Leap past the confused days of life

Feng Lu had a rest today and went out early in the morning to buy ingredients. When he got home and saw Mei, he put the wet coins in a sunny place in the house to dry them. The wet coins were mainly coins.Seeing Feng Lu came back, Mei became furious, chattering and circling all over the floor, tearing up colorful banknotes.

Finally seeing Feng Lu, Mei was furious and turned towards Feng Lu: "How can you do this? You don't worry about anything, and you don't know what you are busy with every day? How can I put my schoolbag in the bathroom? You don't use your brains to do such absurd things, you must have done this mindless thing?" Mei said angrily without thinking.

Feng Lu thought to himself: This trivial matter is nothing, not a big deal, let alone some small denomination banknotes, why should he be so angry, and even go to war to be scolded and complained by Mei.Feng Lu was a little annoyed, but he didn't directly refute Mei's rude treatment of him.Feng Lu thought for a while, thinking, who did this?Putting the schoolbag in the bathroom was definitely not Feng Lu's doing. I knew that Mei had made a mistake, but she was wronging Feng Lu.

Feng Lu found it funny to see Mei getting angry. In order to calm Mei's anger, Feng Lu changed his benevolent face and smiled irrelevantly and said: "Hey, the ground is full of golden armor. We suddenly became I'm a rich man." Joking.

When Feng Lu saw his wife Mei, he felt ridiculous and pitiful when he was angry, and he couldn't help calming down calmly.Only by avoiding Mei's sharp edge when she is angry can the problem be solved well. Feng Lu has understood Mei's temper and did not complain. Facing the angry Mei, he kept silent. He felt that this not only solved Mei's nagging, but also calmed down The resentment in Mei's heart.

Mei usually has the habit of throwing things away, throwing things away at random, and never even sorting out her belongings. Mei thinks that this kind of life is free and easy, and has individuality, so she has not developed a good habit of organizing personal belongings. The work she has done always leaves a small tail, lacks the rules of life, is messy and prone to mistakes, and is always resentful and scolding others.

It's been a long time like this, and I have figured out Mei's temper and background, so I don't care about it anymore, and I am used to Mei's unreasonable life details, so naturally I don't care about the trivial things in life, just laugh about it .

I thought to myself: Who threw the schoolbag into the washroom, randomly throwing it around, not paying attention to the small habits of life, Mei herself usually likes to put things randomly, how can I put these things that are easily affected by moisture in a humid place? ?And who put the materials and coins into the schoolbag, it is not sure who needs to admit their mistakes.

Women's complaints are often expressed as venting personal anger, without any malice, and it's not a big deal, so why make such a big fuss?Such things are just trivial things in life.It's pointless to quarrel over this, Feng Lu thought that men should be magnanimous.

There are some things in life that are hard to explain, not to mention that it is difficult for an upright official to decide on housework. You must be patient with women, but you also need men to take more responsibility and have the courage to take responsibility, so Feng Lu took everything on himself , the courage to admit mistakes, made an apology.

The family life between husband and wife needs friendly management, and it also needs to be taken seriously. Don't be careless, think carefully and carefully, and don't be hypocritical. It is not advisable to use emotion, and it is not acceptable. The relationship between husband and wife needs to be managed , It is best not to have cracks in the relationship.There must be a compromise between one party, especially in small matters without principle issues, which requires a person's self-cultivation and correct face.

Self-cultivation has a certain relationship with the knowledge that people usually accumulate. The deeper the inner cultivation and the accumulation of virtue, the more people know more. The more solid the foundation of Chinese studies in learning the traditional etiquette of gentleness, courtesy and thrift, the better they understand the social atmosphere. In fact, a family is a small society, and we should also pay attention to gentleness, courtesy and thrift. The change of conflicts requires a soft attitude, and any difficult things will be solved easily. Sure enough, Mei no longer complains about Feng Lu.

Although this matter did not cause too many disputes or further conflicts, it had something to do with Feng Lu's humility, and easily quelled an unnecessary quarrel, especially when his wife was furious.

Most of the disputes in life are often resolved by Feng Lu's compromise, which has become a habit.Feng Lu didn't think there was anything wrong with this, men should be like this, there was no need for them to argue endlessly.

Recently, Feng Lu has been in a bad mood, irritable, distracted, listless in everything he does, drowsy and severely lack of sleep, his head seems to have been hollowed out, and he can't think of anything.

The quality of sleep directly affects the mood, and Feng Lu's mood is in a state of anxiety throughout the day.We must follow the laws of life that are in harmony with the laws of heaven, earth, man and nature, and we must not make mistakes, otherwise the body will be completely destroyed.

I didn't sleep well at night and had a splitting headache.Of course, it wasn't because of his wife's complaints that added fuel to the fire during the day, but because Feng Lu's head was blank. He didn't develop a good and regular living habit and indulged himself. This is how it affects his health now. It was entirely due to Feng Lu's overthinking.