Leap past the confused days of life

Since being raped by Mei, Feng Lu has taken care of all the housework in silence, and Feng Lu has never picked on Mei's indifferent attitude towards the family. To be honest, there are some things between husband and wife that can only be understood but not explained clearly. , it’s best not to haggle over every detail, don’t be ignorant of current affairs, there is no right or wrong in living with each other, only respect each other as guests, and tolerate each other’s shortcomings. Knowing it makes both sides lose face, especially if they fight to the death with a stern and selfless face, it will be hard to recover if the face is torn.

At the beginning, Feng Lu wanted to say a few heartfelt words to Mei, and what he said were some facts in real life. It is difficult for one person to undertake housework. Can you share some of the work, and the result is vice versa. It means that I don't share the housework, how can you be like this, who do you think doesn't work?" She told it with confidence, and then she complained about me, making Feng Lu dumb Speechless, he could only stare at Mei in a daze, dumbfounded, the world is really full of things.

From then on, Feng Lu simply persuaded himself to do more housework and talk less, and there was nothing missing. Patience is a virtue of Chinese people, it is also a test of one's own heart, and it is also the best challenge to sharpen one's spiritual realm .

At that time, Feng Lu innocently wanted to confide this thought to Mei, thinking that he could get Mei's support and understanding, but every day when he saw his wife Mei who came home after a tiring day, she showed that she had more than enough heart but not enough energy. He immediately dispelled the idea of ​​asking Mei to do housework.

After a rainy day, the weather turned cold, and Feng Lu, who was extremely tired, returned home from get off work. His family hadn't come back yet, and the room quietly felt deserted.Feng Zhizhi walked straight into the kitchen, and saw the winter vegetables he bought last night were still stacked in a corner.

Feng Lu felt weak and exhausted, he seemed to have more energy than energy, and was too lazy to pack and carry the winter vegetables to the back balcony. At this moment, he felt that he had no strength in his body.

Feng Lu didn't want to be an idiot, a fool, an elm, and struggled to think, he couldn't put all his energy into trivial life affairs and waste his time, it would be unfair to go on like that, and in the end it would really accomplish nothing, If you can't do what you want to do and spend your limited energy on housework all day long, you will not be able to realize your self-worth, and you will regret it for life. If this continues, Feng Lu will be extremely depressed.

Recently, I encountered troublesome things that didn't go well at work, and I felt very heavy. In addition, I was exhausted physically and mentally, and I couldn't lift my spirits. I didn't have an appetite, so I didn't want to go to the kitchen to prepare meals immediately.

Feng Lu lit a cigarette and smoked it vigorously to relieve his fatigue. This is a bad habit he has developed for many years. Smoking is so outrageous that he can swallow a large amount of smoke into his chest cavity. It seems that only in this way can he enjoy himself.

Looking back, I should have started smoking when I was 15 years old. I knew that smoking was extremely harmful and had no health benefits at all. I was young and energetic and didn’t pay much attention to health, so I still smoked with relish and complacently. Okay, you can still overdraw your physical strength.

Mei was tired all day and couldn't take care of the housekeeper at all, so what could Feng Lu do about it?As a man, it's okay to take more responsibility. Feng Lu has become a real housekeeper, and he has to spend part of his energy on cooking, washing dishes, scrubbing, and taking out the trash.

Conversely, Mei sees it as a duty of no hesitation to work hard outside to generate income for the family. This seems to be a bit contrary. It was messed up, and Mei returned home exhausted and fell asleep on the bed, like a pile of mud, and it was difficult to help her up again.

Mei has thoughts in her heart, she doesn’t want to see her husband being worthless, staying at home all day with nothing to do, and vice versa, she devotes her mind to work, often comes home late, shows positive performance at work, and works overtime to show I want to make progress, and I am eager to be reused and appreciated by leaders.

Mei's approach is very targeted, and it is undoubtedly a provocation to Feng Lu, but Feng Lu knows Mei's mind and wants to improve the living conditions through his own hard work. It is reasonable to say that men and women are equal, but society does not provide equal pay for equal work. No matter how hard you work or how much you want to add to your family, the nature of your job determines your income level.

Mei's job belongs to the low-income group. No matter how hard she works, no amount of labor and sweat will increase her income. Feng Lu thinks how sad it is for Mei to think this way and work like this. She leaves early and returns late every day, working hard, You won't get the corresponding rewards, so what are you planning for yourself?

But Feng Lu among the salarymen belongs to the pampered type. This kind of psychological comparison suddenly made Feng Lu realize the gap between people. Yes, fate is not unfavorable to Feng Lu. Following the trend, Fortune has obtained a relatively comfortable and comfortable working environment, a leisurely life, and no need to worry about the problem of food and clothing. Like most people, with a certain economic foundation, the natural family life is also considered happy.

This kind of life may be the standard of living that many people in the world dream of, but Feng Lu doesn't seem to be satisfied with this kind of life in his mind, thinking about how to pursue a higher level of spiritual life, and working hard for it.

To be honest: this is asking for trouble, imprisoning oneself in the realm of thinkers, it is a kind of torture, a kind of pain.Originally with a weak cultural foundation and insufficient innate wisdom, he broke into the ranks of literary lovers only by virtue of his enthusiasm. He didn't know that he was half a pound and lived a life of a fake literati living alone, and wanted to show off.

A little overwhelmed, he broke into the spiritual realm abruptly. Feng Lu, who can no longer extricate himself and can't play the role of a happy messenger of family life, always does his favorite literature silently by himself, devoting all his time and energy to it. I fell into my obsession with literature, like an ascetic, living life regardless of my family's feelings.

Buying and storing vegetables in the north in winter is to offset the expensive price of winter vegetables, so every family will store winter vegetables during this season, one is to save money; the other is to be convenient to eat, which is also the way of survival handed down by the elders .

Feng Lu would do these things alone every year, and even a big man had to worry about housework carefully.When seeing women from other people's families doing these things, I feel jealous and full of envy. I also have a small calculation in my heart, and I do it every year. I didn't care before. Feeling tired of doing this kind of thing.

At home, Feng Lu never cared about trivial matters with his wife Mei. He thought it was okay for a man to do more housework. His wife, Mei, took care of her family and became a shopkeeper.

There was a stage of loneliness deep in Feng Lu's heart. Maybe everyone will spend a lot of lonely time. Only those who can endure loneliness are people who do things. Seek spiritual comfort in loneliness, and Feng Lu will open up when he is lonely. Browsing and appreciating the all-encompassing content of politics, economy, culture, and art on the Internet, and also caring about the basic necessities of life, food, housing, transportation, and commodity prices, and at the same time knowing that thinkers consciously write about their depressed feelings, those touching stories have reached the level of sincerity. lyrical depth.

Since the emergence of the Internet, a new thing, it has set off a boom in the Internet not long after it started. I am afraid that Feng Lu will be eliminated by the times. Keep up with the situation and learn online, browse news and new things in time, and various columns of human nature that you are interested in. Feng Lu was refreshed by the financial news.Everything after that is trivial.

After browsing the web for a long time, my eyes will be dazzled, but I rub my eyes and keep reading, eager to improve my self-cultivation and cultural level through reading, so I read many passionate and healthy articles, as well as dross articles written with feelings.