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If Ma Tiantian knew Lin Jianwu well enough, she shouldn't continue to delve into this issue at this time.

Lin Jianwu will keep even perfunctory promises, and similarly, unintentional refusal is also called refusal.

But after all, Ma Tiantian had a formal and substantive conversation with Lin Jianwu for the first time. Many things cannot be understood by intuition, so they can only be understood from the literal answers.

Although Lin Jianwu felt that Lin Jianwu's answer was very clever, but Lin Jianwu's overly friendly appearance was very deceptive. Ma Tiantian could only think that Lin Jianwu didn't want her to ask such a question.

So what kind of bad thing did you do to be so unwilling?Ma Tiantian believes that whether she is Lin Chensan's temporary boss or a friend, she is obliged to help Lin Chensan take care of it. She must ask this question carefully.

Lin Jianwu's reluctance meant that this question was very important and must be asked.As far as Ma Tiantian's brain circuit is concerned, this continuous idea is almost extended along a line, which did not make her have any doubts.

Huh, generally speaking, friends and girlfriends would do that, wouldn't they? !

So Ma Tiantian did it in this general way: "Is there anything I can't ask? Specifically, I don't really believe in your feelings for Lin Chensan. I don't think you like her. However, this is just From my current opinion, I don't know much about the relationship between you. I just want to say, what are your plans for things after being with Lin Chensan?"

"Plans? It seems that my spiritual life has suddenly fallen to daily necessities. I haven't thought about it yet."

"How can this work?" Ma Tiantian became anxious, "I'm not a primary school student anymore, it's not that I hold hands today, sleep at night, and tomorrow will be a normal day, what should I do after that? Although homosexuality is not supported in China Married, but you can't really not get married, right? You must still need a status if you are together. Then, regardless of the future promotion direction of the two of you at work, if you want to settle down in this city, you can't always If you rent a house, you won’t feel comfortable living in someone else’s house, and it’s hard to settle down. You always need a home of your own, but if you want to buy a house, how will you pay for the house? How will you pay off the mortgage? In addition, do you plan to When will you bring Lin Chensan home to meet your parents? What if your family doesn't accept it? Love without the blessing of your parents will not be happy. Have you ever considered these aspects?"

"These are three questions, get married, buy a house, and get approval from both parents?"

"It's more than that. There are many problems after gays get together. I can understand your thoughts now. Indeed, you are still young now, and all difficulties are still far away from you. It is too early for you, and it is too early for you to think about it It’s normal, but it’s far from being ignored, don’t you think so? To love someone is to give them happiness. We can’t really wait for the problem to be in front of us, we can only do nothing, and everything will be beyond our control, how terrible it is.”

Lin Jianwu was thoughtful: "Then I have to be thankful that neither of Sansan and I is a man, and there is no issue of having children yet."

"If you want to give birth, you can give birth." Ma Tiantian didn't care about that.

"..." The corner of Lin Jianwu's mouth twitched, but he didn't answer.

Ma Tiantian began to empathize with her while talking: "Love is very attractive, but after joy, responsibility is more important. I understand your thoughts. It's just a relationship. Of course it's cool to be irresponsible. I've tasted it." The sweetness of love does not need to worry about responsibility, but this is a wrong idea. Lin Jianwu, as a man... sorry, I said it smoothly, it should be said that as adults, meeting parents, getting married, and buying a house are what we should responsibilities and obligations."

"Responsibilities and obligations? It sounds like the same thing. But I don't think these can be called my responsibilities and obligations."

"How can you think it's not?" Ma Tiantian knew that Lin Jianwu was a big scumbag, maybe she shouldn't have said these things to the other party, but she had already said it, so she couldn't just stop talking now, and even if it was For Lin Chensan, she also had to get this vaccination. She became excited, "Don't evade, we have to take up our responsibilities and obligations, Lin Chensan will be very happy not to mention others. She must never have imagined that you would Thinking so far for her. But Lin Chensan didn't expect this to be fine, you have to think more about it."

"Sister Tiantian, this is our business, not yours. I like it myself, and I am willing to be with Lin Chensan. Why do you say that we have to do that when we have a relationship? Maybe, we broke up the next second when we felt inappropriate."

Ma Tiantian thinks that Lin Jianwu is still too idealistic, unrealistic, too young and ignorant: "This is not just my personal idea, but I am quite reasonable and understand what homosexuality is about. This is My advice to you as Lin Chensan's friend, of course, I can't force you to do it this way, but I hope you can be clear. There is no bad intention here. After all, two people together are not as good as one Do whatever you want, you can live as you want alone, but love still needs to be carefully managed and cared for, otherwise, after the hormones subside, those parents who are short-tempered and trivial things will rush to your face, and you say you don’t want to be together, so don’t be together, whatever you want A girl should go crazy and hang herself because of this? This is very irresponsible behavior."

"No matter what, I won't like the kind of person who is dying because of love. Lin Chensan is still a mystery to me. I could have talked with her a long time ago and exchanged ideas about this, but some At that time, my self-esteem was very strong, and I would often speak out my thoughts when she expressed doubts. I was not used to relying on anyone. This required a gradual process. I could feel the progress of this process, so I also Don’t worry. Moreover, responsibilities and obligations are never unilateral, just like there is only one person, and no child can be born. The definition of a happy life is often different for everyone.”

Lin Jianwu was silent, with a very serious expression, as if she valued the so-called 'definition of a happy life' more than Ma Tiantian imagined.Ma Tiantian didn't make a sound.In front of Lin Jianwu, Ma Tiantian was a little apprehensive, and there were many reasons for this, for example, as Lin Chensan's temporary boss, but she didn't have the kind of authority that was obviously a boss; when she was caught eavesdropping, before that It’s also difficult to match words like maturity and stability when talking about people behind their backs; expressing such views on love and marriage, in essence, I have never been in love at all... and so on.

Now Ma Tiantian is greatly curious by Lin Jianwu. In her opinion, Lin Chensan himself has a different brain circuit from normal people. Opinions on certain issues give her some fancy novelty.When I eavesdropped before, I felt that Lin Chensan could fall in love with Lin Jianwu, who is not an ordinary person.Now this feeling is even more obvious.This kind of feeling can be good or bad, just like now, Ma Tiantian feels more bad... She suddenly had a fantasy: if Lin Jianwu speaks again, she has shaped it bit by bit in the past [-] years The three outlooks will all collapse.

But this is simply nonsense, Ma Tiantian thought a little angrily: I have my own ideas, and I know what I am doing.I have long since ceased to be the child who only knows how to be submissive to my parents and listen to their arrangements.

"To be honest, I don't think that the ideas or concepts that everyone agrees with are necessarily correct." Ma Tiantian felt a little confused when she said this, "But this will be more or less reasonable, otherwise there is no way for the public to agree .Aren't you right?" At this point, she almost bit her tongue. 'Here it is again' she couldn't help thinking from the bottom of her heart.Although it is said that she is no longer a child, she still involuntarily seeks the opinions of others. Sometimes she can't tell the difference between "properly asking others for help" and having no opinion at all and not being responsible.

How could she be qualified to teach others something that she didn't even think about clearly... Before Lin Jianwu could speak, Ma Tiantian, who thought so, defeated herself.

"I think Miss Tiantian, you are a little anxious. Of course, it's not that you are anxious about getting the approval of both parents, getting married, or buying a house for love. What you are anxious about is good love, good marriage, good house, It is a question of how to meet the standard of "good". After all, it is very normal to have a casual relationship, a marriage with a partner, and a rent increase as you move. But as far as we are concerned, it is very difficult. Let yourself be satisfied with that situation. Can I think, Sister Tiantian, you don't want your quality of life to be affected after falling in love, getting married, or buying a house?" Lin Jianwu finally spoke.

Ma Tiantian felt this way, but she didn't feel that way. Before she could say something, Lin Jianwu didn't ask for her opinion, and she didn't have a chance to intervene.

"Let me tell you my point of view. Many people, yes, many of my peers are like this. When it's time to fall in love, we should find a love partner, and when we should get married, we should marry, thinking that this is our responsibility. So, Miss Tiantian, have you ever thought about it? Where does this so-called responsibility and obligation come from? For parents, for the other half, or for the eyes of others? Ah, it shouldn’t be for the society, right? "

"Sister Tiantian, have you ever thought about why you want to fall in love and then get married?" Lin Jianwu looked at Ma Tiantian and smiled slightly, "I hope this answer comes from your sincerity, Rather than saying that what others have, I also want to have."