Leap past the confused days of life

For a period of time, I didn't want to contact the outside world. It was all for self-enclosed writing training, and I had to endure loneliness and loneliness. What's more, I was exhausted physically and mentally from the daily toil, which affected my energy.

I'm not the kind of person with excess energy, so it's hard to do other things when that little energy is put into something. What's more, I'm the kind of persistent person. Until the energy is exhausted, there is no more energy to do other things.

I am a relatively rigid and stubborn person, and I am not flexible at all. I know that it is not good to continue like this. How to contact the outside world?I plunged into a self-enclosed state and couldn't extricate myself, often limiting myself.

How much I want to adjust my mentality, let go of my mood, and do what I can to make a living every day, and put myself aside for a while from the boring, meaningless reading and writing at the desk, and don’t let these things take up too much It's time, you can relax, watch TV, or find someone to chat with, and take care of your body and mind.

My thin face was buried in the smoke, and I coughed dryly from the choking.After thinking about it, it seems that every step of my life is walking according to the established route of destiny. In this way, I can go with the situation as I go, because I have no ability to change anything.

Loneliness always surrounds me, I know my shortcomings, I am not good at socializing, my inner world and character fall into the depression of living alone, loneliness puzzles me, as if this is my life, struggling alone in self-enclosed ignorance.

During this period, I took the initiative to undertake housework, and followed my will to do my own things. I did tedious housework. Although it seemed to kill time, it relieved the pressure on my heart and spirit, and also sharpened my strong will.

Men can take the initiative to undertake housework and liberate women from tedious housework. It is now very fashionable and has become a common phenomenon in society. Emancipating women is an innovation in social civilization and progress, because women's talents are not inferior to men. Women in matriarchal societies are able to take on many social responsibilities.

People’s hearts are exchanged for four ounces for half a catty. The friendship and harmony of the family needs to be maintained by every family member. Only by letting go of the airs and sincerely working hard can we win a peaceful life. Of course, this requires persistence year after year, day after day, isn’t it? Adhere to the superficial affectation for a day or two, but for a long time, you will win sincerity and friendship, and live a happy and peaceful life.

Is it a shame that a man cannot bring prosperity to the family?I secretly asked myself, the question hidden in my heart kept me from finding the correct answer, and I resented myself for not being able to improve my current life. No matter how hard I tried, it was a shame.

One day, on the way to get off work, such a far-fetched fantasy appeared in my head: a genius, who became a genius by doing what he wanted to do, and worked harder for it, came up with such a wonderful idea in his mind The life conclusion surprised me.

I looked at the blue sky, and the spectacular scenery made me fall into deep thought for a long time. I was eager to get enlightenment in life from my thinking. Hard work pays off, and those who work harder and tirelessly work hard are geniuses. This strange idea , deeply engraved in my mind.

Recently, my mood is not very stable, and I am disturbed by things. Many things come to me at the same time, which makes me helpless and I don’t know how to solve them. This is mainly because my method of solving problems is not correct, so various The problem is like a mess and entanglement. I really don't know how to start, but I can't tell others about these painful things in my heart.

So I kept silent, didn't say anything, and didn't speak. I knew that telling others would also not solve the emotional and spiritual confusion and distress, and I had to bear it myself.

One day, what my son said made me feel enlightened. There is indeed a certain truth. One cannot devote himself wholeheartedly to the career he loves and carry out bold practice. Otherwise, how will he know whether he is successful or not?

Yes, my son's words suddenly opened up the confusion in my heart. Although I am useless, I still insist on doing what I like to do.What's more, there are so many platforms where you can submit articles. As long as you let go of your face and vanity, isn't it easy to succeed or fail?

It turned out that the things that bothered me were solved so easily, and the biggest thing in life is failure.There's no shame in failing. You can start over if you fall.

Social progress is also reflected in family life.At this stage, I almost did all the housework and wasted a lot of time on housework. I felt that the gains outweighed the losses. I wanted to reduce the burden and spend more time on studies, but my wife Mei’s worries at home always made me uncomfortable. I understand why my wife is so obsessed with staying at work, and her self-motivation to concentrate on work is indeed admired by people like me, but I can't ignore my family.

In my opinion, work is just to make money to support the family. How can it be regarded as a pursuit of the value of life? However, under the official system, being an official is also the biggest highlight of life. On this point, I think my wife Mei’s work is not worth it. Possibly an officer.

I have some machismo ideas, and I fell into the irrational confusion of the family. The reality makes me feel that my husband is incompetent, and I don’t have the financial ability to hire a family nanny to help me liberate me from housework, so I am pregnant. I have an unshirkable responsibility to do housework by myself, but it is a pity that I spend a lot of energy and time on housework, which is a great pain for me.

People always have to weigh the pros and cons of the priorities, absolutely can not throw away the watermelon for the sesame seeds, the wife has no future at all in her career, she can just follow the trend and be a monk for a day, but there are limitations, so there is really no need to put in so much effort , With so much thought, there will be no good results, and with the reform of the system, they can only be laid off and unemployed.But I was too embarrassed to persuade my wife to give up that attachment, so I had to let her go with the flow.

I think the establishment of a family to obtain warmth and love not only depends on the establishment of a strong relationship of blood, but also the establishment of emotional bonds between members. It is also very important to love and depend on each other. In fact, in the family concept of the Chinese people, they still abide by the idea that the man dominates the outside and the woman dominates the inside.

From ancient times to the present, it is natural for women to do housework, and it is also the image of a good wife and mother. However, as the concept is changing, the feminist movement abolished the old system and concepts, and strived for the independence of women's rights. The advocates of the Westernization Movement made this advanced The spread of the idea into China has changed the connotation of an ancient civilization. Women have also stepped out of the house to demand freedom, equality, and equal pay for equal work, and have entered the industrial army, driving the development of society. This is social progress. It is also human progress.

In this way, I thought about it, relaxed, and liberated myself.