[Xiao Huanxi] Cha boy

Everyone noticed that Gu Yu had changed, and she loved to smile. Although she was not a person with a cold face before, she was not smiling almost all the time like now.And I have become very hardworking, and I am either studying or on the way to study in my spare time.

Knowing that Xu Qing'an passed away, Qiao Yingzi wanted to comfort Gu Yu every time, but seeing Gu Yu's questioning smile on her face, she couldn't speak anymore. She couldn't go forward and open the wound directly .

Gu Yuanfei is the one who can feel the change of Gu Yu the most. In the past, when the two of them got along with each other, they always felt a little embarrassed, but now only Gu Yuanfei is the one who is embarrassed. Gu Yu treats Gu Yuanfei as if Gu Yuanfei never left. But it's not the same as coming back halfway.

The biggest change is that Gu Yu can directly yell "Mom" to Gu Yuanfei.

Gu Yuanfei instinctively felt that this was wrong. Although Gu Yu didn't seem to be affected by Xu Qingan's death, she just felt that something was wrong and felt that she couldn't continue.But she didn't dare to talk to Gu Yu easily, because she was afraid of the unpleasant ending of the last conversation between the two of them.

Fortunately, soon came the day arranged by the school to meet the family.

Due to the recent death of Xu Qing'an, Gu Yu only heard about the suspected puppy love between Fang Yifan and Qiao Yingzi, and they walked alone at the end holding Qiao Yingzi's hand.

Gu Yu looked at Fang Yifan who was walking in front, leaned close to Qiao Yingzi's ear and whispered, "What's the matter between you and Fang Yifan? How did I hear that you two fell in love early?"

"Oh, it's their parents talking nonsense." Hearing this, Qiao Yingzi felt annoyed, "On the day the three of us went home together, didn't you go home first, and then when we arrived at the unit, Fang Hou My son may have seen that I was more... how to put it, more depressed, and then said that he would not try the hug therapy that the school said, so he gave me a hug."

The more Qiao Yingzi talked, the more upset he became, and he sighed.

"And then?" Gu Yu reached out and patted Qiao Yingzi's back.

"Then we hugged each other in front of the elevator. However, my mother and Auntie Tong happened to see me, and they thought I was in love with Fang Houer." Qiao Yingzi pointed at Fang Yifan , "You said that just like Fang Hou'er, how could I fall in love with him, I didn't treat him as a man at all, okay? But my parents didn't think so, and they didn't let us both in the next morning I went to school and left the two of us to talk about it. It was hard to convince them that Fang Houer and I were not in a relationship anymore. As a result, my mother started to keep an eye on me, and now she picks me up and down from school every day. I think I really I'm going to be bored to death."

Gu Yu didn't know what to say, so she stretched out her hand and patted Qiao Yingzi again: "They are just worrying. Well, let's not talk about these troublesome things."

"What are you two talking about? Come along." Huang Zhitao turned around and waved to Qiao Yingzi and Gu Yu.

Qiao Yingzi led Gu Yu quickly to Huang Zhitao's side, held Huang Zhitao's hand, and asked, "Tao Zi, what are you going to say?"

"Me, what can I say to my uncle, I want to talk freely with him, and I want to ask him how he is doing with Teacher Li recently." Huang Zhitao put on a smile as he spoke.

As soon as Huang Zhitao said this, Qiao Yingzi was amused: "You are really, your family is so funny, it makes you look like a parent."

"What about you, are you still telling them about Nanyang University?"

"Me..." Qiao Yingzi thought about it carefully, "Anyway, I will definitely not give up any chance. Although I know that my mother is not so easy to be influenced by subtle influences, but my father is worth a try."

Hearing this, Gu Yu and Huang Zhitao nodded in agreement.

Qiao Weidong was basically responsive to Qiao Yingzi's requests.

"Hey, what about you, Xiaoyu?"

"Me, I have nothing to talk to my mother about." Gu Yu thought about it again, "Probably just the two of us sitting relatively silent."

"Not so much."

"Yang Yang, Lei'er." Fang Yifan put his hand on Ji Yangyang's shoulder, and asked the two people who had been silent all this time, "What are you two going to say?"

"Oh." Upon hearing this, Ji Yangyang sighed, "Let's talk about it when my dad comes."

Lin Lei'er's voice became lower and lower: "I...I have nothing to say, and I have no one to say."

Fang Yifan immediately said: "No, Lei'er, look, my aunt and uncle are here, so just talk and finish as you have, just like your own parents, okay?"

"go!"

"Parents and students, hello everyone." It was the person who presided over and arranged the activity of getting to know oneself last time. "Our activity today is called, get to know the family and talk freely. After a while, each family will go to each class according to the class of their child Participate in activities in the classroom. The rules of the activities are also very simple, that is, the family is the unit, and parents and children express their thoughts to each other. Of course, if you don’t want to participate, we will not force you .”

"I would like to say a few more words to the parents before the event starts. We Chinese are often very reserved in the...internal communication of the family. Many things are seen through without telling the truth, but often this will This has led to many problems in intergenerational communication. Today’s event can just build a platform for barrier-free communication between parents and children. I think this opportunity is very rare. Therefore, I especially hope that our Parents and friends must listen to their children's voices during the activities that will be held for a while, and try not to interfere with their speech. After they are better at expressing their own opinions, they will be helpful to his complete high school studies and even the college entrance examination in the future. It will also greatly promote the development of children's psychological changes in adolescence in a beneficial direction. Therefore, I especially hope that all parents can fully cooperate with this activity."

"We all know that listening is a very important part of family education. Surveys and studies have also found that the largest proportion of communication behaviors is not talking or talking, but listening. It can be said that communication , first of all is the art of listening, which is especially true for family education. And our Chinese-style parent-child relationship often pays attention to the fact that silence is golden, and many things are not communicated, and I feel embarrassed to communicate. Slowly, it becomes I can’t communicate anymore. So, to learn to communicate, you must first learn to listen. Parents must listen to their children’s true thoughts, and children must also listen to their parents’ true thoughts. Only in this way can we communicate effectively, eliminate misunderstandings, and eliminate. Parents It is the backing of the child, the harbor of the child's soul, and the ability to make the child like to talk and go home is the performance of successful family education."

"Okay, then I'll stop here today, and then, students, take your parents back to your class to carry out our themed activities."