Leap past the confused days of life

The next day, the clouds and mist in the sky cleared away, and the blue sky was spotless and intoxicatingly beautiful.

But I can't get rid of the bad mood, the hurt is so bad that it can't be eliminated in a day or two.

After pleading again and again, the son failed to stick to his own idea. This was completely forced by filial piety. He reluctantly endured the pain and gave up his love to be a filial son. According to my own wish, I continued to study according to my parents' wishes.

I was in great pain, and I didn't know how such a decision would affect my child's future. I followed my parents' wishes to study popular majors.When things went smoothly, my mind felt uncomfortable. How sensible the child was, he finally figured it out, and began to feel disobedient, but for the sake of his parents, he gave up his own ideas and pursuits in compromise, and put Filial piety is the son who has become his own responsibility and bears the burden of humiliation.

In fact, what my son said to me at this time is that this period is an important period for the formation of ideas. If you miss the important period for the formation of ideas, your life will be wasted in vain. That’s what my son said at that time.

Yes, is this what a child said? No, it is completely unlike ordinary children. How could they understand such profound life principles?It is impossible to produce such profound thoughts at the age of eighteen or nine without brains and sharpening wisdom. It is unbelievable that my son has such a valuable ideology, but I am surprised that he has mature thoughts at this age. No end, it's just that the child's own life dream has not been realized according to the child's idea.

At the time, I didn't think so of my son's thinking. After a long time of ideological struggle, I finally settled the differences of opinion, and I still have to continue to go to school.

What kind of student life the son has experienced, the fluctuations in his thoughts, and what kind of pain and impact of fate he has endured. Perhaps he has been violently injured by the bullying students in the school. People's stubborn character is easy to be attacked by others. I am very clear about this. As a parent, there is no good way to help children solve such problems, and society has no way. Taking into account the problem of violence in schools, this is a problem that has been neglected by the society. As a parent, we can only swallow our anger and face the reality.

Of course, the result of a violent contest with this kind of evil may not be of any benefit to weak children.Such an experience has caused great humiliation to the child's heart. The matter has passed, and the desire for a better life and future has been lost, and the ideal has been hit to the core by the cruel reality.

Yes, I also spent my childhood in this way, and I also encountered the same problem, but I was unable to challenge violence, so I had to acquiesce. Faced with such a problem, the key is how to understand, this is the most important Yes, because you need to solve it yourself, maybe it’s a compromise, maybe it’s a struggle, it’s just a matter of strategy. If this is a kind of exercise, the tempering of human nature will make people mature as soon as possible. The life experience of its muscles and bones.

Holding on to the idea of ​​dedication and never giving up will give people self-confidence. If you don’t experience this kind of psychological pressure, you won’t be able to form an indestructible and detached willpower. It’s too late to repent, but there is hope for a new turnaround. Young people People should not be decadent, the child mainly thinks, to realize the great ideal in mind needs to strengthen confidence.

Agree, express approval, but hesitate, without answering immediately.A requesting or negotiating tone, but not negotiable.It is enough to know, this is the tone of a man's decision-making, which makes people feel at ease, and appreciates the man's approach. He has courage, courage, and excellence, and has become mature.

After intense ideological struggle and understanding of life, one's understanding of the world has been tempered.

It is not easy for a person to build confidence. Once he has a firm belief, he will never change or give up easily. Whether it is interference by chattering, aggressiveness, or imposing one's will on others, it is a waste of effort and cannot be taken away. Zhi's.

Could it be that I don't know the truth about not doing to others what you don't want yourself to do to yourself?Treating my children with extreme distress in choosing to go to school or giving up studying, and feeling that I should not force them that way, I can let my children think about life independently and decide their own destiny. This is the real truth. The beginning of life.

Thinking like this suddenly enlightened my mind. Why do people live according to other people’s wishes? There is no room for freedom.

My head is blank, I can't remember anything, I feel confused and helpless, I am confused and I don't have the sense of order before, and my thoughts are empty. It seems that willpower is not a problem. Practice has proved that people can completely control behavior, so there is no need to force people to do anything.

From life experience, I know that people must engage in social activities, regardless of their ability, they must undergo arduous training in the living environment in order to become useful talents for society, otherwise, just having theory will deviate from the direction of life and track of life.

When I was suffering from intensified pain and contradictions, I naturally felt comforted and happy when I heard the news. Yes, my son has grown up, and I feel that the great and omnipotent God has guided the bright road.The story of "Water Margin" that was forced to tell is such a life, and the creation of characters with distinctive personalities and strong personalities is in line with real life.Not bowing to life is also full of joy in life.

I finally went to school and told my story to me. I said that during the exam, because I didn’t prepare well and review well, the teacher found out that I had plagiarized and confiscated the papers on the spot. At that time, other students were also plagiarizing, and the teacher confiscated myself. When the paper was written, he was upset, got up and left the classroom and slammed the door of the classroom hard. The teacher made his son suffer.

The child likes to play the guitar, and only prepares to participate in the show's performance at the instigation of his classmates. The art form is not rooted in his heart.But I am also secretly happy to be proud of my son. His son is on the right track of life. Most people have no choice but to choose, it is impossible to be perfect, so I am proud of this and feel proud.

If a person can regain his spirit and stand up from adversity, he is proud and great.

As the days go by, I feel the glory.Feel more comfortable, don't complain anymore, in case things have a glimmer of hope and hope, and do it according to the previous thinking.

I still regret it until now. I should re-understand the education of my children. I can’t understand things according to the consensus of social fashion. The children’s personalities are different and they are unwilling to accept it, and even have resistance. The love of children and family overcomes everything.

My mood improved a lot, but I didn't achieve my goal but I realized life. I couldn't help but burst into tears and my heart was rippling, and ordinary people quickly fulfilled their wishes.Is it the power of conscience or morality that produced a huge shock in my heart? I really don’t know how to explain it. Maybe it’s a gratifying progress or an awakening to life.

So I quietly hid in the corner and cried, tears of joy flowed in my heart, tears streaming down my face like a child who was wronged.

When the son finally dared to face the reality and entered the society, he raised his tearful cheeks as if he saw his son wandering around the campus, thinking quickly about the problems of life. This was a real test of the emotional world.

I didn't feel anything in the past, but I instantly understood that there is true love in the world, and I will never feel the existence of true love when I stay by my side. At this time, I revealed the most beautiful emotions in the world that cannot be expressed, and it also touched my son's heart. Maybe this moment I feel that people have grown up, have their own journey of loneliness in life, and the real beginning of life.