Youth Notes

My dream is real, I am amazed, how can I have such a predictive ability.

On the second day of talking with Zhong Wenye, during lunch, my father came back to have dinner with us.We ate around the table.The dream appeared, exactly the same, exactly the same.Every word we said, every expression and every movement of my father, was exactly the same, with no difference.

I was surprised, so surprised.My father actually opposed me being a teacher and firmly opposed it.

The war kicked off.

Dad was a reasonable man, a patient man, and a man of action.He likes his daughter so much, the most well-behaved and docile daughter, the daughter who has been excellent in character and learning since she was a child, and the daughter who is most like him, he teaches her every day.He began to give lessons to his simple and naive daughter who was isolated from the world.He is persuasive and earnestly telling the true face of the world that this daughter does not know.

Dad knows that you are a very simple and ideal child, exactly the same as Dad when he was young, but you are too simple, the world is not what you imagined, Dad knows too much.Dad has worked like an ox or a horse for decades, and has struggled day and night for decades. Only in recent years has he seen the society clearly and woke up. Dad can't let his children be so stupid and so hard.

Serving the country and the people is right, but you don’t have to be a teacher.Do you know that being a teacher is so hard, the salary is so low, and the result of hard work is premature aging. It is a job that destroys people's lives.Every time I see those thin and weak teachers, I feel sad when I see them counting the pennies to support their families. Their hair is the first to be white, and their faces are the first to get wrinkles.Being a teacher is hard work.

Well, you are not afraid of hard work, you will enjoy it.But, sometimes you just can't have fun.Do you know how China's policies have changed?You just don't understand how fast it becomes.Who is the first to suffer when the policy changes?Of course, they are cultural people, writers, and teachers.In China's modern and contemporary history, especially in recent decades, the elimination of counter-revolutionaries, the rectification movement, the criticism of Lin Piao and Confucius, the Cultural Revolution... Which movement did not first attack the intellectuals?Which one of those who have been criticized the most is not educated?You don't know how many people were criticized to death, how many people committed suicide, and how many people went crazy!What is a teacher?It's the stinky old nine!How miserable it was to be criticized during the Cultural Revolution!Our former teacher was stoned to death by students, and two others went crazy.It’s not okay to write a wrong word, or say a wrong sentence. How can an intellectual not write articles, let alone a teacher, who talks so much every day, and if he accidentally says the wrong thing and gets caught, it will be troublesome. Students who are ignorant may treat your conscience like a dog's lungs and drive you to death.For a person like you who can't turn a corner, and who thinks that the whole world is full of good people, I'm really worried for you.

That's right, that era has passed, and now the reform and opening up is taking place, and society is moving forward.Our country is on the way to prosperity.But a lot of things have changed because of this, you don't know how much it has changed, even my father didn't think about it, our thinking can no longer stay in the past era.

I know you are kind, and Dad is proud of your conduct.For example, on Teacher’s Day, you don’t visit the class teacher, but you visit those sub-subject teachers, saying that there will be a large group of people around the home of the class teacher, and the homes of those sub-subject teachers are too deserted.When your homeroom teacher built a new house, you were very active in helping out, moving bricks and lifting sand, and didn't go home until very late and dark.You always care about others more than yourself, you sympathize with those who are the lowest, and many people praise you.Dad knows it all, but the times are different now, you can't just think about others, who is not thinking about yourself now?How many selfless people are there!You think about others, but no one thinks about you, do you understand?

how come?Cough, your dad has experienced a lot!Do you know how many times I fell down, I was deceived, excluded, slandered... I endured everything, my father always believed that the real communists are selfless, and the leadership must be even more selfless, otherwise how can I lead the people How can the masses set an example?Later, Dad realized that these thoughts were too stupid.After the reform and opening up in 80, especially since the [-]s, Dad traveled all over the country, Shanghai, Beijing, Chongqing, Hainan, Shenzhen, Zhuhai, Hong Kong, and many other provinces, cities, and regions, and got in touch with various People, met all kinds of leaders, small and big, even the central government. Dad really opened his eyes, saw a lot, learned a lot, and discovered a lot of dark inside stories.Everything I believed in the past was mostly false, and even more so now.Do you know what the current situation in China is?All officials are not selfless, and there are still many corrupt and black officials.There is no high-ranking official who does not try his best to pave the way for his children: send them abroad, let the children study abroad at public expense and never come back; build a good relationship between officials and support their children; Your children have built a broad and strong network of relationships, so that they can do everything like a fish in water... Your father just realized how stupid he is. For decades, he only knows how to work desperately, throws his wife and children aside, and often crosses his door. I don’t enter, I don’t go home for a long time, and I always put home last. I’m sorry for my wife and children.Alas, the ideals of our generation are extinguished.

Of course, there are not only bad sides in this society. Dad just tells the reality, so that you don’t just know your dreams. Dad doesn’t mean to be like them, but at least you can’t find hardship yourself.You want to realize the ideal of serving the people, fine, but at least you have to choose a better major, a better school, a better job in the future, and a more comfortable life, don’t you think?Parents have suffered too much, and they definitely want their children to be more comfortable. This is human nature.

Which majors and units are better now?First of all, business studies, business.China's reform and opening up has just started, the situation is very good, economic development is in full swing, and the economy has a bright future.However, Dad thinks that you are not suitable. You are too quiet and kind. You have to run around to do business, learn, communicate, and have strong communication skills to deal with all kinds of people.You are too honest.Besides, it's not suitable for women to engage in economics. They don't have enough physical strength, and they get old quickly after staying up too late.Shopping malls are like battlefields. If you stay in them for a long time, you will lose your femininity. Which man would like to find a woman who is stronger than himself?Those economical women are all strong women, leaving their husbands and children at home, it is difficult to have a happy family, many families are broken because of this, and many divorces.Dad is not patriarchal, there is still a division of labor in this society, men dominate outside and women dominate inside, it's all like this.It is also dangerous for a woman to run around alone, and she is easily deceived.

I know, you definitely won't think about these things now, but it will be like this in the future, you just have to get it if you want it.

The second hot spot is to learn English, major in English, and work in an office building in the future.Of course, the reform and opening up and economic development require contact with foreign countries. There are more and more such contacts, and the demand for translation talents is so urgent.You don't know, how much money someone can make translating a paragraph of text, translating those few lines is not tiring, and the working environment is good, doing that job is most suitable for girls.Haven't you always learned English very well?How about applying to the School of Foreign Languages?

Well, customs are fine too.Now that the import and export trade is increasing and strengthening, more staff in this area are needed.Dad knows a lot of friends in the customs and has learned a lot about the situation. It is also a high-paying and easy job, and the level of people he contacts is not too low.

Dad recommends that you take the exam for this kind of major. Dad knows that you have good academic performance and can pass the exam. Even if you fail the exam, Dad can help you, and you don’t have to worry about getting a job. Dad will work hard to pave the way for you.

Why have you been stubborn after telling you for so long!I have explained and analyzed the principles and situations to you, but you still don’t understand?Why do you have to be a teacher!What's so good about being a teacher!Spend all your time and effort teaching other people's children, and when you get home, you can no longer take care of your own family. Nine out of ten teachers can't teach your own children well. There are many such cases!It is very honorable for you to have peaches and plums all over the world, but your own children will be neglected, and you will regret it when you grow old!Do you know how narrow the life of a teacher is?Staying in that school with only a few buildings and a playground for the rest of your life, divorced from the real society, staying at the level of those few textbooks for the rest of your life, staying in the same intellectual class forever, unable to make progress at all, and unable to keep up with society at all development trend.After being a teacher for a long time, my personality will change. I will be noble and self-respecting.Most of the teachers are narrow-minded and petty. The most typical story is the story, which was spread as a joke in the county: One day, someone slaughtered a dog, and when it was time to share the food, the teacher stared closely at the dog. Looking at the plate of dog meat, he said—it doesn’t matter how much the dog meat is divided, the most important thing is the evenness.You see, how stingy and ridiculous they are!And if you spend all day with children and don't understand the world, how many friends can you have?How much help can you get when you encounter difficulties?

What are you doing, huh?What on earth do you want, huh?Just dead-brained, never turning a corner!You think you're really great, huh?You don't know the heights of the sky and the depths of the earth!How old are you, huh?What else have you seen besides going to school?You are ignorant, you want to go your own way!Do you have any social experience?Can the little things learned in school really be eaten?The reality is not as simple as you think!Your dad eats more salt than you eat rice!Why are you so stubborn?How much do you know, huh?You think you're great, don't you?You simply don't take Dad seriously!You have been the most obedient since you were a child, your father has never hit you, every child has hit you, but you are not willing to hit you!Dad is so stupid, but now you have to fight with Dad!It's not telling you to do bad things, it's all for your own good!Do you know how sad dad is?The most obedient daughter turned out to be the most rebellious daughter!How could he not understand the painstaking efforts of his parents!I've talked to you about everything, I've been talking to you for several months, and I've spent so much talking, Dad is so busy with so many things to deal with, and I've tried my best for your future, yet you are indifferent!It's all nonsense!I really don't understand how my daughter has become like this!

You come back to me!explain!Why did Dad just say a word to you and you ran out!Why are you so capricious!What are you daddy!What do you think you are!So amazing!cry?Still dare to cry?Are you embarrassed to cry?Watch me slap you to death!Don't cry!Aren't you amazing?Don't you have many theories and many opinions?Don't you think you are capable?You're right, well, you're right, I'm all wrong!You have ideals, you are revolutionary, you are noble!Okay, if you have the ability, you go out now!Leave this home and never come back!I don't have a daughter like you!I don't have your daughter!let's go, huh?You go, if you have the ability, you go!Go outside and drink the Mistral wind! **, I can't even say a word!Self-esteem is so strong!Such a strong self-esteem is useless!You want to take the teacher training exam, so go for it!Let me see what you will be like in the future, you will regret it!When the time comes, don't drag yourself back to beg me!Don't tell us when you are in trouble!Cried to death by the students and swallowed it in the stomach!You deserve it!

Wow, you are so good now, you are very famous!The whole world knows that I have a very noble and revolutionary daughter, those old friends will praise you as soon as they see you, you are amazing!you are great!

Oh, today an old friend came back from a foreign country. He heard that I have a daughter who is about to take the college entrance examination. He blamed me, why don’t I find a good school and major for my daughter, or find a way for her to study abroad.I said, there is no way, my daughter is more revolutionary than when I was young, she wants to serve the people, and she wants to make selfless dedication.

Hehe, I had dinner with the leaders of the Education Bureau today. They all praised me for having a rare and good daughter, but they gave up taking advantage of the superior conditions and wanted to become a teacher!They said, how many people are willing to apply for teachers now?Normal school is the choice of those difficult families who have no way out. I have never seen a normal school student in a situation like your daughter's!In this era when everyone looks at "money" and wants to "go to sea", it is so precious!Wow, everyone praised me for being so virtuous and upright, saying that China's education industry has been saved, and they said: Admire me!admire!It's still you, an old revolutionist, who is well educated. Cheers to our old revolutionaries!