Unable to say beyond the GL-Sequel

Yan was a little bit distressed that I was celebrating the New Year in Shanghai alone, so I told her parents about my situation. Of course, I appeared on the scene as a friend of hers. Although her parents had doubts at the time, they agreed.

I was very happy when I heard the news, and I wondered if I should buy some women's clothes or something. Although my hair is not short now, my appearance is still too boyish, and I still want to buy some clothes. Bring some presents.

The next day I went to buy some dried fruit and coffee, and when I got home, I told her online that I had gone shopping. She said I couldn’t go to her house for the Chinese New Year. She told me that she almost came out of the closet because she could be called There are only a few friends who have been playing since childhood, and they are all certified by her parents. The sudden appearance of a friend of unknown origin like me has already made her parents very puzzled, and then she said Her parents felt that it was even more wrong to take me home for the New Year. First of all, I was a "outsider" in Shanghainese terms, so her parents thought I had ulterior motives for her. Yan naturally had a quarrel with them, and then Her mother actually asked her directly: "Are you gay?" Yan denied it at the time.

I feel a little depressed, and I understand her original intentions very well, but when I think that even if there is someone I like, I can't celebrate the New Year with her, so I can't be happy.Thinking, if she does not deny it, although it is not a good time, there is no such thing as a good time for coming out of the closet. -Give up-accept, this process, it is impossible for them to accept it completely, but I can't be so selfish, I still want her family to have a good Chinese New Year, so this matter is over.

It was my birthday on the fifth day of the lunar new year, just in time for her mother to have a dinner party, and I passed it alone again, Yan said that I would make up for it later.

On February 2, we signed up for a chef training class together, which she wanted to learn, so that she would not starve to death when going abroad, and it would be convenient for us to meet each other.

She just had a rest that day, and I was still at work, so she went to the class in the afternoon. I saw the message she sent in the middle of the customs manual:

"I'm using a knife, my hands are sore, your sister."

Then she's out of order.

"Practice a few classes and you will have no upper limit." I saw this, a black line, if you don't want to order colorful ones every day, you will die, Mensao Taurus.

"It's quite free to go to class."

"That's good."

"Well, I was praised."

"Obedient."

"Baby, it's so hard!"

"Of course, you think it's easy to be a chef?"

"you try."

"I'm going tonight."

After work, I ran to catch the expressway, and then changed to the subway. After an hour and a half, I arrived at the class place.The environment is not bad, because it is not a weekend, there are not many people in the class, I pay the money, get the clothes, kitchen knife, cards and books, and go to the practical classroom to find a teacher. After an hour and a half, my hands are fine, and I feel quite novel. I am very interested in things that require hands-on cooking, and I am very excited to learn new things.

At noon on February 2th, we were chatting in the group, and it happened that the group said that we should be considerate of someone today, so I said something: Someone, please be considerate, and Yan got angry.

"Hmph, considerate others in front of me, I'm not dead yet!"

"Are you kidding me?"

"It doesn't matter, I'm angry."

"Okay:) I only care about you."

"It's late, you set a precedent for verbal molestation, I have to follow."

"You can try it."

"Okay, I'm not flirting, I'm just curious."

"Hello, eat, my meal is here."

"I didn't eat, I don't want to go shopping."

"Then eat it too."

"Not hungry, I decided to go on a hunger strike."

"Go and eat!"

"Biao, not happy. You eat first."

"eat!"

"I'll order takeaway later."

"it is good."

"You can't even fool people. I'm so sad."

I copied what I said earlier: "Okay :) Just being considerate of you."

"I have, you ignored me."

"Hmph, later on, they didn't stop me from flirting with others, and then simply ignored me and chatted."

"What are you thinking?"

"I can't do anything, why don't you ignore me, I'm on a hunger strike to protest."

"Don't be angry because of a joke, it's very depressed."

"Well, it happened anyway."

As soon as I heard the fire, I also came up, as for what.

"what happened to you?"

"Don't eat."

"After I'm angry by myself, I'll go down the steps by myself. Why are you so angry?"

"According to your way of being jealous, should you break off your friendship with your girlfriend Hui I, who you have a crush on? I think you are jealous, and it's a bit too much. You just say it casually when you promise someone to go out together." She said before When the three of us went out to eat together, we promised to go out with Hui.

"Are you going to be jealous now? You just said I passed."

"Do you judge others by yourself?"

"I'm angry that you don't coax me."

"I'll coax you! Why don't you come down by yourself! I can't eat anymore."

"Are you going to quarrel now? Can you die without reason?"

"It was you who kept emphasizing that I didn't coax you, but the truth is that I did."

"Okay honey, it's time to eat."

"My stomach hurts again, so I won't eat."

"I didn't coax you well! Pour some hot water to drink."

"I don't care about you anymore."

"With your temper, I think I will die of anger one day."

"Who is mad at whom? It's not me who started. There are many things I can bear by myself, so what if I just joke? Although I don't think I'm wrong, I still coax you."

"I'm speechless, okay, you've been wronged, I know I'm wrong, calm down."

"If you follow your logic, I think I'm tolerant of you, okay?"

"I don't have any logic. I'm a jealous monster, a tyrannical shrew, and I have advanced menopause syndrome."

"Give me something to eat."

"I always thought being jealous was a sign of caring, so I would show it right away if I felt uncomfortable, and I wouldn't hold back, and then you would be happy if you coaxed me, but it seems that we have differences in understanding, so I will hold back in the future ready."

"Did I coax you?"

"Forget it, you failed in coaxing people."

"Did I coax you?"

"Dare to keep emphasizing it."

"You are too demanding, I never coax people."

"Your sister!"

"It's almost done!"

"So I feel like I'm miserable."

"You have to be jealous, okay! If you get too much, you will become unreasonable!"

"Is it interesting for you to say that to me?"

"Then let me tell you: you and Hui and your ex-boyfriend are not allowed to contact or go out together, do you think it's right?"

"Did I ask for that?"

"You didn't let me chat with my ex."

"Besides, can I ask you to do it?"

"I never asked for it, okay?"

"Don't avoid the question, can you do it?"

"If you can do it, I can do it. Don't do anything to others, you can do everything to yourself."

"Although I feel unequal, because your ex is completely different from my ex, Hui is the only friend I can talk to, but if you ask, I will do it. I really don't like the way you speak now."

"I just hope that when you ask others, think about whether you can do it before asking."

"Of course I would think, I can promise not to contact her alone."

"I don't mean that we close the space where we make friends with each other, or we don't let each other get in touch with each other. We just need to trust each other?"

"It's such a small matter that you're going to be on the outline and on the line. You obviously can't coax people, so you accuse others of being unreasonable."

"I coaxed you, but I didn't coax you."

"here we go again!"

"You get angry, and then you don't eat. Am I going online?"

"Yes, I asked for a step down, and someone is still angry with me, I am wronged, okay? Then all kinds of people say that I am too much, and the ex-boyfriend and ex-ex-boyfriend of the gods are all revealed."

"You are wronged, I still have a stomachache, I ate half of the meal and poured out the rest."

"Say I'm making trouble for no reason, and drink some hot water to warm your stomach."

"I just don't like you because you are angry, okay? The ex-boyfriend you mentioned is just an example."

"Or you just don't want to talk to me, forget it, anyway, you didn't talk to me anyway."

"Be good, I won't ignore you."

"So wronged, so wronged, so wronged."

"Hold on, let's go eat. You know my temper. When I get angry, my stomach hurts and I don't know how to coax people. If I coax you next time, don't hold on to me anymore."

"Hmph, I decided to go hungry to punish me for being so stupid that I want you to coax me and forget the fact that every time you coax people, a world war will break out."

"If you do this, I won't eat dinner at all. Don't say I didn't coax you, I did!"

"Are you a repeater? Sister, bring something fresh."

"This is a fact, okay?"

"I'm speechless again. Haven't you summed up why I failed every time? Well, you must have concluded that I did too much!"

"I don't think there's any need to be angry about this."

"I will pay attention to it in the future, try to be angry and coax me, don't bother you, the sentence 'I coaxed me' has appeared five or six times, I was wrong, it seems that it has never appeared, of course you are not I'm going to be wrong, and it's me who is wrong."

"'Okay :) I'm just caring about you.' Doesn't that count? You might think it counts."

"Now I don't want to talk to you anymore."

"Anyway, I've coaxed you, and then you don't think it's my fault that the two of you are unhappy at first, right?"

"Your previous girlfriends are absolutely awesome. I said that there is a gap with them. Let's not worry about whether we are wrong or not! It is impossible to make you admit that you are wrong when you think you have done nothing wrong. You have coaxed But it’s my fault that I didn’t coax well, the requirements are too high.”

……

It is actually a terrible thing for two women to quarrel. After the quarrel, you will find that you can't understand what they are arguing about.

Such similar quarrels can be found everywhere between Yan and I, because we are both very stubborn people, and we both feel that there are certain things that the other party should do without saying anything, but in fact this is wrong. A tacit understanding takes time to accumulate and develop Communication is not something that can happen overnight. If you identify this person, you should tolerate everything about her. I know that I am not tolerant enough, and I have too little sense of security. Naturally, I will not give her much. When I am quiet, I will feel sorry for her. , When the temper comes up, he will not give in.

It's just that sometimes when I think about it, she is with me, and this alone is worth all her willfulness.