Leap past the confused days of life

One day, Mei came home and told me that the work unit would transfer their personal files to the city archives for preservation.Due to the demolition of the unit and the diversion of laid-off workers, there is no place to store the files, so they have to be put on hold in the municipal archives for the time being.

After the separation of personnel, personal files were needed to replace their identities, so Mei went to the city archives, and the staff of the archives said that her files could not be found for a while.Let Mei wait patiently, and will notify her when she finds it.The file is related to Mei's future identity and personal interests.

Mei usually has a big heart, big enough to be broad-minded, able to tolerate everything in life, and any trivial things in life will not worry Mei Xin, because she has never seen Mei helpless.

Life is always a joke, and people sometimes can't laugh or cry, maybe Mei hasn't encountered any sorrow yet.

I don’t think Mei would be angry about this matter, so naturally I ignored it. I never thought that Mei’s anger would not come to one place, and she stared and said angrily: “It’s unreasonable, just say you lost it and you’ll be fine, how can this work? No, a bunch of prodigal sons."

After working in the unit for more than ten years, I was suddenly forced to be laid off. I needed personal files to change my identity, and the unit was auctioned off.

Mei talked non-stop, looking like an ant on a hot pot, restless, I advised her: Mei, don’t worry, don’t worry, it’s nothing serious, you can’t find it and you can make it up.According to the analysis of the situation, ordinary people's files that do not involve confidentiality are generally not kept in special custody, and they are likely to be ignored.

After listening to my reassurance, Mei felt a little more at ease. However, she took the time to negotiate with the archives management staff many times. The archives management staff promised to search in detail, but Mei was still worried, and kept saying when she got home: "This unlucky thing just happened to me." After going to the archives several times in a row, she complained to the staff of the agency, claiming that the work efficiency was low. , The face is ugly.

People who often go to and from the office are used to such an environment and work efficiency, and they will not have any objections. This is the first time Mei has gone to the office to do business. When encountering such a thing, she will naturally feel a little bit of complaints and vent her depression.

I smiled and said to Mei, this small setback is nothing, it’s okay to continue to look for them, it’s a long journey, as long as you persist, you won’t lose anything if you waste a little time, not to mention that you have plenty of time to deal with them and waste time with the staff. Time, but don't treat the clerks with the image of a lady, let them know that you are powerful and afraid of you with the way of a woman, and they will help you as soon as possible. Generally, these pampered people don't know good and bad, and often show The soft ones bully, the hard ones fear.Therefore, to take extreme measures, we must also play the game of soft deception and hard fear, one thing down one thing, Mei was amused.

At night, Mei tossed and turned on the bed all night. After thinking about it, she got up in the middle of the night and turned on the light. The dazzling light affected the family's sleep. "Why not sleep?" I asked.Mei said: "I'm extremely agitated." As far as I can remember, this was Mei, and it was the first time that I couldn't sleep because of mental problems at night.One night, the family could no longer fall asleep peacefully and peacefully.

During the peak hours of work, the streets are full of traffic and bustling. The roads at the construction site are narrow and congested. The chaotic traffic is even more chaotic, and even affects the smooth flow of the roads. Citizens seem to be used to it.

On the streets with mixed traffic, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps in the traffic of cars and people. When encountering friction, both parties can be considerate and humble to avoid unnecessary quarrels and disputes. However, people in life are not as good as imagined, and they often make trouble without reason Those who speak poorly at every turn, have quarrels, and even use hands and feet. Fights are not uncommon, which reflects the poor quality of the people around them.

Due to physiological reasons, especially women who like to chatter, menopausal mentality changes, and the phenomenon of picking quarrels and provoking troubles is the most likely to occur. It is extremely common in life, and unprincipled venting quarrels are completely psychological and physical venting.

People in the society condemn this as a lack of self-cultivation. Yes, self-cultivation is the self-confidence cultivated through self-education and public education. Many people need to change their thoughts and concepts to face reality. Collective education is only the key to form. It lies in the self-cultivation of the individual's self-psychology, because human beings have a bound slavishness. Once the attitude is tough and spiritually restricted, it can be changed by implementing norms and the rule of law, not to mention that wild animals can be domesticated.

How to regulate people's behavior and control people's wishes, the most effective and feasible way is to use the reward and punishment system to regulate and restrain people's behavior. Reward and punishment still play an important role in the real society. Controlling human emotions is collectively referred to as social morality.

My thinking went around again, and I came back to the original point again. Mei went to handle the personal files that she thought was very difficult, and went to the relevant department many times to search for it. According to my correct thinking, the clerk was found.

Over the years, she has cultivated the idea of ​​dependence, which tied Mei's hands and feet. This time, Mei experienced a lot of bumps and bumps before she realized how difficult it is to do things, and nothing is smooth sailing.

Mei has a positive and optimistic attitude. After a few days of good things, her personnel file has been settled. As expected, it was forgotten at a certain point, and the filer found it again.

With repeated persistence, the spirit of perseverance has been rewarded. Mei, who is somewhat complacent, has a bigger heart, showing more composure and calmness when encountering problems, and showing the ability to meet challenges. I feel ashamed.

From then on, I looked at Mei with admiration. She showed a persistent spirit of not giving up and not being discouraged when encountering setbacks. , but also use patience and perseverance to stick to it.