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To Dai Zhenheng's surprise, when Wen Shuo actually talked about this matter, he discovered that the protagonist of the matter was not Jiang Qiqi, but a girl named Yin Hanyu.

Wen Shuo and Yin Hanyu met one night not long after he was transferred here to work. Lu Jingmin took him to patrol the area in a car, and met Yin Hanyu who was sitting on the side of the road in a daze in the middle of the night.

The early morning in the northern winter is not so gentle, and it will take a while to freeze through wearing thin clothes, so no matter who it is, they have to ask about the situation, let alone a girl.

Wen Shuo and Lu Jingmin went over to say hello to the girl, and seeing that she looked normal, they asked why she wasn't home at this hour and why she was sitting here.

But the girl said: "I have no home to go back to."

"Hearing what she said at the time, my master and I thought that she was not a local, and she might have encountered some difficulties, so we half-persuaded and half-persuaded her back to the institute. After we went back, we asked. Knowing that she is actually a local, the village where she lived before the demolition was not far from our home."

This matter has been stuck in Wen Shuo's throat for too long, so now that he finally finds a chance to talk to someone, he can't control his speaking speed and emotions.

At the beginning, Yin Hanyu obviously didn't want to say anything more to them. Lu Jingmin has been in the police for many years, and such situations are not uncommon, so he is not in a hurry.

Seeing that the little girl was pale from the cold, she asked Wen Shuo to order something to eat.

Wen Shuo leaned in Dai Zhenheng's arms, hugged him with one arm, and unconsciously grabbed his clothes with the other: "I still remember the way she sipped the soup that day. After she finished drinking, she Just told me that she hasn’t eaten for a day, not because she has no money, but because she doesn’t want to eat, and she doesn’t know the meaning of eating.”

Wen Shuo was not puzzled at first, but later he realized that what Yin Hanyu meant to express was that she didn't know the meaning of living.

After eating, Yin Hanyu's mood obviously relaxed a little, and he started talking to Lu Jingmin and Wen Shuo casually, and told them his name, but didn't mention which community he was in.

She knew that Lu Jingmin would go to check her home address to contact her family, so she took the initiative to say to them: "Let me stay here for a while, and we will talk about it after dawn."

Looking at her performance, Lu Jingmin would naturally guess that she ran out because of conflicts with her family in eight or nine out of ten, so he agreed, and wanted to chat with her first, to see if he could persuade her, and it made sense. That's fine, let's talk about it if it doesn't make sense.

After chatting for a while, Yin Hanyu told the two that she broke up with her boyfriend and she proposed to break up.

The man was her college classmate, and they had been together for many years. After graduation, they went to each other's home to meet their parents, and the two parents had to meet to finalize the marriage.

"Girls at a certain age will want to get married, want to have a family of their own, and be with the one they love." Yin Hanyu looked at Wen Shuo and smiled, "Do you have a girlfriend? Do you understand my feelings? "

Wen Shuo had a good relationship with Jiang Qiqi at the time, so he nodded naturally. Jiang Qiqi occasionally expressed his intention to get married, and he also expressed his attitude to her several times, saying that he would listen to her.

Yin Hanyu said: "When I just graduated, I really wanted to get married, and I was quite confident in myself. I thought I could manage this marriage well. I would naturally mention this idea to my ex-boyfriend. Guess what he said What?"

"He doesn't want to?" Wen Shuo guessed.

Yin Hanyu smiled and nodded: "He said he didn't want to get married so early, so he sent me away with one sentence. In fact, if he added a reason, saying that our jobs are not stable yet, and I don't have a financial foundation for the time being, I can do anything." Accepted, but he didn't say anything, just said he didn't want to, and then acted as if nothing had happened. At that time, I swore that I would never take the initiative to bring it up with him again in my life."

After that, Yin Hanyu really didn't mention it again, the two of them dated as usual, but because the other party's work was always on business trips, naturally they didn't meet as frequently as when they were in school.

Yin Hanyu has always felt that since two people are in a relationship, it doesn't matter whoever takes the initiative and pays more, so usually she goes to find each other when she is relatively free at work. It takes three or four hours to go back to the usual way.

"At the beginning, I really didn't think there was anything wrong," Yin Hanyu said, "but his performance gradually made me feel that I was like a chicken who could pay him back without spending money. He often just needs to sit at home and post Just a message, and I will be able to arrive at the place he designated according to his requirements, and he will not even send me off after I am done, telling me to go out."

This situation was only occasional at first, and then I don't know when it became the norm.

"If he has a job or is busy, I wouldn't say anything, but the problem is that he is fine at all, just playing computer games at home."

The dissatisfaction gradually accumulated in this way, making Yin Hanyu feel more and more uncomfortable, and even began to be unbearable.

"But it's not the thing that disgusts me the most." Yin Hanyu paused for a moment before saying, "My grandfather and I have a very good relationship. Not long after I graduated from university, my grandfather died of lung cancer. The cemetery is quite Far away, do you know the XX cemetery?"

Seeing Wen Shuo nodding, Yin Hanyu continued: "I told my ex-boyfriend to accompany me to the cemetery to see my grandfather. Do you know what he said? He replied 'I don't care about our family. '."

You can imagine Yin Hanyu's mood at that time, but she didn't get angry immediately, and even comforted herself that the other party was young and not sensible.

But no matter how she comforted herself, the repeated disappointments still made her feel bad for this person, and the feelings in her heart were gradually exhausted under such circumstances.

But even so, she didn't think about breaking up, because she felt that the other party hadn't made any serious mistakes other than that, and she didn't know why she had to say to break up with him.

"The thing that really made Yin Hanyu feel hopeless happened during the Spring Festival that year," Wen Shuo buried his face in Dai Zhenheng's body, and murmured, "At that time, she was working in a bookstore in a shopping mall, and the evening shift was at ten o'clock. I just got off work, but after passing by, the bus back to our side usually runs out around [-]:[-], and I always miss it.”

Because the distance is not too far, and it takes half an hour to ride a bicycle, Yin Hanyu chooses to commute to get off work by bicycle.

She remembers clearly that during the Spring Festival of that year, on the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, she met a pervert on the way back from night shift.

The other party followed her on a motorcycle and spoke extremely insulting words to her. She was scared to death, but knew that fear was useless at this time, so she chose to muster up the courage to resist.

She stopped the car, swearing, and slapped the man who had been following her with the chain that locked the car.

Fortunately, the other party was more timid than she imagined, and after being frightened by her, he ran away on a bicycle.

After returning home, Yin Hanyu's legs were weak. When she told her family about it, her mother and grandma remained expressionless and indifferent, while her father asked her why she didn't take the bus and who asked her to ride.

And her ex-boyfriend was even worse. After receiving the WeChat message, he just scolded the pervert and comforted her, and didn't even call.

There was no mention of this in the next few days.

"It was the Spring Festival holiday at that time, and her ex-boyfriend didn't have to go to work, just stayed at home, and didn't even say a word to pick her up and go to and from work." Every time Wen Shuo thought of this incident, he felt panicked in his heart. When he met Yin Hanyu, he had already changed jobs, so he would definitely take over this matter and take care of it himself.

When Yin Hanyu talked about this, he brought up the past again.

She is the kind of girl who is not very beautiful, but a little cute. She is not tall, and her figure is not plump. She can only be said to be ordinary.

But I don't know why, but she always attracts some strange people like this.

On the subway, she met someone with a breast attack, who reached out from her back and put her hand on her side to touch her; someone took the bus in the morning rush hour and deliberately touched her with her lower body behind her.

She mentioned all these to her ex-boyfriend, but because she felt that it was possible that she just bumped into them by accident, she didn't think much about it. It wasn't until this time that she really realized that the things she encountered before were probably not coincide.

And what about her so-called boyfriend?What else has he done besides scolding a few words while chatting on WeChat?Did he protect her?No.He didn't even say a word of promise to protect her, as if he was afraid that if he said it, he would be in trouble.

"There is really no need to continue dating such a boyfriend." Dai Zhenheng lightly touched Wen Shuo's hair with his lips, "Either he never loved that girl at all, or he was too selfish."

They had no way of knowing whether this person had ever loved Yin Hanyu, but it was not this matter that prompted Yin Hanyu to make up his mind to break up with him.

Because the two of them are basically rushing to get married, Yin Hanyu feels that if she can bear a lot of things, it's fine. If this man won't protect her, then she will try to protect herself as much as possible.

But even though she thought so in her heart, her mood still became very bad. She began to not want to eat, suffered from insomnia, burst into tears for no reason, and felt restless and anxious for a long time.

Later, she realized that she might have some psychological problems, so she mentioned it to her mother, but her mother looked at her as if she was mentally ill, saying that she was looking for trouble when she was fine.

This directly caused Yin Hanyu to become irritable—because she suddenly realized that not only her boyfriend, but even her family would not protect her. If she wanted to survive in this world, all she could rely on was Only herself.

And her change also directly caused her boyfriend to cheat.

"The most ridiculous thing is that that man didn't dare to break up with her." Wen Shuo's hands and Dai Zhenheng's were intertwined, and his fingers were intertwined. "It was later that Hanyu found out by herself, and then told him separate."

It was a long period of time when they didn't contact each other. Later, Yin Hanyu saw from their mutual friends that the other party posted on Moments, and then he realized that he had set friend permissions by him.

After the breakup, Yin Hanyu felt that the whole world had changed, she was much more relaxed, and her mood naturally improved.

But her family was not happy, especially her mother.

"That man's family conditions are not bad," Wen Shuo said, "His father owns a small company, and drives a BMW every day."

Yin Hanyu's mother frequently asked the reason for their breakup. After learning that the other party cheated, she still taught Yin Hanyu that it's normal for men to be like this, and the more capable they are, the more they will be like this. This proves that they have that ability, and she should learn to forbear and give in. There will be good days.

There is also her bad temper, how can she hold a man's heart if she is too strong?Let her change, let her apologize to the man, admit her mistakes, and get married again.