Leap past the confused days of life

Feng Lu has the problem of being stubborn, and lives in a self-confident consciousness. Ever since he realized these bad habits, he wanted to get out of the closed self-consciousness, abandon depression, face life positively and optimistically, correct wrong habits and practices, and come Make up for your mistakes.

I also have my own advantages, obey the rules, bear hardships and stand hard work. Such a good family tradition must be persisted. Feng Lu has developed a good habit of getting up early for many years, but he did not make full use of this time to make breakfast for his family. The time was spent practicing writing at the desk, completely immersed in myself, and when my wife and children woke up, I realized that it was time to make breakfast.

I can't blame my wife, Mei, who blamed and complained to Feng Lu when he got up early in the morning: "You two are very interesting. You don't learn what you should study, and you study blindly all day long. Your son is playful and can't overcome it. I don’t know how to discipline.” Mei, out of anger, went on aggressively, “Mr. Li called and said mercilessly that my son’s academic performance is not improving. The main problem is playfulness. The teacher said that such grades You can only go to technical school."

He usually does not discipline his children strictly. Feng Lu always wants to set an example by himself to influence his children's studies. He takes hard work as an example and leaves a good impression in his children's hearts, but it is difficult to become a benchmark. This is a father who educates his children about self-awareness At the beginning, Feng Lu only wanted to lead by example, but was unable to recognize the weakness of human nature, so he did not supervise and discipline the child. At this age, the child does not have any self-control. The father's discipline responsibility is an incompetent and derelict father.

Feng Lu blamed himself for a while, but he didn't take the responsibility of discipline. No matter how much he persuaded him, it was useless. The habit he developed has become a natural one. He has never had direct communication with his son, and he has no good discipline methods. I can't fight, I can't scold, and I even think helplessly: Why do people have to contend with fate, they walk their own way in life, what kind of person will live the life of what kind of person, there is no complaint?In the future, no matter whether life is good or bad, learning is good or bad is also your own choice.

Feng Lu could only sigh about this, no matter what happens in the future, he must be mentally prepared.It's not that I haven't used my brains in Feng Lu's study, but the effect is not good, the grades can't improve, and there is no way to do it.Is this human nature?

Sometimes life is elusive, absurd, and dramatic. What's more, people's abilities are limited. How helpless and helpless it seems to invest a limited life in infinite time. Facing dereliction of duty education, there is no There are ways and abilities to solve children's learning; there is no way to control the bad behavior of playing and not doing business.This all blames misunderstandings and leads by example.

I also blame Feng Lu for his carelessness and lack of careful observation over the years. He was completely confused by his son's usual superficial behavior and superficial phenomena. He usually went to his son's room and saw that the child was always studying, and when he left the room, he was completely confused. I don't know what my son is doing, because the door of my son's room is always tightly closed. I'm afraid it will disturb my son's study. I don't know what my son is doing?I still play games all the time when I think about it. Although the adults are also blindly preaching, they can’t solve the problem and have not fulfilled their supervisory responsibilities. It’s so sad.Drink your own bitter wine.

Mei's complaints are not unreasonable, expressing dissatisfaction directly is difficult for Feng Lu to accept, Mei, what can be done with the worry and depression on his face, Feng Lu who is at a loss for words for a while does not know how to answer Mei's complaint, and also I don't know how to comfort my wife who is extremely angry. Seeing her sullen expression, unhappy appearance, there is nothing she can do about her heartache. She wakes up early in the morning and works hard. It is really speechless for her to be unhappy.

Things at home are not settled well, she is just looking for troubles, Mei is still used to picking up cold boiled water, raising her neck, and gulping down a glass of water. This is a good habit she insists on doing every morning, and of course it is also Feng Lu prepared boiled water for Mei. I heard that hydrotherapy has special effects on gastrointestinal flushing.

Seeing Mei's posture of drinking water is supernaturally free and easy. The husband and wife have been together for a long time, and she does not avoid it. She is a little indulgent. Suddenly I feel that Mei is so beautiful. There was a provocative flavor in his demeanor, and after a burst of impulsiveness, Feng Lu had endless aftertaste.

Mei, with a knife mouth and a bean curd heart, whining is not malicious, emotionally provocative, a man must understand, and bear her nagging without saying anything.The dereliction of duty in education made Feng Lu's mood terrible. Facing the suffering of reality, there was no good way to solve the distressing problems that tortured him, so he didn't want to talk to Limei.

Keeping silent is a good strategy. If you are not convinced, do not admit defeat, and insist on competing with Mei, if you fight with red faces, the ending will often turn upside down, so there is not much meaning between husband and wife. Silence is golden. .

Feng Lu continued to do things with his head down, silently and unkindly to solve the embarrassing situation. Mei, who was treated coldly like this, soon felt that she was making fun of herself, and she was reluctant to part with the work she needed. Afraid of being late, she hurried to work. The fighting that took place died down.

After Mei closed the door, Feng Lu's heart calmed down. Although he was no longer disturbed, he was lucky to be able to be quiet for a while, and his ears were not tortured, but his thoughts could not be concentrated.Mei's nagging is deafening to her ears, and she will often interrupt her thoughts. When she is depressed and very annoyed, she will think tolerantly. Even if she is in a bad mood, she can't completely resent his wife Mei. She also hates iron and steel.The problem of education cannot be solved in the short term.

That day Feng Lu read an article about people needing to learn to endure loneliness and loneliness, which stated that we should all learn to endure loneliness and loneliness in our hearts, because a person's life is lonely because of loneliness, and also lonely because of loneliness.No one in the world can escape from such a sea of ​​suffering. Everyone has to face it. Loneliness and loneliness will accompany most of the time in life.

It also preaches learning and thinking, and even sleep occupies most of the time in life.In addition, no one has counted how much time is happy in life. There is no exact data. No matter what people do, they must face the loneliness and loneliness in their hearts, because in this world, no one can escape the emptiness and loneliness of their hearts. Everyone will experience different spiritual tempering. With such a point of view, the author writes the author's inner loneliness and loneliness into the article for readers to taste and share.

The article writes about the loneliness deep in the human soul, and at the same time completes the analysis of human nature. The writer regards the delicate spiritual pain and loneliness he feels as self-inflicted, and believes that writing is self-imposed, not just shutting his body in The room is used to analyze and perfect one's own thoughts, and also to torture and destroy its body and spirit to varying degrees.After a writer has experienced tempering, he has advanced thoughts and minds that ordinary people cannot match, and often produces far-fetched whimsy.

After reading such an article, Feng Lu felt quite the same. He wondered if I could try to imitate others, so that I can also have this kind of life experience, and think like the author as the environment changes, so as to achieve the author's understanding of what he sees and what he sees. Hearing about people, things, and things produces wonderful thinking activities, so that the mind and soul can be perfectly unified?

At the same time, Feng Lu also read carefully on the Internet, chasing the author's delicacy in writing the characters' emotions, and sharing the author's thoughts.The slow-witted Feng Lu recharges his mind every day, stares at the dazzling screen to greedily absorb the newer articles, sits still for a long time, and reads until his eyes are dazzled.

When the reading eyes are blurred and the mind is in a trance, it is only when I think of protecting the eyes that I realize the importance of the eyes. The eyes are the windows to the world. In this way, Feng Lu still reads and browses to gain spiritual food, thinking that only such a large amount of reading can gain knowledge. It will not be eliminated by the times.

Reading is to communicate with noble people. Reading can understand the virtues and principles of being a human being. It is difficult for people to change the environment, but smart people can change themselves and get out of their misunderstandings.