normal, because our personality is already written in our genes, and our adrenal glands will make their own decisions. Hope you come to me next time There will be other confusion at this time, not the current situation."

He stretched out his hand, and the president shook it tightly: "I hope so."

He got up, took a few deep breaths, and walked towards the door.Xiao Wu had already paid the bill, and looked worriedly at the president who came out of it: "Boss, are you okay?"

The president waved: "Let's go back first."

They got into the car, the president sat in the back seat, and the secretary looked at him in the rearview mirror: "This teacher... It is said that the effect is very good. What do you think?"

The president's voice was dull: "He asked me what love should look like."

The secretary's hanging heart was slightly relieved: "Based on what I know about you, you will definitely answer that the two of you are living a normal life, and the flow is long."

President: "Yes."

Secretary: "So how expensive is this teacher? It costs 1 yuan per minute!"

CEO: "I don't know, but I always think he is right and worth the money."

Secretary: "Then what did he say?"

CEO: "He said that our needs are different. No matter how I try to understand it, I am not on the same level as him."

The secretary was silent for a while: "He is right, so it seems that the money is still worth it."

CEO: "If... I meet his needs, can he be promoted to the same level as me?"

Secretary: "I think according to Xiaomeng's temper," she looked at the rearview mirror hesitantly, "he will not accept you to give him satisfaction."

"That's right," the president lowered his head, "I used to think that he would cook for me and give me things.