Wang Xin

Mr. Zhiyu:

Hello!

When we received this letter from you at home, we were camping outside. I was very happy at the time. When I got home and the butler handed this letter to me, I thought you had regained your usual vitality. What I didn’t expect was, Something like this can happen in your home.I admit that if something like this happened to me, I would definitely not be able to accept it.But, it happened, didn't it?I think that since something has happened, we have to accept it and fight it hard. Blindly avoiding it will not help the development of things.

First, you must relax, because you will be the driving force for your mother to fight cancer. If you are tense for a long time, you will have accidents yourself, and you may become a burden on your parents.You can be alone in the room, empty your head, don’t think about anything, you can play some soft music, you can choose the music of Johann Strauss, he is a famous Austrian composer, conductor, violinist, The music he composed makes me feel very beautiful, and there is an optimistic emotion in it. If you use his music to meditate, it will have a very good effect.

Second, you must develop the belief that you will win and pass this belief on to your family.People's mood is regulated by their own hearts, and the quality of people's mood will affect the process of people's treatment.According to the survey, benign emotions are undoubtedly a positive and positive response to health, which is beneficial to health.If people can always maintain an optimistic mood and their immune mechanism can be active and vigorous, they will reduce the chance of contracting diseases and achieve "spiritual immunity".Thus, positive emotions can improve health and delay the aging process.Bad emotions have a great impact on people's health, it will make people's immune function low, easy to get sick, premature aging and short life.Therefore, harmful inferior emotions are the enemy of people.If you establish the belief that you must win and pass it on, only by adjusting your mood can you better make the disease better and faster.

Third, you learn to take care of yourself.Your father should be bored and very tired recently.From your letter, I can feel that your father loves your mother very much, and your father should be the most sad person when something like this happened to your mother.As children of our age, what we lack the most is self-control. We often make mistakes, and then let our parents help us deal with some things after we make mistakes.But now, when this kind of thing happened to your mother, your father will put all his energy on your mother. If you take care of yourself at this time, it will relieve your father from a certain burden and make him feel better. Ok go take care of your mother.

Fourth, you must not be sad.Since everyone is born in this world, the God who gave us birth will arrange the way and time for us to leave this world.Your mother came to this world decades ago, grew up, studied, married your father, gave birth to you, became a mother, and got sick. This is the process that God arranged for her to go through.Everyone will be like this, it's just a matter of time, and one day in the future you, your father, including me will all leave this world.We have to face this issue optimistically. If your mother really passed away unfortunately, this approach will allow her to live a good life in the last period of her life and relieve her pain.

Fifth, through your letter, I can feel your despair and sadness, as I said above, this is something that has happened, you have to accept and digest.According to your description, your mother is a very beautiful, elegant and intellectual woman. She must be very concerned about her appearance, but the current treatment has made her lose these things. She will not be able to accept it, and she will definitely lose her temper. At this time, And you can't act like you're afraid of seeing her the way she is, because doing so will make her give up hope of living.As her daughter, you should try your best to make her feel that you don't want to lose her very much, and let her establish the idea that I will live for my daughter.

Zhiyu, you are Ouyang Zhiyu, you are a cheerful, happy, positive girl, you can bring happiness to others, I look forward to your letter every month, sometimes I will find you when I am depressed From the letters sent to me over the past year, I have found something that can relieve my depressed mood.These aspects of you are very powerful and can infect others.Your parents definitely want you to be happy and carefree every day.You have to think about why your parents didn’t tell you the news. They don’t want to see you sad, so you have to be happier, more positive, and more optimistic, so that your mother can safely accept the doctor’s treatment of her. Treatment.You are still the driving force behind your father's support, and you can make him feel that he is not alone in this world, and you will be by his side.Therefore, you have to cheer up, you have to be strong, you have to be optimistic, come on!I support you behind your back!

I hope that when you write next time, you will not be sad, but will bring good news.I wish your mother a speedy recovery!

unknown gentleman

2005. 8, 18

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